How to ask girls out to meet?

How to ask girls out to meet, the first time is often the most difficult. In fact, the language routine of asking girls out requires a lot of skills. Here are some words I have carefully arranged about how to ask girls out to meet.

How to ask a girl out to meet 1 1, when the chat atmosphere between you reaches its peak?

Chatting with women, the more you chat, the more interested you are, especially when you talk about some common topics, and feel that the atmosphere between the two sides is getting higher and higher, then you can throw out invitations.

For example, "I feel that you are also a very interesting person when you talk." You are free tomorrow night, or let's go out for a drink. "

2. Chat and invite when you have similar interests.

Man: "By the way, do you like drinking coffee and swimming?"

Woman: "Well, fortunately, I usually go to coffee shops when I am alone."

Man: "That's good. If you are free this weekend, you can come out for a cup of coffee and chat. "

Similar to the above, when both parties talk about the same interest point, you can make an invitation related to this interest point.

Step 3 invite one day in advance

Sisters are usually invited on Saturday and Sunday, so if you want to invite each other, it is best to make an appointment the night before the appointment. For example, if you want to invite your target out for dinner on Saturday, you'd better call her on Friday night. In this way, if someone asks her out again, she will usually be rejected.

4. Give her a reason to come out.

The basic element of invitation: give the other party a good reason. Because most girls are reserved, even if they are interested in you, they need a reasonable reason to date you.

For example, I think XX's drinks are delicious. Let's have a look after work. There is a snack bar on XX Road, which has a good reputation. Let me take you to eat. Staying at home is boring. Let's show you around outside. When inviting, you don't have to add: How about it? Is it okay? You can tell her in a declarative tone that this confident tone will make girls more willing to date you.

How to ask girls out to meet? 2. I usually invite girls to participate in language routines.

M: What do you do after work on Friday?

Woman: Why, what's the matter?

Man: Oh, I'm waiting for you to ask me out. I just finished my work these days and want to go surfing!

Woman: Why did I ask you out?

Man: I always thought you were a gentle, kind and caring person, but I didn't expect you to be so cold.

Woman: Haha, I am a very gentle person.

M: Then let's go to XXX to see a movie on Friday.

Woman: Think about it!

Man: Forget it. Go buy a ticket and I'll treat you to a big meal.

W: What movie do you want to see?

Male: xxxxx

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In fact, this kind of chat with girls can be seen everywhere, with the purpose of routine girls. Of course, if you want to ask a girl out with this usual language routine, you need to have a premise: that is, this girl has a certain degree of affection for you and you have asked her out several times, otherwise this girl will not agree to you so easily.

Second, interested in inviting girls to language routines

If you already know something about girls and know what girls are interested in, you can invite girls to ask her out with interesting language routines, such as:

M: What do you like to do after work? I like sports and occasionally run.

W: What a coincidence. Me too.

M: So, are you really unhappy?

Woman: Not fast. Most girls will say that they are unhappy. After all, few girls can run fast and can't stand running fast. )

Man: Well, if I slow down, you can catch up with me!

With the word "chase", girls will find your chat more interesting, and at the same time, they can make a provocative expression to deepen the heat of the topic. Generally speaking, girls may be shy at this point, because when it comes to this point, they will get some hints that she will make up for being chased by herself. If you show a certain charm, or you already have a certain emotional foundation, then the girls may have been stumbling in their hearts.

Third, the ambiguous invitation to girls language routines

In the process of chatting with girls, if you have passed the preliminary shallow stage, you can have an appropriate ambiguous chat and invite girls to ask her out with ambiguous language routines, but you should pay attention to one degree. Here is a case to share with you:

Man: How do you drink?

W: Not so good.

Man: Nothing, then I dare not drink you down easily (shy expression).

W: Who will drink with you?

Man: Don't you know? Girls only get drunk in front of people they like or trust.

W: It seems that you know a lot about it. You often do this to girls!

M: No, no, no, I won't take advantage of people's danger when dating girls. I'll do it when I'm awake (giggle). Why don't we try drinking on our next date?

Woman: You are good or bad!

How to ask girls out to meet 3 (1) The purpose of dating is very clear.

People are afraid of meeting each other, but trees are afraid of uncovering their skins.

Many times, the girl is cold and pushing around on the phone, but if you cheat her out, she will have a good time. The purpose of the invitation is to meet. As long as we can meet, we can say anything. All the demands of girls can be compromised, such as girls saying, "I can't come back too late." "I don't like singing." "I'm not feeling well. I can't climb the mountain." How to answer these excuses, the following (7) specifically talked about it.

(2) Overcome the fear of dating.

Looking at the eight-point number in the mobile phone, she is so beautiful and rich. Can I catch up with her? Do you want to call her or not? Otaku seems to have endless fears in his heart. I'm afraid to talk to girls and ask them out. You can read how to overcome fear before chatting up. I remember how I asked the girl I like out, picked up the phone and put it down, thinking about whether this time is appropriate, what should I say, whether the place where I asked her out is appropriate, whether she will come out, what should we do when we meet ... The first question is, do you want to contact me if you have a phone number? The answer is always "contact!" At most, the other party doesn't answer the phone or send text messages back. The loss is just a little phone bill. When will you contact? The sooner the better! Especially in big cities. In a small town, it is possible that after a month, you will contact again. The girl still remembers the scene where you accosted that day. But in big cities, girls don't remember who you are the next day. My habit is to send text messages or call girls on the spot. Generally, I will say, "I am the cheeky Ah Yue just now, and your eyes are really good at talking." Let's go out for a cold drink another day. "

(3) the text is short.

Invitation is not chatting, and the skill of chatting with women is not rambling, without head or tail. Express the invitation simply and clearly, but in special circumstances, the invitation can be used as a means to keep in touch, and the invitation is the topic of communication. For example, if you regularly invite her out to play or eat, even if the other party refuses, you can call to harass her in this way; Every time the other party refuses, it will form a refusal debt and finally come out.

(4) reduce expectations.

As soon as he came up, he said, "Let's get a room!" No girl can promise. You said, "Let's go shopping and get something to eat!" Many girls won't refuse. Don't make too many demands at first, use the strategy of camel entering the tent and make demands on the girl bit by bit. Although the first thing I said was to go out for dinner and chat, I had a good time chatting. Sure, I can go to the park again.

(5) stimulate interest.

Curiosity kills the cat! Girls are naturally curious. If you invite a girl to dinner, there are two ways. The first way is to tell her that there is a restaurant with western-style decoration and steak pie, and the atmosphere is very romantic. The second way is to tell her that there is a romantic restaurant. She asks you what you look like, and you will know when you go. You will never be disappointed. Obviously, the second way is more exciting and attractive!

(6) stick to it.

Stick to the end, in other words, have a strong desire to satisfy. For the rejection of girls, insist on at least three times! I dated a girl, spent a month, texted, called and invited many times, and finally came out. At the end of this article, I will attach a post I found online, which is the voice of a girl. Everyone should be inspired to read it.

(7) Pay attention to tone and intonation.

In fact, this is more important than all the dating topics and dating skills mentioned above. Girls come out to see you not because of what you said, but because they are attracted by your magnetic voice, infected by your enthusiasm and conquered by your strength and confidence. If it really doesn't work, practice in front of the mirror, look at your expression and smile, record your voice and listen to it yourself. I have a deep understanding of dating. I just said in a casual and anxious tone, "Are you free tonight?" I want to talk to you about something. Let's meet at the gate of Jin Guanghua Square! "The other party came out without much thought. But it's still an old saying, in fact, it doesn't matter what you say, what matters is how you say it!

(8) handle objections skillfully.

Here is a dating technique called "biting the end of a conversation". This skill is very useful. After you learn it, you will also use it when you bargain in shopping. That is, no matter how the girl objects, you will push the hand of Tai Chi on the basis of what she said, unload your strength and fight back with your strength. The specific step is to express understanding-re-demand. For example, you: "Come out to play at night! Girl: I work overtime at night. You: It's so hard. Your boss is so inhuman. I'm going to the industrial and commercial bureau to report him! (Show understanding, stand in the same position-unload) Working overtime all day, life can't be like this, you have to take a vacation for yourself. (Her excuse became the reason for your invitation-borrowing money) I know a place to eat midnight snack, which is cheap and delicious! What time do you get off work? " (Request again-Fight back)