My best friend doesn’t like the friends around me. She said that because we had conflicts, we had a cold war for almost two months, and we couldn’t quarrel. She said that these two

You are right, "Every time we have a conflict, you want to be nice to me. Even if you are wrong again, they will feel that you care about me. Sometimes I don't appreciate it." Through this sentence You can find that he doesn't look like a man. How can a couple quarrel and ask the woman to take the initiative to make peace? What's more, the man doesn't appreciate it. Let alone your best friend, an outsider like me would still favor you.

And he can’t see clearly his own problem, and even blames you. He also said that he didn’t even say hello to them when he saw them because of you. It’s really a joke. First of all, he doesn’t look like a man. Facts, as the saying goes, if people don't know, unless you do something wrong, it doesn't mean you didn't do something if you didn't say it. So isn't it his problem at all? And because this best friend hates him, he still doesn't want to make progress. He doesn't even have the most basic courtesy when they meet. He's still making excuses here. It's too immature.

In addition, the last sentence, "It's like a girl in her class has entered her heart." Did I hear this sentence correctly? He is telling you that he may like another one. girl? It would be a shame for you to tolerate this kind of thing. Even if he just talks, you shouldn't put it down.

In short, back to the topic, there is nothing wrong with sharing your own affairs with your best friends, and if you like to listen to your best friends’ opinions, then you not only have to share, you’d better explain all the details clearly. , so that best friends can give the most correct advice. Otherwise, it may indeed be driven by your subjectivity. It's very simple, for example, if you keep scolding him. Naturally, your best friend will scold you, but if you keep saying nice things about him and your best friend is still trying to persuade you to break up, then if you still don’t listen to your best friend, then you are really ignorant.

Also, other people will get involved in the affairs between two people. If you use all kinds of defenses to prevent others from getting involved, then your relationship is far from stable. In a correct relationship, no matter how hard others try, they can't get in. So if you follow his bullshit theory, it’s really a joke.

Finally, I want to warn you, if you finally give up your best friend for him, then your life will basically be over.