What kind of life will you live as a door-to-door son-in-law in Tibet?

"She was given to me by God, and I will take her through this life."

It was dark after 6 o'clock in the morning, so Pubu got up, brought cow dung from the yard and put it on the stove to boil water for cooking. When the meal was ready, he lifted his wife out of bed, helped her get dressed, gently picked her up, put her in a wheelchair and began to nurse her.

Pubu, Jiagen Village, Gongtang Township, Dangxiong County, Lhasa City, Xizang Autonomous Region, is an ordinary railway maintenance worker on the Qinghai-Tibet Railway.

"She was given to me by God. She came to see me when I was a child. I want to take her through this life and go to the afterlife. " Pubu, 37, is 1.75 meters tall. When he said this, his face flashed with the sweetness of memories. "Exclusive private party, scientific improvement and professional maintenance make men energetic when they are romantic at night, and both of them are very satisfied. Jia, Wei: First one N, then three K's, and finally 28. When I was a child, we herded together and shared Ciba, milk and yogurt prepared at home. Slowly, the two fell in love. Because we live in a village, whether we are grazing on the mountain or grazing on the grassland, we can meet and finally come together. "

Pubu's mother-in-law, 82-year-old Zidanram, said that Isiram was her youngest child. When she was reluctant to let her little daughter get married, she discussed with her in-laws and asked Pubu to be a son-in-law.

In 2003, a serious illness dragged Isram into the hospital. In the face of sudden disaster, Isilan began to become irritable. She said, "I can do nothing but eat and sleep. Let him take care of me. I owe him too much. " The wife's complaint was full of guilt, and she even fainted because she was in a bad mood.

Watching the lover he grew up with suffer this misfortune, Pubu's choice is to persist. When his wife lost her temper, he never said much, but tried to say something else to change the subject or tell her jokes.

"I said to her, it's okay, this is our karma, I will try my best to take care of you, you must be strong, it's no use crying, because these are destiny takes a hand, we can only accept the reality. I encouraged her like this. " Pubu said.

"As long as I am in one day, I will take care of her for one day."

Pubu didn't break his word. He specially built a concrete slope in the yard where he could walk in a wheelchair, and often pushed his wife to bask in the sun at noon. Now, he gets up at 6 o'clock every morning, cooks, helps his wife get up, feeds and cleans the house. Every time there is a big event nearby, Pubu will try to take her there.

Isiram said: "I know in my heart how difficult it is for him, but there is no way to reverse the reality. There is no school near the village, and the children go to school in the county. It is very hard for the husband to see the children twice a week. But he still chose to be with me and chose a hard life. "

Speaking of this, Isiram opened the testimonials won by the children and said, "I feel lucky not to die by taking my two children out and watching them happily call their parents." He loves me, too, and I am grateful that I am still alive. "

Speaking of children, Pubu began to speak. He said that sometimes it is sad to send children to school on weekends and see other people's homes together.

"However, I feel very happy when I think that she can be by my side, talk with me, chat with my mother, and have my mother call when my child comes home."

Pubu used to smoke. "Later, my wife advised me to give up smoking. She said she was already like this. If I am in poor health, there will be no one to take care of my two children in the future, so I will quit smoking. I have given up smoking for six or seven years now. "

Faced with the question of what made him persist, Pubu didn't answer directly, but said, "I don't know which of us died first, but as long as I am in one day, I will take care of her for one day."

I hope I can take her to Lhasa by train one day.

When the Qinghai-Tibet Railway was opened to traffic in 2006, Tianlu climbed the roof of the world and passed through Jiagen Village where Pubu was located. After registration and screening, Pubu, a conscientious worker, became a road guard on the Qinghai-Tibet Railway.

At the beginning, the railway patrolled by Pubu was more than 40 kilometers from home. After dealing with his wife and family affairs in the morning, Pubu got on his motorcycle in a hurry and arrived at the patrol section before 8 o'clock. "My job concerns everyone's safety. For example, a train comes and a sheep passes by. If I don't find out that there is something wrong with the train, it will endanger the safety of the passengers on board, so I must take responsibility. "

Considering the difficulties of Pubu's family, on 20 10, the road protection team transferred him from the original road protection point to the road near Jiagen Village. The monthly salary of a road guard is only 2,500 yuan, but Pubu said that it is much better than his previous odd jobs, because it is stable and he can take care of his wife near home.

In 20 12, as a road guard, Pubu got on the train for the first time, from Dangxiong to Lhasa. "It feels great. I didn't realize there was oxygen in it. I live in a place lacking oxygen all the year round. For the first time, I enjoyed a comfortable oxygen-enriched environment, which was much more comfortable than going to Lhasa by car before. In the past, I watched the train pass by and got on the train, which strengthened my responsibility to protect the railway. " Pubu said that when he got home, he couldn't wait to tell his wife what it was like to take the train, hoping to take her with him one day.

Pubu's deeds spread all over ten miles and eight townships, and also received everyone's blessing. "There are really not many people like Pubu now. He is definitely a good man! It is not easy for him not only to take care of his sick wife, but also to do housework and work on the railway. " Neighbor Nima Jianzan said. Recently, the Pubu family was also selected as the "most beautiful family" in Tibet.

"If possible, it should be a pleasure to go to Lhasa by train." Pubu talked about the excitement of taking the train, which made Isram also have a train dream.

Pubu said, "Love has brought us all the way to the present. I believe that one day, I can take her with me on the train. At that time, she will be more proud of my husband as a roadside guard. "

Isiram said, "He will always be my train. If there is an afterlife, I will be with him and double the feelings I owe him in this life. "