What's the use of having children?

There has been a saying in China since ancient times that "raising children to prevent old age", which may be recognized by all people in history as "useful" for raising children to prevent old age. In fact, to a large extent, it is a fact that old-age care really depends on children from today. In the future, the national strength will be enhanced and the pension system will be improved, which is another story.

Based on this theory, people with a high probability have never thought about the use of raising children. From the moment the ideology was formed, they thought I wanted to raise children when I grew up. There is no reason and no reason. This concept was planted in my mind, accompanied by the most basic cognitive ability and thinking ability.

And I, the first to raise a child, may be based on this.

But after we really have children, we also think about this problem. Why on earth should we have a child?

First of all, whether it is necessary to have children is a matter of opinion, and there is no right or wrong. Generally speaking, there are more people who think they want children. So before marriage, if there is no special agreement, they will have children by default. Then, raising children is the responsibility of a family. If you decide not to have children from the beginning, that's fine, but before you get married, you need to get the consent of the relevant family members.

Secondly, after raising a child, we will understand more and more that the child is a gift from God, and his growth process is also the growth process of his parents. This process includes spiritual cultivation and purification, belonging and independence of sense of responsibility, learning to be grateful, learning to be compassionate, learning to love, and so on.

Human beings continue to live and progress because they have children.