Where did Guan Yu's pride come from?

Hello, friends. Do you find that people love to hear compliments, especially when they have made some achievements in something? When they hear a great yes, they will feel good, and their self-confidence and vanity will arise. But those who can speak well of you, those who can support you if you have something, should pay attention. In fact, human nature has many weaknesses, and pride is one of them. It is good to have achievements, but lying on the credit book is a sign of decline. For example, if you make achievements and have a group of celebrities, you will be carried away by rice soup, and you can't tell the difference between east and west, north and south, even if it is not too far from failure.

During the Three Kingdoms period, Guan Yu had a little proud personality, and some people praised him, which made him a little erratic and began to be arrogant, laying the groundwork for the defeat of Maicheng in the future. Cao Cao was the first to flatter Guan Yu. Guan Yu reached an agreement with Cao Cao Tushan, and Guan Yu temporarily took refuge in Cao Cao. After that, Cao Cao tried his best to please Guan Yu, hoping that he could stay and play for himself. He feasted for three days and feasted for five days. Getting on the horse gave gold, getting off the horse gave silver, and Guan Yu was carried to the sky, which made Guan Yu almost stunned, began to overestimate himself more and more, and gradually lost his heart of seeking truth from facts. I forgot that I used to be an archer, and now I am the real Hou Ting.

Zhuge Liang is the next person to flatter Guan Yu. He deliberately let Cao Cao live in Huarong Road, but Zhuge Liang made a right-leaning mistake and dared not pursue it. This not only contributed to Guan Yu's headstrong and self-righteous psychology. Sun Quan also sent a matchmaker to Jingzhou to ask his son to marry Guan Yu's daughter as his wife. But Master Guan was embarrassed to say: Tiger girls can match dogs, and the matchmaker was kicked out. Sun Quan ate a big bowl of food, but also touched a rebuff and had nothing to say. In this way, Guan Yu became more arrogant and didn't take Soochow seriously at all.

The best time for Cao Cao to praise Guan Yu was when Guan Yu flooded the Seventh Army, and his flood threatened the whole of China. At that time, the battlefield was far from Xudu, but Cao Cao bluffed and moved the capital to avoid its sharpness. A move by Cao Cao virtually contributed to Guan Yu's vanity, and Guan Yu's pride reached an unprecedented height. So when only a few dozen people were beaten out of the water by Lu Meng and Lu Xun, he could only stand at the end. Tu Shan's compromise on three things was not allowed for him to do it alone. His pride can only be stifled, and even surrender is an insult to himself. In fact, Guan Yu was killed by himself. In fact, everyone knows that Cao Cao holds Guan Yu as a show, showing how humble and virtuous he is, how open-minded he is, and how eager he is to be talented.

Finally, whether Guan Yu stays or not, the advertising effect of Cao Cao's move is very good. Zhuge Liang praised Guan Yu in order to achieve internal stability and unity. In the process of his policy implementation, he was not disturbed by this conceited master, but actually made a barrier-free compromise for his policy implementation. As for Sun Quan's praise of Guan Yu, his purpose is simple, that is, to paralyze Guan Yu and recapture Jingzhou. Therefore, all the actors in the world have ulterior motives in private.

After Guan Yu came out from Cao Cao, he broke through five levels and beheaded six generals, and gained a reputation in the world, so he had proud capital, but the burden of victory also fell on him, which became an unavoidable burden in his life. If we can recognize the flattery to ourselves, there are many foam ingredients in it, then we won't even be in a coma. Although bubbles are colorful under the sunlight, they will not last long and will eventually burst. If we can understand this truth, we may leave fewer jokes for future generations, which is also a warning to future generations. Pride will eventually make people go backwards and make mistakes.