My date's brother always calls me fat! Say that women are fat and can't see anything! I took cold medicine today. He asked me if I was taking diet pills. Really annoying

I think your question can be summed up as "a fat/a little fat person, should others laugh at him/her?"

As you said, this so-called "fat" is a fact, so on this basis, joking and not joking are two choices.

People who don't laugh at you, we think he is considerate and kind, and he has high emotional intelligence. Perhaps thoughtfulness and kindness are unexpected to many people, but they must have high emotional intelligence. But why doesn't he say that you are fat is a sign of high emotional intelligence? Because you regard obesity as a shortcoming that you can't accept, "he knows, but he doesn't say" is a sign of high emotional intelligence.

Then people who laugh at you are divided into intentional jokes and unintentional jokes. Besides, unintentional. He said this thing. Why do you think what he said makes you sick? Why do you think what he said annoys you? Why do you feel that everyone seems to be hostile to you? Today, I took cold medicine. He asked me if I was taking diet pills. )。 It doesn't matter whether you say it or not. He just wants to attack you and always finds out your shortcomings.

If you agree with everything I said above, you will find that we all regard obesity as an unspeakable shortcoming, but right? Look at people. I have always been fat and laughed at by my friends. When I calm down and think carefully, I find that I will fall into a new problem. "Why should I shut others up?" I think obesity is a disadvantage. Why should I ask others to be an advantage? Why should I ask others not to say anything?

So, subjects, if you think there is something wrong with obesity, then you should take action. Don't use all kinds of things as excuses for laziness and lack of self-discipline. If you think there is nothing wrong, can you control what others say?

I read your question and your interaction with other answers. I think you are a kind girl, so I typed so many words to tell you that to be yourself is not to be indifferent to anyone, but to face your weaknesses bravely. If you think he is, but he still doesn't act or doesn't act, please don't complain about others' "low emotional intelligence". After all, everyone has been kidnapped by emotional intelligence for too long.

Everyone is a mirror, and it is the purpose to reflect a better self, not to attack him. It is a mirror that makes me fat.