How should a girl respond when she asks for a red envelope?

I believe many boys have encountered it. Sometimes girls come to them and ask for red envelopes. In fact, this kind of behavior is not good in the minds of boys. So if a boy meets a girl and asks for a red envelope, How to resolve high emotional intelligence?

What should I do if a girl asks me to send a red envelope?

1: Tease the girl

No matter what reason she wants you to send her a red envelope, you can use it This method, for example, replies like this: You are so good, you know how to spend your husband’s money. Just tease her that she is your wife, because it is natural for a husband to give money to his wife. Let her know your intention by joking in this way, and at the same time, she will be embarrassed to be angry. At most, she will ignore you in the future, but if she likes Your girl will immediately change her way of getting along with you, and at least she won't ask you for red envelopes every day.

2: Pretend to be crazy and act silly

When getting along with a girl, it is still necessary to act crazy and act silly occasionally. For example, when she asks you for red envelopes, you can directly send her a lot of them. A picture of a red bag, and then said deliberately and stupidly: I know it can cure all diseases, take it, you’re welcome. Girls will be left speechless by your behavior, but they can't say anything. They will only silently think that you have a high emotional intelligence, and they should be very happy to be your girlfriend, because you will not easily give to others. Girls give out red envelopes.

3: Direct request

Many brothers will just send it to a girl honestly every time she asks you for a red envelope, once or twice, forget it, but If this continues for a long time, it will only become a matter of course, so when she asks for a red envelope, we can directly ask for it and say: OK, kiss me. Girls will ask why, and you can reply jokingly: You use people's money to eliminate disasters for others. Girls will understand what you mean instantly after hearing this. Girls with a little self-esteem will restrain themselves in the future and will no longer be so presumptuous with you.

How to respond with high emotional intelligence when a girl asks me to send a red envelope

1. I have just met a girl not long ago

When we have just met a girl, we may have chatted for a day It's time. Although you said the conversation was good, the girl asks you for a red envelope. Generally, a reserved girl will not do such a thing to lower her self-worth. Then this girl may have another purpose in getting along with you. You can reply to her directly: "Do you often ask for red envelopes from boys?" Or delete her directly.

2. You have a good relationship with a girl and have a good impression of each other

When you get along well with a girl, the relationship is relatively close, and you can chat well, but you haven’t found a boyfriend or girlfriend yet. relationship, then the girl may be asking you for the red envelope as a joke or to test your waste. If you give it to the other party easily, you will lose your own framework and act of low value, but if you don't give it to the girl, you will look stingy.

Then when replying to a girl, you can add a condition before giving the red envelope, such as:

"I only send it to my girlfriend, do you want to be my girlfriend?"

"If you accept my red envelope, I need you to accompany me to watch movies/dinner this weekend."

In short, don't let girls get your red envelope so easily. Use your red envelopes to get closer to girls, or invite girls on dates.

3. Ambiguous relationship with a girl

When you have an ambiguous relationship with a girl, you have already made a certain amount of contribution to the girl. According to the sunk cost effect, even if the girl’s attitude towards you It’s not very good, and I’m not willing to give up, but it will hurt to pay more. At this time, sending red envelopes will definitely make your red envelopes more meaningful, such as:

“When we meet, you can kiss me , I will give you a big red envelope, how about it?"

"You call me husband, and I will give you a red envelope"

At this time, when a girl follows your request If we do, when sending red envelopes to girls, the amount must not be too large, usually within 50 yuan. If the girl says "Why do you send so little?", we can continue to interact with her, for example:

"You think the red envelope sent by your husband is too small, let's go out to have a meal together to make it up to you"

"You just called me husband, if you kiss me, say Maybe the red envelope will become bigger.”

In short, don’t regard the girl’s request for the red envelope as a request from the girl, but as a key point in the development of the relationship, to guide the girl to give. Go interact with girls and create an ambiguous atmosphere, thus upgrading the relationship.

What is the mentality of a girl asking me to send a red envelope

1. The girl just wants to ask you for money

We cannot rule out that this girl is money-worshipping and superficial, especially When a girl learns that you are richer, she will want to ask for something from you. Generally, the friends of this type of girl are all about showing off their wealth and comparing themselves to each other. When you meet this type of girl, don't be stupid and give her a red envelope. , that will only make her get worse and continue to ask for it from you.

2. The rubbish test that girls put on you

I don’t know since when, the Internet has become popular that a boy will love you only if he is willing to spend money for you. This theory is believed by countless girls to be the truth. Many brothers think that not sending red envelopes to girls will look stingy and they are worried that they will be angry, so they immediately send red envelopes to them. After that, they can only receive a thank you from the girl and then ignore you. Some girls see how generous you are, so they ask you for it every day. If you send it once and don't send it the second time, the girl will think that you don't like her, and she won't want to deal with you.

3. A joke from a girl

In addition, it is more fun to chat with girls. Some economic-related topics are discussed with girls, such as telling girls that they work overtime. Just say that if you work overtime, you must make a lot of money. Send me a red envelope. In fact, it may be just a joke. It doesn't matter whether you give it to the girl or not.

How much should I give out when a girl asks me to give out red envelopes

1. Initial stage: 5-50 yuan

The two people have just met. At this time, you Naturally, you can’t send too much. If there is a festival, just send whatever you think is suitable. Nowadays, many girls, except for festivals such as Tomb Sweeping Day, take all the festivals into their own hands. On any festival, they have to receive red envelopes.

But when we first met, we only sent it on a necessary holiday, such as New Year’s Eve, her birthday, Dragon Boat Festival, etc. Some people may think that 5 yuan is too little, but some people want to send something like "5.20" or "666". But it cannot exceed 50 yuan, because this may cause her to think in the direction of a gold digger. As for the specific number issued, it still depends on the specific situation.

2. Ambiguity stage: 10-200 yuan

At this time, you are already very familiar with each other and have entered a common ambiguous stage. The two of you already have a certain emotional foundation. . But it shouldn't be too much. At this stage, the period for giving out red envelopes can be relaxed. For example, it doesn't have to be just during festivals, but also when the girl is sad or when she says pitifully that she is hungry.

The number given is usually "66" which implies success, or her age, and "13.14" or a more generous "131.4". No need to exceed 200, after all, it’s still just the ambiguous stage.

3. Love stage: 100-520 yuan

Just like the news mentioned above, the woman actually hopes that her boyfriend can post more, and then she can show off in front of her colleagues. But her boyfriend thought it was Women's Day, so he tweeted "3.8", which angered her.

In the love stage, more red envelopes are given out, and the most common ones are "131.4", "200" or "520". If it's an important holiday like Valentine's Day, just send "520". If it's not, just send "200".