Before getting married, I asked my boyfriend to buy a car, plus a bride price. Is this too much to ask?

It's not too much for you to ask your boyfriend to have a car, a house and a bride price as a wedding condition. Because it is your right to make any request, you can make any request. But the question is, can your boyfriend and his family bear these conditions? In principle, the material requirements you put forward are not high, but the situation of each family is different. Don't go too far, and you can't generalize.

If it is a normal working family, these requirements are not low, but they can be achieved with a little effort. However, with the soaring housing prices, the housing prices in many small places have also risen from 2,000 yuan to nearly 10,000 yuan, and the cost of buying a house has become a big burden for most families. If the whole family tries their best to buy a house, it is very likely that other material conditions may not be met.

Buying a car and a house plus a bride price, normal families will prepare for the woman, even if you don't mention it. But there is nothing you can do. Maybe the house you bought is relatively small, or the car is not a good car, or the bride price is not as high as you think. Will you still marry him? In this case, the man's family also bought a house and a car and paid a bride price. Do you agree?

All kinds of "negotiations" before marriage are actually the joint efforts of two families. Don't expect too much from others, but when you ask, please take into account their family environment, don't just talk but don't practice. Besides, conditions can be mentioned, but these things are equal. How much you want, whether you will bring back a bride price and whether you will have a dowry, these are all factors that affect this matter.

Besides, it's not that I'm saying how much you want, and I can't say. Whether these conditions can be met or not is excessive, which is what your boyfriend said at home. If your boyfriend's family is satisfied with you, then naturally they are willing to give you these, so you don't need to mention them. But if they are not satisfied, even if you don't want anything, people may not be willing to let you marry.