Qin Lan talks about age anxiety and says she just wants to be a cutie. At what stage in your life do you feel age anxiety?

When a person is anxious because of his age, he feels very anxious inside.

Tell me a story. I repeated the college entrance examination for one year, and went to school one year later than my peers. When I went to college, I found that all my classmates were two or three years younger than me. This is what I This is the first time I feel anxious about my age. Later, during the military training in college, I happened to meet my former high school classmate. I was a freshman at that time and she was a sophomore. She saw me wearing camouflage clothing and carrying a maza ready to go to military training, and then she stopped me. At that time, I felt I was very ashamed and wanted to find a crack in the ground to crawl into.

I went to a five-year university, one year later than a four-year university. Later, I went to an internship unit for an internship. My girlfriend also broke up with me. I saw that the regular employees in the internship unit were about the same age as me. I have a car, a house, and even children. In contrast, I don’t even have a girlfriend. This is the second time that I feel anxious because of my age. The feeling at that time was many times stronger than the first time. It’s almost like finding a woman to get married quickly to end this anxiety. However, later on I could never find a girlfriend, and I could never find the feeling of being in love with each other.

Another story is that a friend planned to take the postgraduate entrance examination. In the first year, he failed; The nervous system uses a hormone axis. If bacteria infect the digestive tract, the brain may become confused, so the third-year postgraduate entrance examination still does not perform well. Does he feel anxious because of his age? The answer is yes. He said, don't tell my classmates that I am still preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination. At this age, others will laugh if they hear it. What a sad story.

We cannot treat things passively because one thing fails. Everything has pros and cons, and blessings and misfortune depend on each other. If you still want to distinguish between good and bad when looking at one thing, then I can only say that you are still too young, too simple, and sometimes too naive.

Age anxiety disorder, we must also treat it in two parts.