A boy of 12 years old in Chongqing, his mother confiscated his lucky money and called the police with tears. How to deal with it?

I think children's lucky money should not be completely dominated by children for the following reasons:

1. The child is too young to control the lucky money. Should be kept and controlled by the guardian.

2. On the surface, children get lucky money, but its essence is parents' communication income.

Therefore, in this case, it is necessary to educate children to understand that your lucky money is not your income.

Parents tell their children this truth through examples.

For example, your aunt gave you 500 yuan lucky money, and I should at least give it to your aunt's child 500 yuan, both of which were bought by parents.

Even the lucky money given by your grandparents is not all yours, because parents have to do their duty to support the elderly.

Let the children understand that it is reasonable for the mother to confiscate the lucky money.

We should also educate children to respect their parents and know how to be grateful. It is not a matter of course who gives you lucky money, but to repay others.

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This happened on the eighth day of 202 1. At that time, a boy of 12 years old in Shapingba District of Chongqing called 1 10 and said that he had been beaten by his father. After the police arrived, the boy sent a soul torture to the police: Why did my mother take my lucky money?

First of all, we must admire the responsible attitude of the police. We didn't leave the child alone because his father beat him, but went to the police. Moreover, after arriving at the scene, he not only pointed out that the father's behavior of hitting the child was wrong, but also educated the child not to indulge in playing mobile phones and to be considerate of his father's painstaking efforts. I've said both things.

However, for the child's last question, why take away the lucky money? The policeman was stupefied, and could only say that he and his mother negotiated a solution. It shows that this question is really difficult for most people to answer.

As a legal person, Jiazi should answer the question of how to deal with lucky money from a legal point of view!

First, the legal nature of the lucky money is a gift from the elders to the younger generation. Although this gift may be given to parents' children in real life, it is essentially a free gift.

This kind of gift is a pure income activity for children. According to the provisions of Article 19 of the Civil Law, even a person without or with limited capacity for civil conduct can still independently conduct a purely beneficial civil legal act, that is, accept the gift of lucky money.

After accepting the gift, the lucky money belongs to the child, not the property of the parents.

If the younger generation gets married, it belongs to the common property of the younger generation and their spouses who receive the gift money unless the elders explicitly say that the money belongs to the individual when giving the lucky money.

Second, how to deal with the lucky money? However, although the lucky money belongs to the younger generation, if the younger generation belongs to minors.

According to Article 18 of the Civil Law, minors under the age of 8 are persons with no capacity for civil conduct, and cannot engage in non-pure civil legal acts, that is, they cannot dispose of lucky money by themselves. Therefore, in principle, minors under the age of 8 cannot dispose of the lucky money by themselves, and parents can ask their children to leave all the lucky money to their parents for management.

According to the provisions of Article 19 of the Civil Law, minors over the age of 8 are persons with limited capacity for civil conduct, and can engage in civil legal acts that are purely beneficial, or that are suitable for their age and intelligence. In other words, minors over the age of 8 can already use the currency suitable for their age. Therefore, for children of this age, parents can leave a small amount of lucky money to their children for management, but a large amount of lucky money beyond their age and intelligence should still be managed by parents.

So how should parents manage their children's lucky money?

When parents dispose of their children's money, they can only use it based on the interests of their children, including buying daily necessities for their children and paying training fees. And also compensate children who have caused damage to others.

If parents use their children's money for their own purposes, such as buying their parents' personal belongings, it constitutes infringement.

According to the third paragraph of Article 34 of the Civil Code: "A guardian who fails to perform his guardianship duties or infringes upon the lawful rights and interests of the ward shall bear legal responsibility." Parents need to bear corresponding legal responsibilities, including returning their children's lucky money.

In short, parents have the management authority to hand in the lucky money of minors, but they can only use it for the benefit of their children. what do you think?

The topic of lucky money is indispensable in the taste of China people, and it is a love and a blessing from the elders. Chongqing 12-year-old boy was dissatisfied with his mother's confiscation of lucky money and called the police for help with tears. It may be a trivial matter for the police to answer the call. How to handle it properly is not difficult.

First of all, we must determine the ownership of lucky money. It is true that boys aged 12 should call the police for help. Lucky money should be a child's "legitimate income". Whatever parents or others give should belong to the donee. Strictly speaking, biological parents have no right to confiscate it. Some children have a lot of lucky money, and millions or even hundreds of thousands are nothing new. As a lucky money for minors, according to relevant laws, parents are legal guardians. We can manage the property of minor children reasonably and legally, and dispose of the lucky money of minor children, which should be agreed or acquiesced by everyone. We really can't bully others or infringe on the rights and interests of underage children.

Minors are not persons with full capacity for civil conduct. As legal guardians, parents should fulfill their guardianship responsibilities and protect the legitimate rights and interests of minor children.

How to deal with it? Key words: education guidance, contract spirit, financial management consciousness.

Lucky money is some pocket money given to each other by relatives and friends during the Spring Festival. During the Chinese New Year, the elders will distribute the lucky money prepared in advance to the younger generation, where the bread contains their concern and sincere wishes for the younger generation; In folk culture, lucky money means blessing peace.

So, how to help children manage lucky money effectively?

Cultivating children's contractual spirit is the key. When children arrive at primary and secondary schools, parents should not only care about their study habits, but also pay attention to their personality cultivation. Let children learn to fulfill their promises, increase their personality charm and have the ability to cultivate self-discipline.

It may not be enough to rely solely on verbal restraint. We also need to make and sign a plan to manage the lucky money with children, and make clear the purpose, use and management methods of the lucky money.

For example, you can jointly save the lucky money as a "lucky money fund", set up an account, and the parents of the children jointly supervise (one person takes the card and one person takes the password). You can also sign a use contract together, with the parents as Party A and the children as Party B, and it is limited that only through labor can you exchange a certain amount in the fund.

When the family is short of money, encourage children to pay necessary expenses with lucky money, such as tuition and living expenses. When the family is not short of money, tell the children that the money is from relatives and friends, and bless your health, including physical, psychological and financial health.

The positive influence of parent-child contract on children: let children establish contract consciousness; Teach children to take responsibility; It helps to cultivate children's good habits.

How to deal with children's lucky money? As the child said, "I worshipped the New Year and knocked my head. Why do you take my lucky money? " . Now the denomination of lucky money has exceeded people's imagination, hundreds, thousands or even tens of thousands. If you put so much lucky money on children, it is really worrying. It is natural for parents to keep their children's lucky money. But to use the safest method, don't treat kindness as a donkey's liver and lung.

It is also a precaution for the child's guardian to keep the lucky money. But it can be open and transparent to children and reserved for children. If children need to buy school supplies within the normal range, they can spend them. Financial management is to make children grow up healthily, not to confiscate them and limit their freedom of life.

We should still understand why the child should call the police, perhaps because the parents did something inappropriate and made the child feel wronged. This is not necessarily a bad thing. At an early age, I knew how to protect my rights by law. The police uncle must know a lot. We also hope that many families can correctly handle the relationship between adults and children, instead of doing what they are told, they should be moved by emotion and reason, so that children can understand some truth. Little things can show how parents educate their children. We should get rid of the high-spirited bad temper and let the children integrate into a complete family, so that the family will become more warm and happy.

19 In February, a boy of 12 years old in Shaping District of Chongqing called 1 10 with tears. As soon as the police arrived home, the boy cried and accused his parents of "criminal evidence" like a rescuer.

1, "At 6 o'clock in the evening, I was playing outside and my mother told me to take a shower. I think it's too early to take a bath at this time, so I said that I will talk back to my mother after 9 o'clock. " When I heard my son talking back to his wife, my father came out and taught him a lesson without asking questions, and kicked his ass. "Dad's bad habit of hitting people never changes!"

2. "Why did Mom take my lucky money? Today is a holiday. What's wrong with my mobile phone? I just play a game for an hour, and then play another game for an hour. How do you know that poor learning has something to do with playing mobile phones ... "

Come to think of it, the child is absolutely right. In this regard, the police who came to the door were also very helpless. As the saying goes, it is difficult for an honest official to break housework. This family education problem is really bad for the police. On the one hand, the police guide children to listen to their parents' education and understand their difficulties. On the other hand, it also points out that parents should not spoil their children too much, but should listen to and respect their children's ideas more. Through the coordination of the police, the child finally calmed down and took the initiative to realize his own problems.

In the final analysis, the problem of children's education is still a problem of parents. Behind a problem children, there must be a pair of parents with problems. Parents should set an example, moisten things quietly, and influence and infect their children with their own behaviors. At the same time, parents should strengthen moral education for their children, cultivate people, and attach importance to their moral education from an early age. Family education is an eternal topic, and each has its own way, but companionship is the most effective way of education. In the process of getting along with children for a long time, parents understand each other, respect each other and treat each other as equals, which is conducive to the development of children's sound personality.

During the Spring Festival, relatives and friends will give their children some lucky money. If you don't give your children too much lucky money in the New Year, parents should leave it alone and let their children spend it as usual. If relatives and friends give their children too much lucky money during the Chinese New Year, parents can discuss with their children and temporarily manage these lucky money for their children. Parents will spend money from these lucky money if the children spend it reasonably. Parents can't use their children's lucky money in their daily life. Friends and relatives give their children lucky money and spend it themselves. Parents can manage their children's lucky money, but they can't spend it. If parents spend their children's lucky money, it is meaningless for them to receive it during the New Year. Parents have no right to deprive their children of the lucky money they expect for one year. Lucky money is a childlike interest, a wonderful story of childhood, the care of relatives and friends, and the affection of children and relatives and friends. Children spend the lucky money for the New Year by themselves, so that children will especially like to spend the New Year with their parents and feel that the New Year is a particularly sweet and beautiful thing. Children will grow up in happiness and become the pillars of the country.

A boy of 12 in Chongqing was very angry because his mother confiscated his lucky money and called the police in tears. As a child's mother, it may be very wronged and very wronged. Seeing this news, most people may feel speechless, sighing and helpless.

First of all, this phenomenon is the sorrow of parents, the sorrow of the whole society and the embodiment of the current lack of education. As far as this matter is concerned, it shows that parents' education for their children is not enough and comprehensive enough, especially in the face of money. This incident shows that children are too greedy for money. In fact, it is impossible for parents to let their children consider and be responsible for their food, clothing, housing and transportation. What do children need money for? They just have snacks and play with their classmates in private.

Secondly, it is a bad habit to give children lucky money in the New Year, which is not good for their growth, especially for their understanding of money when they grow up.

Third, are parents too strict with their children? It is normal and necessary to give children some pocket money at ordinary times. There is no need to confiscate all the lucky money of their children. Welcome friends who have different views on this point to discuss it together.

Fourth, there are many ways to deal with children's lucky money, such as buying children's school supplies and extracurricular books, buying funds and wealth management products. , used for children's future college and graduate school expenses. But the premise is to communicate with children, at least let them know the whereabouts and uses of lucky money.

I think it is problematic for parents to confiscate their children's lucky money without authorization. The children at home have already reported to the police, indicating that parents' usual management is not meticulous enough.

My children's lucky money will also be confiscated by me, but I will tell my children that your lucky money will be kept for you, earmarked for children, and the accounts will be made public.

I told my child that before the child matures, the child must discuss with his mother about spending money. When my children meet their favorite toys and school supplies, they will take the initiative to discuss with me, and then I will support their purchase intention.

Children have lucky money, so we parents don't have to confiscate it, because children still need to spend a lot of money to grow up. When children need to spend money, we should bend the rules and give it to them.

If we do this, it will be good for our children and give them an advantage of not spending money indiscriminately. We have taught our children not to spend money indiscriminately since childhood, and through this incident, we have also given them enough respect.

My children spend money very seriously, buying skateboards, balance cars, shoes, clothes, extracurricular books and school supplies. By letting children spend their own money, they also improve their financial management ability.

By letting children manage their own money and spend their own money, they also learn to be careful and don't want anything.

I think this method is good, I hope my friends will try it.

I confiscated all my son's lucky money before he graduated from high school. How much he received is how much I sent, and why it became his. I also made it clear to the children, so every time I get the lucky money, it is for me. Later, I was admitted to the university and got many awards. Grandpa alone gave him tens of thousands. This time, he didn't want him. He opened a stock market account to help him manage stocks. I graduated this year and showed him my account. The son excitedly asked if the money would be confiscated. I said no, but you should also start to learn how to manage your money through stock trading. The longer you spend, the more wealth you have. In addition to work, you will have another income to make your family more comfortable. If you want to buy something, just help yourself. As a result, he hasn't taken a penny so far, saying he wants to see what it's like to be 500 thousand.