How to learn speaking skills

Social Xiaobai gives the following suggestions.

1, listen

All annoying guys have one thing in common, that is, "they don't consider other people's feelings at all."

2. Don't spit.

Probably the atmosphere of spitting is too heavy, so everyone began to think that "spitting" is a cool thing. But it will actually make you fall in price and make others have a worse impression on you.

Step 3 get to know other people's information

You must have a cool head and know how to put yourself in others' shoes and listen to their opinions. You know that different answers will have different effects, and you will let yourself say the answer that satisfies the other party at the first time. So you should always cultivate your insight and thinking ability, listen more, think more, and look at various problems from different angles.

4. Express your opinions accurately (Ps: I am learning something myself)

Some people say that a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts in June. Some people say it more popularly, and one sentence can make people laugh and jump. People who can't talk can "choke people to death" in one sentence, and people who can talk can "speak the dead alive" in one sentence. The purpose of speaking is to "express yourself clearly and accurately".

5. Understand each other's feelings

Sometimes, "being recognized" is the best healing medicine; For friends in trouble, a sentence of "I understand you" and "Don't cry, I'm here" can reassure them more than any reprimand.

Through the communication with friends and lovers, we gradually began to believe that "I am not alone in this world", so please cherish this special skill of human beings, master it and take it seriously.