A story that is not respected by others.

Sean picked up his shoes.

It is said that Sean walked on this bridge in his spare time. An old man wearing a coarse cloth and a short coat went to Sean's residence, threw his shoes under the bridge and said to Sean, "Boy, go down and pick them up." Sean was suddenly surprised and really wanted to hit him. As soon as he saw such a big age, he picked up his shoes.

The old man asked Sean to put it on him. Now that Sean has picked up his shoes, he knelt down and put them on him. Dressed, the old man smiled and left. After walking 1 mile, he returned to Sean and said, "You are a child who can be well trained. Come and wait for me at dawn in five days. "

Five days later, when Zhang Liang came, the old man had already arrived first, criticizing him and saying, "How can you be late for a date with an old man? Come and wait for me in five days. " The second time, Sean was late again. The third time, he went at midnight.

The old man is very happy. He gave Sean a book and told him, "After reading this book, you can become the emperor's teacher. You will be rich in the next 10 years. 13 years later, you will meet me in northern Hebei, and there is a yellow stone at the foot of the ancient city mountain. "

After dawn, Sean saw a military book called The Art of War. After Sean got the book. After careful reading, I finally learned the skills of strategizing and winning thousands of miles. According to legend, after 13 years, Sean followed Gaozu to the north of Hebei, and sure enough, he saw a piece of Yellowstone at the foot of the ancient city mountain. Sean took it back as a treasure. After Sean died, he was buried with this piece of Yellowstone National Park.

2. The power of respect

In America, a famous rich man walked by the roadside and met a ragged and scrawny young man who was selling old books and eating moldy bread in the cold wind. The rich businessman who had the same suffering experience suddenly felt a little pity, so he put $8 into the young man's hand without thinking, and then walked away without looking back.

Not far away, the wealthy businessman suddenly felt that this was inappropriate, so he quickly returned, picked up two old books from the stall, and apologized that he forgot to take them. I hope young people mind. Finally, the rich businessman solemnly said to the young man, "In fact, you are both businessmen like me."

Two years later, a wealthy businessman was invited to a charity fundraiser. A young bookseller in a suit and tie greeted him, shook his hand and said gratefully, "Sir, you may have forgotten me long ago, but I will never forget you. I always thought that I only had the fate of begging in my life, until you personally told me that I was a businessman like you, which made me establish my self-esteem and self-confidence, thus creating today's performance ... "

Businessmen never imagined that an ordinary remark two years ago could make a person with inferiority build up his self-esteem, a poor person regain his self-confidence, and a self-righteous person saw his own advantages and values, and finally succeeded through unremitting efforts.

3. Song Lian borrows books

Song Lian was a learned man in the Ming Dynasty. He loved reading since he was a child, but his family was poor, he couldn't afford to go to school, and he didn't have the money to buy books, so he had to borrow them from others. Every time he borrows a book, he agrees on a deadline, returns it on time, and never breaks the contract. People are willing to lend them to him.

Once, he borrowed a book, and the more he read it, the more he couldn't put it down, so he decided to copy it. But the deadline for returning the book is coming. He had to copy books overnight. It's the middle of winter and the twelfth month, dripping into ice.

His mother said, "Son, it's midnight. It's cold. Copy it at dawn. People are not waiting for this book to read. " Song Lian said, "No matter how many people are waiting to read this book, it must be returned before the deadline. This is a question of credit and a sign of respect for others. If you don't keep your word, how can you get respect from others? ? "

4. Lu Xun's story

In terms of educating children, Mr. Lu Xun believes that to educate children well, we must first respect and understand children. "If we don't know them first, the development of children will be more serious."

Once, Mr. Wang held a banquet at home, and his son sat at the same table facing the sea. When eating fish balls, the guests say they are fresh and delicious. Wei Yinghai said, "Mom, fish balls are sour!" " "The mother who thought the child was talking nonsense scolded a few words, and the child's boss was unhappy.

After hearing this, Lu Xun tasted the fish that Yinghai had bitten. Sure enough, it's not very fresh. He said with emotion: "It is wrong for children to say that they are not fresh. It seems that we have to respect what the children say! "

5. The Queen knocked at the door

Alberto and his wife, Queen Victoria, get along well, but they are still unhappy. The reason is that his wife is the queen. One night, the palace held a grand banquet. The queen was busy meeting the noble prince, but she left her husband in the cold. Alberto was very angry and quietly returned to the bedroom. Soon, someone knocked at the door, and Alberto asked calmly, "Who?" The man who knocked at the door proudly replied, "I am the queen."

The door didn't open and there was no movement in the room. The queen left, but halfway through, she turned and knocked at the door again. Alberto asked again, "Who?" The queen said kindly, "Victoria."

But the door was still closed, and Victoria was so angry that she didn't even dare to knock at the door with the respect of an English female worker. She walked away angrily, but halfway through, thinking of going back, she knocked on the door again. Alberto still asked calmly, "Who?" The queen said gently, "Your wife." This time, the door opened.

B. Disrespect for other people's stories

Once upon a time, Su Dongpo went to the mountains to play. He went to the temple on the round hill and the young monk reported to the abbot. The abbot waved his hand and let the young monk entertain him casually, saying, "Sit down and have tea". Later, another guest came, and the abbot knew his identity and warmly entertained him. Su Dongpo showed extraordinary conversation in the conversation between the abbot and the guests. Feeling his special status, the abbot said to the young monk, "Tea." Say to Su Dongpo, "Please sit down." After a while, the abbot realized that this man was the famous Su Dongpo. Ask Su Dongpo to sit down at once and let the young monk offer fragrant tea. When Su Dongpo left, the abbot asked Su Dongpo to leave a couplet to commemorate him. Su Dongpo just thought about it and wrote: "Tea, tea, fragrant tea; Please sit down, sit down, sit down. " The abbot immediately blushed.

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C. Are there any short stories that make people understand that it is important to respect others?

In winter, Mrs. Chen takes her children to new york to reunite with her husband and send them to public schools. Winter in new york is really cold, and snowstorms are almost common. Sometimes a few feet of snow will make some units and enterprises have to close temporarily. However, public primary schools still operate as usual. The bus that picks up primary school students is struggling to crawl on the snowy road. Pick up the children on time. Mrs. Chen, like many parents, doesn't understand the school's practice: Is it necessary to let children go to school in such bad weather? She can't help calling the school. I intend to propose to the school to suspend classes.

After Mrs. Chen explained the reason, the school's reply moved her for a long time: "As you know. New york is a paradise for the rich and a hell for the poor. Many poor families can't even afford the heating bill in winter, so they send those children to school. They can not only have a warm day, but also enjoy a free nutritious lunch at school! " Moved, Mrs. Chen had a brainwave and thought of a way to kill two birds with one stone. She called again: "Why not let children with good family conditions stay in warm homes during the snowstorm and only send children from poor families to school?" This time. The school's answer not only brought tears to Mrs. Chen's eyes, but also made her unforgettable.

The school replied: "The highest state of kindness should be to safeguard human dignity. We can't help those poor children and trample on their self-esteem. "

The importance of flowers

Sony, a branch that sells products to Southeast Asia, has received many complaints from Southeast Asian consumers because of product problems. After investigation, it is found that there are some problems in the packaging of the just-released "Walkman", but it does not affect the internal quality. The branch company immediately changed the packaging and solved the problem. But President Akio Morita still refuses to stop there. The manager was invited to attend the chairman's meeting and was asked to make a statement about this mistake. Akio Morita severely criticized him and asked the whole company to take this as a warning.

After the meeting, the manager trudged out of the meeting room. At this moment, the chairman's secretary came over and invited him to drink together. The manager was puzzled and said, "I am now abandoned by the head office." How can you look up to me like this? " The secretary said, "The chairman has never forgotten your contribution to the company. Today's things are also out of helplessness. He knows that you are sad about this matter and specially asked me to buy you a drink. "

After drinking, the secretary accompanied the manager home. Just entering the house, the wife greeted her husband and said, "You are really valued by the head office!" " "The manager was very surprised to hear the news. At this moment, I saw my wife with flowers and a greeting card and said, "Today is our 20th wedding anniversary, have you forgotten?" The manager knows nothing about it. It turns out that it is a "convention" to prepare flowers and gifts for employees' birthdays and wedding anniversaries. Just today, this bouquet of flowers was specially customized by Chairman Akio Morita, and a greeting card written by him was attached to encourage the manager to continue to do his best for the company.

For the benefit of the enterprise, Akio Morita will never be soft when criticizing employees who make mistakes, otherwise, he will "wipe his boots" and lose his due warning function. But criticism is different from attack, and punishment cannot be ruthless. It is necessary to let employees deeply realize their mistakes in order to avoid the future, and to let employees get the recognition and respect they deserve and go forward bravely. Let "hard criticism" achieve a "soft landing", which is the art and original intention of criticism.

D. Examples of disrespect for others

Examples of disrespect for others:

First, the humiliation of the leg

As a teenager, Han Xin was the son of a ruined aristocrat in Huaiyin, Jiangsu Province, and his personality was unrestrained and informal. Because of his bad luck, he often depended on others for a living when he was young, and many people hated him.

In Huaiyin City, a young butcher insulted Han Xin and said, "Although you are tall and like to wear swords, you are actually a coward." He insulted him in public and said, "if you are not afraid of death, stab me with your sword;" If you are afraid of death, climb under my crotch. " So Han Xin looked at him carefully, bent down, prone on the ground, and climbed down from his legs. People all over the street laughed at Han Xin and thought he was timid.

Second, I recommend myself.

During the Warring States Period, Qin Jun defeated Zhao in Changping. After the withdrawal of Qin, Zhao broke his word and refused to hand over the city to Qin. The king of Qin was furious and ordered the tomb to lead the troops to attack Zhao and surround Handan, the capital of Zhao. At present, Zhao's situation is very critical. The king of Zhao ordered Zhao Sheng to go to Chu to seek the help of soldiers. Ping Yuanjun called the public and selected 20 civil and military generalists to go with him. After selection, there is still one person missing at last.

A man named stood up and recommended himself to Mao Sui, saying, "I heard that Mr. Wang is going to the State of Chu to sign a contract of union, and it is agreed that 20 public guests will go with him and not be outside to watch. One person is still missing. I hope that Teacher Wang will start from the number of people who have made up enough! " Ping Yuanjun said, "How many years has Mr. Zhao Sheng been here?"

Mao Sui said, "Three years." Ping Yuanjun said, "A wise man in the world is like an awl in a bag, and its tip will be revealed immediately. Now, I have been under Zhao Shengmen for three years, and no one around me has praised you, and Zhao Sheng has never heard any compliments. This is because I have no talent. So Mr. Wang Can can't go, please stay! "

Mao Sui said, "I only asked to enter the bag today. If I were in the bag, I would be like an awl, and the whole edge would be exposed, not just the tip. " Ping Yuanjun finally chose Mao Sui. In the State of Chu, the King of Chu only received Ping Yuanjun. Two people sat in the temple, from morning to noon, with no result.

Mao Sui stepped up the steps and shouted at a distance, "It's either good or bad to send troops. Simple and clear. Why not decide to discuss it? " The king of Chu was very angry and asked Ping Yuanjun, "Who is this man?" Ping Yuanjun replied: "This man's name is Mao Sui, but he is my guest!" The king of Chu shouted, "Get off the bus! I'm talking to your master. What are you doing here? "

Seeing that the king of Chu was angry, Mao Sui did not step down, but went up several steps. He put the sword in his hand and said, "Now, in ten steps, your king's life is in my hands!" " Seeing that Mao Sui was so brave, the King of Chu stopped scolding him, so he listened to Mao Sui. Mao Sui made an incisive analysis of the reasons for sending troops to aid Chu.

Mao sui's words convinced the king of Chu and promised to send troops at once. A few days later, Chu, Wei and other countries jointly sent troops to help Zhao. Qin Jun retreated. After returning to Zhao, he became a national guest. He sighed and said, "When Mr. Mao arrived in Chu, the king of Chu dared not look down upon Zhao."

Third, the food that comes to your door.

During the Warring States period, there was a rare famine in Qi one year, and many people starved to death. There was a rich man named Qian Ao in the State of Qi, who was very kind-hearted. He couldn't bear to watch so many people starve to death, so he set up a stall on the roadside and distributed steamed bread, steamed buns, porridge and other food to the poor passing by.

At noon, a victim staggered over. He covered his face with sleeves and kept smiling. It looks very painful. Qian ao saw this scene and didn't even think about it. He quickly picked up a steamed stuffed bun and shouted at him, "Come and eat!" The victim stopped, stared at Qian Ao and said, "Do you think I'm so hungry that I'll put up with your insults and accept charity? You are wrong! I won't eat your food even if I starve to death! "

Qian Ao realized that his tone was inappropriate, which made the other party misunderstand. He quickly apologized to the victim. But the victim refused to eat and finally starved to death on the side of the road.

Fourth, the anger of cloth.

The king of Qin sent someone to find Anlingjun (the monarch of Anling country): "I want to exchange 500 miles of land in Fiona Fang for Anlingjun, and Anlingjun must promise me!" An Lingjun said: "It's great that your majesty exchanged a large territory for our small territory. Even so, this is the fief I inherited from my late king. I am willing to protect it all my life and dare not change it! "

The king of Qin was very unhappy when he learned about it. So Anlingjun sent Tang Ju to the State of Qin. The King of Qin said to Tang Ju, "I traded 500 miles of land in Fiona Fang for Anlingjun, but Anlingjun didn't listen to me. Why? Besides, the State of Qin destroyed the State of Southern Wei, but Anlingjun survived with the land of five miles. Because I regarded Anlingjun as a loyal minister, I didn't play his mind.

Now I use ten times the land of Anling to let Anling Jun expand his territory, but he goes against my will. Does he look down on me? "Tang Ju replied," no, it's not. A Ling Junren inherited the fief from the former king, just trying to protect it. Even thousands of miles of land can't be exchanged, let alone only 500 miles of land? "

The king of Qin was furious and said to Tang Ju, "Have you ever heard of the anger of the Emperor?" Tang Ju replied: "I have never heard of it." The king of Qin said, "When the Emperor was angry, millions of corpses were lying everywhere, and blood flowed thousands of miles." Tang Ju said, "Has your Majesty ever heard of the anger of civilians?" The king of Qin said, "When civilians get angry, they take off their hats, go barefoot and hit their heads on the ground."

Tang Ju said: "This is the anger of mediocre and incompetent people, not the anger of talented and courageous people. When Zhuan Xu assassinated Wu Wangliao, the comet's tail swept the moon; When Nie Zheng assassinated Aimee, a white light shone directly at the sun. When Qing Ji was about to be assassinated, the goshawk pounced on the palace. All three of them are talented and courageous people among the common people. Before the anger in their hearts broke out, God gave them a sign of good or bad luck.

Now (Zhu, Nie Zheng, leaving) plus me, it will be four people. If people with courage and ability (forced) must be angry, let the bodies of two people fall, and the whole world will be Dai Xiao because of it within five steps. This is the situation today. "Say that finish (Tang Ju) sword (sword not drawn).

The king of Qin changed his face, knelt down straight, apologized to Tang Ju, and said, "Please sit down, sir, how did this happen! I see: the southern country and the state of Wei perished, but Anling was saved by the land of fifty miles, all because of you! "

Five, don't three days.

During the Three Kingdoms period, Monroe of Soochow was a very learned person. After Zhou Yu's death, he succeeded as commander-in-chief of Soochow. Design defeated Guan Yu of Shu Han and sent Pan Zhang to kill Guan Yu. Soon he died. Lv Meng was originally a man who didn't want to work hard, so he didn't have much knowledge.

When Lu Su saw him, he felt that he had nothing to recommend. Later, I met him again and saw that he was completely different from before, so powerful. When it comes to military issues, he is very knowledgeable, which surprised Lu Su. He laughed and joked with him: "Now, you are so knowledgeable, brave and scheming, and you are no longer the Amon of the State of Wu."

Lu Meng replied: "People should be treated differently after three days!" Monroe's words, the original text is "Don't wait for three days, scratch your eyes." Later, people used the phrase "farewell for three days" to praise people for their rapid progress soon after leaving.

E. the story of respecting others and being respected by others. Urgent! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !

In terms of educating children, Mr. Lu Xun believes that to educate children well, we must first respect and understand children. "If we don't know them first, the development of children will be more serious."

Once, Mr. Wang held a banquet at home, and his son sat at the same table facing the sea. When eating fish balls, the guests say they are fresh and delicious. Wei Yinghai said, "Mom, fish balls are sour!" " "The mother who thought the child was talking nonsense scolded a few words, and the child's boss was unhappy. After hearing this, Lu Xun tasted the fish that Yinghai had bitten. Sure enough, it's not very fresh. He said with emotion: "It is wrong for children to say that they are not fresh. It seems that we have to respect what the children say! "

There is a story: a businessman in new york saw a pencil salesman in rags. He gave someone a dollar out of sympathy. Soon, he came back, took out some pencils from the seller and apologized for forgetting to take them. Finally, he said, "You and I are both businessmen. You have something to sell." A few months later, when we met again, the pen seller became a salesman and thanked the businessmen in new york. "You gave me back my self-esteem and told me I was a businessman."

Respect for life, respect for others and respect for one's own life are companionship in the process of life and a condition of mental health. -Fromm.

Respect the opinions of others. Never say, "You are wrong." Carnegie

People may be familiar with the story of Sean picking up shoes. Sean in the story is about Sean, an important adviser of Emperor Gaozu Liu Bang.

It is said that Sean walked on this bridge in his spare time. An old man wearing a coarse cloth and a short coat went to Sean's residence, threw his shoes under the bridge and said to Sean, "Boy, go down and pick them up." Sean was suddenly surprised and really wanted to hit him. As soon as he saw such a big age, he picked up his shoes. The old man asked Sean to put it on him. Now that Sean has picked up his shoes, he knelt down and put them on him. Dressed, the old man smiled and left. After walking 1 mile, he returned to Sean and said, "You are a child who can be well trained. Come and wait for me at dawn in five days. " Five days later, when Zhang Liang came, the old man had already arrived first, criticizing him and saying, "How can you be late for a date with an old man? Come and wait for me in five days. " The second time, Sean was late again. The third time, he went at midnight. The old man is very happy. He gave Sean a book and told him, "After reading this book, you can become the emperor's teacher. You will be rich in the next 10 years. 13 years later, you will meet me in northern Hebei, and there is a yellow stone at the foot of the ancient city mountain. " After dawn, Sean saw a military book called The Art of War. After Sean got this book, he read it carefully and finally learned the skill of strategizing and winning thousands of miles. According to legend, after 13 years, Sean followed Gaozu to the north of Hebei, and sure enough, he saw a piece of Yellowstone at the foot of the ancient city mountain. Sean took it back as a treasure. After Sean died, he was buried with this piece of Yellowstone National Park.

I don't know if these are enough, I hope I can help you.

F. A short story about respecting others.

Lao Zhang is a teacher in a primary school in the suburbs. In this school, almost all are young female teachers, and no one wants to do that smelly job of flushing toilets. Lao Zhang said, "I'll do it. Anyway, I grew up with sinusitis and my sense of smell is not good. "

This rush is more than ten years.

Lao Zhang didn't get much from it. No one thinks there is anything wrong. Everyone thinks that Lao Zhang has a bad nose and should do this smelly job.

On a cold winter morning, Lao Zhang got up early as usual, kicked open the bedroom doors of two female teachers, wrapped them in pajamas with quilts and carried them out one by one. ...

Afterwards, the doctor said that as long as it was twenty minutes late, the two young lives would be over forever.

The headmaster is puzzled: can Lao Zhang smell liquefied gas with this nose?

Lao Zhang smiled and said nothing.

Later, people often saw Lao Zhang burying his head in the toilet. ...

G. Stories of disrespect for others

I'm here to study politics. Let me tell you, there is a big boss who thinks he is great and rich. One day, he was invited to a party. One of his men has worked in his company for a long time and is very talented, but the boss looks down on him. At the meeting, the inviter took a fancy to him. The big boss was very unhappy and satirized him casually. As a result, I hurt the employee's self-esteem and didn't respect him, so the employee left later, and this company was out of shape ~ This story shows that we must respect others, because respecting others is the premise of gaining respect from others ~

H. What little stories do you encounter that are not respected at work?

I don't know if this position is vacant. The leader often asks me to help him make a report, and then he has to spend a long time making a report according to his requirements. He didn't even look at it, and then he arranged other things. Sometimes he feels that his work is not respected.