Lin Yutang: "Life is alive, but sometimes I smile at others, and sometimes I smile at others."

Lin Yutang: "Life is alive, but sometimes I smile at others, and sometimes I smile at others."

In this world, 99% of us are ordinary and humble little people. Because of our lack of wisdom and bad luck, some of our predictions were wrong later. But what about this? Dry your tears and get up where you fall. Give people a chance to laugh at us.

The author has two friends, and the three of them are very good girlfriends. Xiao-ah is a proud businesswoman, and her husband must absolutely obey her leadership. Little B is a gentle little woman, devoted to being a husband and adopted son and obeying her husband's command. Unfortunately, Xiao B is not human, and the man cheated on her during her confinement. The only ending is divorce. Little A's teeth itch with anger. I think Xiao B is weak and the divorce compensation is too low (the house belongs to the woman, the children belong to the woman, and there is no compensation). Little b said forget it, I'll be satisfied with a place to live with my children. I have a job, and he agrees to give me living expenses every month. The most important thing is to move on with your life.

Five years later, because Xiao worked overtime day and night to pursue his career, his particularly obedient husband even had an affair in his marriage. Xiao A's self-esteem was particularly frustrated when he learned the truth. How come... I earn more than him! I have a higher education than him! I look better than him! However, people can't stop bossing around for a long time, and people have to look for a sense of existence from weak women. For the sake of the children, Xiao tried to save this marriage (give some money to the third woman and break off the relationship with her husband), but it was difficult to end it after all and ended in divorce. It's not that tangled She also owns a house and children.

Always proud, she said: I used to think Xiao B was weak, but now I find that I finally answered Lin Yutang's words: Life is alive, but sometimes I smile at others, and sometimes I smile at others.

Actually, everyone is humble and great! As long as you bravely climb up from the trough of setbacks! Today, both Xiao A and Xiao B have found their life partners and lived a quiet and happy life. In life, no one is a winner forever, and no one is a loser forever. As long as you don't want to give up, life will bloom beautiful flowers!

Just like the most powerful animal in nature is the elephant, many animals can be easily trampled to death with one foot, including the tiger king in the mountains and the lion king in the grassland, but it is the insignificant ants that can really defeat it.

Don't cry easily if you can laugh while you are alive.

People should learn to laugh at themselves: thinking from the bottom of their hearts creates another opportunity for others to laugh.

People should also have the minimum quality of being a man: don't laugh at other people's state at the bottom, because that is your past or future!

When others encounter difficulties, try your best to help friends solve them, instead of laughing at him or her.

It is not easy to be born! There are too many unpredictable things. Let's be kinder and warmer! In that case, when you meet the trough of life, your warmth will be doubled back to help you get through those life disasters as soon as possible!

What we have to do is to train our strong inner heart. Let's make others laugh! But never laugh at others!

Time is the best teacher. It can change everything without words.

A person who likes to laugh at others is either ignorant or fearless. In the end, he will not be strong, but will only become weak.

We can't decide what others will say, but the only thing we have to do is ignore it and work hard silently to become stronger and bigger.

On the contrary, if we always pay attention to the ridicule of others and always try to explain, we will not only get nothing, but also waste time and affect our mood and life.

Writer Jin Yong said: "Life is just a big battle, and then you leave with a smile."

Life is short, and learning to spend effective time on what you should do, what you want to do, and what you can do to make life happier is a beautiful life.