If you are very kind to your colleagues, but the other person tells you your secrets everywhere, and says a lot about you behind your back, you always think you want to chase her.

if you like her, take the initiative. If you don't take the initiative, don't worry. In terms of men or love, take the initiative and talk to her more. Don't be shy! Half a year after graduation, the most regretful thing about school nostalgia is that I didn't fall in love at school. Finally, I wish you success in getting a beautiful woman back! Attached love a book for your reference: (Experience is very useful)

. Note: take the initiative to invite her to dinner, because most girls don't want to say that they are too hungry. Ask her what she wants to eat. If she doesn't comment, you decide the menu. Don't force her to leave. You think you should be polite to the other party, but in fact, you should embarrass the other party. You should be careful not to bite your teeth when ordering, because it will spoil the atmosphere. When eating, try not to make any noise. You should eat with your side. You should let go of your appetite. Girls usually like boys' appetite.

Skills of saying goodbye to her temporarily: It's best to say goodbye to her at the appropriate station and stay with her car until the bus comes, get on the bus and drive them out again. This woman won't think you're nervous. This means that if she is willing to let you take her home, you have a little heart. This must be a different time, that is, the girl on the first date should be over and want to get along with you. This is a trick to make her look forward to her next date.

3, to understand her skills: generally women don't hate strange men approaching, because they subconsciously think that this is because they have enough charm to attract men, but if you say something inappropriate, your words and deeds are unnatural, and they don't stop to talk to you, so you should think of a good conversation before you strike up a conversation, depending on different people. But remember, don't strike up a conversation with a strange woman from behind. Look at her face with a natural smile instead of looking at her whole body from top to bottom. Don't let her think that when you are going to strike up a conversation with her, don't rush to touch any part of your body.

5, to deal with the art of competitors: 1. Keep Polite and Temperament: If you are dating your girlfriend and meet her opponent, you can gently say, "Hey, it's really smart. How about we come to a three-day trip?" This not only means that you will never give up the property expelled by an aggressive opponent on this day, no matter what the result is, his girlfriend will leave a good impression, because it is not too embarrassing for you to make her in this scene.

2。 Don't criticize your ex-girlfriend's opponent: your girlfriend's opponent who boasts advantages is in front of you, and you don't refute or ridicule him. She may want you to have these advantages, you can politely agree and affirm, and imply that you will accept and learn, so that your girlfriend will feel that you have the virtue of a gentleman.

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The girl you are after, no matter how you hide it, soon, a woman will know the glance when a man's eyes sweep her chest. The best time

: When a girl is alone in contact with a boy, she is most susceptible. Boys should seize this opportunity and be positive. If a third party exists, they will usually flatly reject boys to hide their true feelings.

Boys are more sensitive to visual stimuli, while girls are sensitive to auditory stimuli. Boys who move girls faster are tender and full of musical words on the phone. Boys should fully arouse the charm of their own language.

BR /> The boy who just finished dating a girl is very physically and mentally unstable, and he still stays in the intoxicated mood and expectation of dating for a long time. At the end of the date, the boy used this time to further impress each other. BR p> When a girl is in a clean and comfortable environment, she is easy to get emotional. This environment has no interference that makes her feel disgusted and uneasy, which makes her heart and soul relax and feel alive.

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: Girls are easily tempted when they hear continuous compliments. Even though they know that boys are deliberately flattering and complimenting her, as time goes by, she will feel confused. Their emotions are more likely to accept compliments, flattery and flattering old-fashioned courtship signals. Perhaps this is an animal instinct response.

Six: In an unfamiliar environment, the girl's emotions are out of control, and the children often change the time, place and way of dating, so she is constantly enjoying novelty.

seven: a boy who tries hard to pursue a girl suddenly gives up the attack, which is most likely to mobilize the girl's curiosity and desire, but will make her tempted.

BR /> 8. In fact, the true love of boys is the most effective weapon to impress girls. When a girl is sure that the other person loves her sincerely, it is easy to love a boy.

9. Chatting on the mobile phone: We often encounter problems in telephone conversation, especially when you are not familiar with each other and sometimes you really don't know what to say. You often face an embarrassing situation, that is, the other parties suddenly quiet down and just don't talk to each other, usually when you have to say goodbye! When you put down the phone, it is perfect for your heart to feel more pressure, because you start to worry that everyone else is still in this situation, which makes you completely unwilling. If the result seems to make their relationship drift away, we miss each other very much.

what should I do at this time? You can start talking about each other's interests or hobbies. When everyone talks about his interests or good things, they often start with eloquence in the whole flight. This is human nature. This will make other identities, and you will begin to think that your subconscious frequency is the same, which will not lead to a mobile phone number in TV advertisements. It can be said that even if the wrong number is with the other party for two hours, when it comes to topics that interest the other party, contrast will not only make the other party feel superior, but even lead to a sense of accomplishment on the other side. Therefore, the first step is to talk about her interest, and the second step is to dig out her superiority. For example, when you know that she likes ballroom dancing, You can talk about this topic, maybe you won't understand it, but because you are eager to learn and ask questions, it will also stimulate each other's sense of superiority and sense of accomplishment, and you can better understand her thoughts. Usually, you will find that some of her students even participated in the competition, and the competitive advantage will be your best theme at this time.

in addition, you can also hello! Use rhetorical questions more to guide the other person to speak, for example, are you in a good mood? The love you want doesn't seem to hold? Maybe you will hear a standard of voice, which is' no', and you don't need to be defeated. Because of this, then you should strike while the iron is hot and ask her why at once. You will find that under the timely guidance, sometimes a rhetorical question makes the other person's heart full of hardships and tells her heart, but her heart will be easier.

13 Ten Commandments of Love.

, remember to call to welcome every day. BR p> When joking, she says you laugh.

tell her that I want to see you again soon.

when talking to her, you must keep your eyes on her.

Call her and just say, "I'm fine. I just want to hear your voice.

remember to buy some small gifts for her when she is ill.

wrote a poem about her.

invite her to dance in the living room.

is there any reason to send her a bunch of flowers?

Send a card every day and tell her, "I miss you very much."

a small gift for her anniversary.

in the middle of talking to her, I suddenly kissed her.

Take her for a walk along the beach and look at the stars in the sky (if you are not elegant and unpretentious, try not to have the opposite effect. )

tell her a little secret about you.

remind her of her beauty, she is unprecedented in the world (of course, if the goal is, she is not very beautiful, like some other compliments. )

stop giving her some surprises.

watch a female art movie with her, and don't criticize her for being too sentimental.

chat with her practical support candle in the evening.

just say "I love you" every day.

14, telephone dating

Atmosphere mobile phone-girls are more relaxed and easy to get emotional in the evening. Therefore, at this time, the effect is better than playing music during the day. She likes to listen and talk about interesting things, the best side.

travel consultation telephone-when you travel, be sure to call her, "I wish I could go with you" or "shall I bring the gift you want?"

< BR/Consolation call-Your partner is ill. When she calls for the first time, comfort her in a cheerful tone, but don't make her too tired and talk for too long.

Fourth, talking on the phone-I miss her and want to tell her directly. When I meet something that makes me happy or upset, they will think that she is your first thought.

said that she likes to hear

Happy Birthday, and I hope you will be beautiful every day.

, your voice sounds really good ...

Third, I just want to listen to your voice, only to hear your voice, my heart calms down.

four days and four nights, I miss you. Do you always think of me?

pay attention to whether? We spent several intoxicating evenings in the warm moonlight.

6, the weather is getting colder and colder, so you should be careful, it's not cold ...

7, your sweet smile, looking back affectionately, I can't forget it.

8. What's the wedding day?

15, women don't like the opposite sex 53

1. A man who talks big. Because of entanglement with women, men like gummy candy. 3。 Men crave alcoholism. 4。 The best friend is a cannibal. 5。 Men have tears and fail to honor their parents. A man who can't support himself. 7。 Ten working men a year. 8。 All men who eat, drink, engage in prostitution and gamble. Ten mothers who cannot be separated have no sense of independence. A spendthrift. Long hair, male and female, regardless of 12 people. Horse slaughter is a very knowledgeable person (prostitute). A posh man, 14. Men are keen on "Peng Exactly". People who can't eat bitterness 16. Sharp-tongued man like a woodpecker. Idle, slovenly man 18. A acid is like an old pedant man with 19 "money", because people without feelings are 2. No one waits, refuses to eat, and dresses up as a man. Dressed up beautifully, every day is like a butterfly man. People who are addicted to mahjong tables. 23。 Strong materialistic man 24. A man who pursues beauty by hook or by crook. Without a word, it will attack people 26. Yes, political people, not innocent children. Men only care about your family background and bride price. Arrogant, complacent and supercilious man. "Coward, servile man 3. Keep what idealism, there is no actual man 31. Step on several boats. Men 32 don't match the words and deeds of men 33. The man who wipes his hair and blows it takes an hour to go back to China at 34 o'clock every morning. Utilities cost more than a few dollars, and then groan, men 36, men who smoke on crowded buses 37 are not a joke 38. The motionless man was angry. Man pretends to be crazy by drinking. Men write love letters and meet beautiful women, and their eyes are watering. "Dirty joke" 43 man in front of the girl's face. Advantage also tell a good man 44. Suspicious, jealous strange man 45 46 likes to relax and hate work, and people like to punch their faces and pretend to be fat men 41. 47。 Tempting ears are soft. 49 people who claimed to be geniuses made countless friends of the opposite sex, and 5 men. Like man 51, a friend who takes advantage of petty gain is unfaithful to man 52. I just want to hear compliments from men.

a man with a depressed life 16, pursuing the first lesson of absolute confidence Basic Law

Self-confidence is to do everything well, and chasing girls is no exception. To successfully chase girls, they need absolute confidence, and you must have the belief that "you must succeed, not alone".

You should take "self-reliance" to pick up girls as your own strength, and try to avoid relying on friends. Not only can different friends and family members help you, but too many people know that your target is more likely to be anti-productivity. But girls don't like to rely on friends to chase girls.

However, you are confident in volunteering. Even if you are not a "Prince Charming", you can dress up as a prince. It is important to share your confident temperament and demeanor, which is irresistible. In short, that is: self-confidence, self-confidence and self-confidence. Classes confuse women and men

BR p> Most women don't like too many honest people and too little fun! In fact, the most popular male green person is cheerful and lively, can't refuse the qualification to others, can't keep a secret, and is a bit overconfident and a bit lazy and reckless without the danger of the opposite sex.

lover model

gentle, happy, masculine, good at taking care of others, smart, reliable, honest and healthy, an interesting athlete-like physique, just bright, responsible for cute, inclusive and strong economic good

In fact, as long as you have any of the above, you can say that you already have the conditions to attract women, but there are more and more, which is quite favorable in the pursuit process, and the smaller one is more difficult to break away.

However, even if you have some conditions, there is no guarantee that you will be able to invite any woman, because you have any advantages. At the same time, you can't have some shortcomings that are totally unacceptable or tolerated by each other at the same time, such as: poor people

strong sense of self-centeredness, cowardice, laziness, uncleanness, vulgar pests, weak liars, nervous snobbery, serious slowness, rough judgment, and trivial family pedantry

In general, attracting women to use their eyes. Voice and body language, when you meet for the first time, you can look around her ears. When the two grids cross their heads and then turn to the ears naturally, she will naturally have a deep impression and have the opportunity to speak a little higher than her. She is cheerful and attracted to her loudly. You continue to talk and listen to her, and our attention shifts to her lips, making her feel that you are listening to her very attentively, with four fingers on the table side by side, very much.

When you meet the word

love in class, you should always be alert to the edge of your eyes. On the road, it is almost the most inexplicable concept. It is enough to make two people's love, love and even walk into the church.

Because, when you are in any place and occasion: bus, subway, street, restaurant, banquet, workplace, don't hesitate to meet the long-awaited women who even sleep on the edge, the opportunity may be gone forever. BR p> Seize the current opportunity, seize the current beauty, only in this way, you naturally talk, she met you, impressed, liked, loved, missed you, in short, you have to start the first step.

However, there is no doubt that this requires great courage and caution. If a word is wrong, it is useful to study frequently in daily life, when you can cope with it.

Next, try to give some opening remarks for your reference:

1. Attracted or can't help but expect her to wait and see, when she doesn't look back. (This trick, even if people don't attract you, will find it hard to be charming and complacent and can't help, but look back at you)

2. Smile (they will believe that they look like they must please others to create a good impression, and they may also be reported to smile. ）

3。 She asked