Now, many girls I know on dating sites ask out for a drink, and after drinking, they say to drink red wine, at least several thousand yuan. I think they should be a scam?

Yes, the wine tray liar. If you accidentally meet, I'll teach you how to break the rules: first, the date place is up to you. You can choose small-capital shops such as teahouses and coffee cold drinks shops. When ordering food, keep it within 200 yuan. Get to know it first when you have coffee on the first date. Second, if she insists on taking you, look at the sign when you go. If it's a bar or something, say you don't like bars and don't like drinking. If I still drag you, you'd better choose to leave. This is a liar's wine tray. If you can't take it off, well, look at the price before placing an order and say AA system. In fact, the best way is to observe her movements and refuse. Go home!