What would you do if your colleague spoke ill of you in front of others and you heard it on the spot?

What would you do if your colleague spoke ill of you in front of others and you heard it on the spot?

1. Look before you leap, don't be impulsive. Don't be carried away by anger when you hear people who trust you talking about themselves behind their backs. Think calmly first. Find out what the other person is saying first, then judge what the other person is saying. If what the other party says is irrelevant and irrelevant, there is no malice and there is no need to care. It's just that the other person is talkative and likes to make irresponsible remarks everywhere, so you can ignore it. But he should pay attention to discretion in future transactions, don't tell each other anything, and keep a certain distance from each other. If the other person's content involves your privacy or bothers you, then this situation cannot be ignored. Be sure to remind each other and tell them clearly not to continue talking, which has caused you trouble. You are very upset about this matter. I suggest the other party pay attention.

2. If you don't tell the other party clearly and choose forbearance, the other party will only speak more recklessly. So, be clear about your attitude and tell each other. Speak out, find a suitable opportunity to communicate with colleagues in depth, talk about work and life, and let colleagues know about you and their thoughts. When appropriate, you can tactfully show that you are an honest person, don't like to speak ill of others behind their backs, like to point out your shortcomings in person, and hope that others can point out their shortcomings in person. Self-improvement through this incident also shows that I still have some problems in some aspects. Although there is no truth this time, there are still people commenting on me behind my back.

Therefore, we should do things more seriously, carefully and cautiously in the future, and try not to leave everything to others. At the same time, get on well with colleagues, strengthen communication and reduce others' doubts about you. If someone speaks ill of you behind your back, then this person must be dissatisfied with you and want to hack you in this way so that everyone can isolate you. This kind of person is your own enemy, you can't be kind and weak to this kind of person. If you swallow your pride, he will bully you and continue to speak ill of you next time. If he talks too much, everyone may believe him. You should teach such a person a lesson so that he won't dare to offend you again.