How to deal with a man who changes his mind?

First, a smart woman will change her mind when facing a man. A woman had better let go after finding her man has changed his mind. Since the other person no longer loves himself, it's no use being late. You don't have to put your feelings on someone you don't like. This will only waste your feelings and youth, so the best way is to break up decisively. Many women will make a scene after a man changes his mind, which will make the other half walk faster. If you want to keep the other half, you must solve the problem rationally and talk to each other. I don't want to attack my partner with my best language during the conversation. Even if the other half changes his mind, you should make the other half feel that you are a gentle and graceful person. At this time, if a woman wants to change herself, she can ignore the other half and face it coldly, so that the other half can feel that she can live well alone. During this time, she should constantly improve herself, whether it is external change or internal cultivation, so that the other half will look at you with new eyes. Second, take the initiative to deal with men who change their minds: Many women become at a loss when they meet a man who is derailed and has an affair. They even think that men are just playing, which is definitely insincere. If you think so, wait to be bullied! Instead of waiting to be bullied, it's better to take the initiative and ask mistress out to talk directly. I believe you will be curious about what kind of person the other person is. The relationship between women is very delicate, especially in a situation like yours. As a woman, the other person may understand your feelings. However, you must not be soft-hearted when you think of a person who is bent on his own way. You must make a decision to show your courage. Men's parents: In life, there is no man who does not respect his parents and does not listen to them. A smart woman should try her best to seize the life-saving straw of her husband's infidelity to her parents-in-law, whether before or after. You know, it is very important for women to maintain the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, whether for the happiness and stability of marriage or the marital crisis after marriage. Once a woman firmly controls her in-laws, she has an effective weapon against her husband's infidelity. No in-laws can condone their son fooling around outside and be irresponsible to the family. Therefore, when the husband is unfaithful, mobilize the strength of his in-laws to convince him. Doing the husband's job well and intervening in his infidelity play an important role in saving the marriage crisis. Smart women have made it very clear that men will change their minds. Women who don't know may wish to use it as a reference. In fact, women always cry and make trouble when they face cheating men, hoping to save their men in this way, but they don't know that this way will only make men hate themselves more, so women must be strong and try their best to punish the man who changes his mind when he faces cheating men. However, at this time, women should also reflect on themselves. Why do their men change their minds? Is it their own problem? Is it that you don't care about him enough, or that you don't understand him enough, or that you put pressure on him? At this time, you have to think about it. If these are not, it is a man's problem. You should talk to your husband face to face, ask him why he changed his mind, and see if he still loves himself, if so. How to deal with men's change of heart? 2 1. Take the initiative. Many women will become at a loss when they meet men's affairs, and even think that men are just playing, not sincere. If you feel the same way, you'll be bullied. Instead of waiting to be bullied, take the initiative and ask a third party to talk directly. I believe you will also be curious about what kind of person the other person is. The relationship between women is very delicate, especially in a situation like yours. As a woman, the other person may understand your feelings, but if you meet someone who is bent on her own way, don't be soft-hearted. Take courage and make a decision. Be honest, don't make jokes and be seen. 2. Controlling Finance Once a man is derailed, the first thing a woman should do is to control the economic power at home. As long as a man has no money to go out and raise a lover, and at the same time hint at him that you already know him, let him consider the possible consequences. Of course, if you don't really want to make a clean break with him, don't cut to the chase and show your cards. Warn him not to be reckless again. This is not a way to avoid future troubles, but it can let men know that a man who is unfaithful to his family is a small punishment. But it is best to communicate to determine whether this relationship should continue. 3, secretly competing for men to derail, not a bad wife, but too tempting outside. As a wife, you must be more attractive than the lover outside. Use secret competition to make her husband more considerate and concerned, such as improving her cooking skills, cooking more dishes that her husband likes to eat and binding her stomach; Learn more about and respect your husband's hobbies, and try to share some fun with him if possible; Give him personal space and make him think you are considerate. Show a different you, give him a new feeling, make him attracted by you, and then he has no other idea to go outside and look for novelty. 4, the mentality is stable When you find that your husband is cheating, don't run around like a bitch, or even find a mistress and her to grab each other's hair in the street. This is a very stupid behavior. At this time, you should be steady, try to get close to the essence of the fact, and find out whether this matter is your own suspicion or true. Otherwise, it is not up to standard to misunderstand that my husband is fighting with other women. 5, change yourself, enhance attractiveness When a man changes his mind, you must first understand that you have no initial attraction for him. So, if you want to attract his attention again, you must try to change. Try to dress yourself up and learn to make up. Learn some dressing skills to make yourself glamorous every time you go out. Change the bad habits of treating people in the past. Read more books, travel more, and improve your inner self. How to deal with men's change of heart? First, change his mind and improve himself. First, change his mind. Don't be impatient. In fact, a woman with a strong appearance is also fragile at heart. Put away her knife and mouth and take out her tofu heart. Secondly, the promotion of external image, especially temperament can not be lost. Second, attract and ignite hope. Think about what attracted him to you at the beginning and pursued you, or think that you have nothing on other women. Common is beauty and gentleness, and then increase their charm. The whole person can look brand-new, let her husband shine at the moment, and then have a new view of you and rekindle hope. Third, guide investment, break the deadlock and sacrifice your time, cook a table of his favorite dishes, care about his recent work and talk about things he is interested in. In short, by doing something, you can gain his trust and dependence and erase your disgust. Fourth, wake up emotions and successfully save "one day's husband and wife are grateful for a hundred days." Even if there is no passion for the time being, feelings cannot be erased. After all, they once loved each other. Find a warm occasion, calm down and have a good talk, say some unforgettable moments, break the other side's defensive wall, and don't give him time to hesitate and violently attack to awaken his feelings. If you want to save a relationship that is about to be lost, you must adopt the right method, otherwise it will be counterproductive. What do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of being a woman who is weak on the outside and soft on the inside?