How to deal with children being laughed at by classmates

Education is actually a test of chatting skills and patience. How to deal with children being laughed at by classmates?

Laughed at by my classmates, I think many parents are at a loss about their children's experiences.

Not only our children, but also many parents and friends had this experience when they were young.

Recently, a friend's child has been a monitor until the third grade of primary school. Recently, I was dismissed by the teacher because of one thing, which attracted the ridicule of my classmates.

In the face of ridicule, the child was depressed and sad. So, how should parents guide their children in the face of ridicule?

At this moment, the child must be remorseful, and we don't have to pursue this matter too much.

You can sit down and discuss with your child calmly to help him get out of frustration instead of blaming him.

Empathy, this is a universal skill and rule, whether children or friends, or others,

Empathy is an important way to get closer to each other and gain their trust quickly.

We can say to the children:

"I heard that you were fired by the monitor, and my heart must be the most uncomfortable. I was laughed at by my classmates recently. Are you more confused?

Mom and dad can feel your loss, and it doesn't affect that you are an excellent child, otherwise the teacher wouldn't choose you as the monitor, right?

We failed only because we didn't fully understand how to perform the duties of the monitor. This is not a bad ending, but a good beginning.

We can temporarily unload the monitor's responsibilities and commitments, go back to being relaxed students and have more time to do our own things.

In addition, we can observe and learn how to be a qualified monitor from the perspective of ordinary students.

In the hearts of mom and dad, you are the best. We believe that you will overcome this small setback and move on.

If you encounter any difficulties, you can communicate with your father, and we can give you some experience and methods. "

At this time, giving the child enough time can let the child know that he has the support and love of his parents, which will give him strong support and build up his confidence to overcome his lost emotions.

Finally, about being laughed at, you can tell the children that the students have no malice.

Just watching the fun. After a while, everyone will forget what they need to do to adjust their mentality.

Face it positively, continue to do what you are good at and work hard where you need to improve.

When "bad things" happen, it is not enough to just comfort children. Let them see good things from "bad things".

It can not only make our mood happy, but more importantly, it can promote our optimism, courage to overcome and struggle repeatedly.

Guide children to face all kinds of life independently and teach them how to solve their own problems in life. This is what parents should do!