Grandma Liu will be laughed at every time she goes to the Grand View Garden. Why does she always go?

As the old saying goes, courtesy demands something. Granny Liu in A Dream of Red Mansions is not an uneducated cultivator, but a knowledgeable old lady in the backcountry.

It costs more than twenty taels to hold a crab feast in the Grand View Garden. Granny Liu said in surprise,

"Crabs like this are worth five cents a catty this year. Ten jins of five money, five five two two five, three five one five, and then get on the dining tables, a * * * has more than twenty taels of silver. Amitabha! The money for this meal is enough for us farmers to spend a year. "

(The accounts are calculated very quickly, so it can be seen that Grandma is superior to ordinary people. In ancient times, women couldn't read, and many of them couldn't settle accounts, even Xifeng couldn't read. )

She instructed her son-in-law, Wang Dog, that he didn't know how many bowls to eat and how much to eat, that he didn't know how to manage when he was young, that he was used to eating and drinking with his ancestors' fuhai, and that he didn't care about his success when he had money, so he wouldn't be a gentleman without being angry! Granny Liu also said that Chang 'an City is full of money, so you might as well look for old relatives to help you.

This remark is not common among housewives. Her daughter, Liu, killed herself first. Wang Dog's parents were rich as officials, not ordinary farmers, so they came up with the idea that Grandma Liu took her grandson as a gift to cover her hands and went to Jiafu for a windfall.

it's true that granny Liu is illiterate and vulgar, but it's not true that she hasn't been to the scene. Otherwise, when you meet your ancestor Jia Mu, you make up stories and flatter yourself, and you are not afraid to make a fool of yourself and make Jia Mu and others happy for fun?

The book says that Granny Liu is an old widow for many years, which means that her husband has been dead for many years and has only one daughter. Twenty years ago, she and her daughter went to her son-in-law's noble house, Wangfu. She has seen a rich family, and is by no means an ordinary old woman. That's "the East China Sea lacks a white jade bed, and the Dragon King has come to invite King Jinling". I also met Mrs. Wang, who is a girl, and Miss Wang Jiaer, who is ringing fast.

In fact, Granny Liu is a person with high emotional intelligence. She knows that her status is low, and she is not worthy to play happily with the aristocratic women such as the Grand View Garden owner Jia Mu, so she is not afraid of being teased, and she is afraid that people will ignore her.

Because human feelings can be spiritual or material, and they are interactive and mutually beneficial. If you are useful, don't be afraid of being used. Otherwise, she would still go. (Think of Fu Seoul's joke: If there are primary school headteachers, middle school headteachers and obstetricians and gynecologists among the classmates, you will have to climb to this class reunion ...)

Granny Liu will naturally pay the price of human feelings when she goes to Jiafu for a windfall. What's the point of having fun for Jia Mu, the host and guest are all happy, and they can exchange hundreds of taels of silver and a car full of valuable gifts to live a good life and be teased by them?

from granny Liu, who was covered with flowers, was teased by Yuanyang at dinner, persuaded by a small wine cup, and ordered to drink, Daiyu made fun of her as a "female locust" and deliberately made a fool of herself.

granny Liu stood up and said loudly, "Lao Liu, Lao Liu, she eats like an ox, and she doesn't look up after eating an old sow." But he kept silent with his cheeks bulging, which made everyone laugh.

Therefore, Granny Liu is a sophisticated person, and the Grand View Garden where she is located appears as an ignorant person, making herself laughed at, just because the so-called courtesy is inferior to others, she must ask for something.

and granny Liu is not always laughed at when she goes to the Grand View Garden. Granny Liu went to the Grand View Garden for a short time for the first time, and the people she met were just a few people in Xifeng's house and Zhou Rui's family. She can't be laughed at, only when she went there for the second time.

However, the gift of roses has a lingering fragrance, and Wang Xifeng occasionally gave a favor to Granny Liu, who later helped her daughter Qiaojie out of the fire pit, so it can be considered that Qing Yu is the home of good deeds.