Yang Mi was humiliated in public: your self-righteous superiority is a joke. what do you think?

I have heard that a person's EQ can be seen from his language. For example, I saw an interesting scene when I was watching the prequel of Qi Pa Shuo 7. Liu Chunyi, the headmistress of Peking University, claimed to be the champion of the national college entrance examination. Her manners are full of confidence and arrogance. As soon as he appeared, he was domineering and unwilling to take the first place. Because she has won the first prize too many times, she wants to try how to lose this time. High flyers, old Versailles.

However, Chipa said that she is an elite gathering area, so everyone is willing to accept the occurrence of Liu Chunyi. It's just that the following development trend is interesting. For example, during the job interview, she mentioned a popular online buzzword: "involution". Involution, in short, is the market competition between people, and there is a blind comparison. For example, if you "roll" me, it is your existence that has helped me to have great market competition and work pressure.

But when it comes to this situation, Liu Chunyi paused and deliberately noted that I want to briefly explain the involution to Mr. Kang Yong and Mr. Yang Mi. Taste carefully, this is inconvenient. Don't Cai Kangyong and Yang Mi have academic qualifications? So Cai Kangyong and Yang Mi's little expressions suddenly became more and more subtle. Because Liu Chunyi has been hinting at Yang Mi, Xu can't help saying, why are you always pestering her? Liu Chunyi's statement is because Yang Mi has a bad eye, a little expression that I also want to hear.

Even netizens feel that something is wrong. What is the reason for this inexplicable tea smell? Yang Mi also smiled and replied, "Thank you for looking at me." It goes without saying that in my interview afterwards, Liu Chunyi touched his head and was very helpless. She felt that Yang Mi couldn't understand what she said, so she wanted to take the time to express it and let Yang Mi participate in her discussion. But in fact, in the variety show, you can find that she herself can't express clearly what this involution means.

Therefore, after the variety show started, everyone was a little bored. Some people think that she can't chat, others think that she did it on purpose, which means that Yang Mi is a big vase and Cai Kangyong has no culture. Some people simply think that she is only immersed in her own world, can't forget the crown of the past, and look down on those who think they are inferior to her. In other words, Yang Mi, even if he is a big vase, should not be so mean, and highlight his Excellence by slandering others. After all, many times, your plain pride is just a kind of self-created ridicule in the eyes of others.

In our daily life, we actually meet some people who are unreasonably proud. Some people look down on others wearing Anta when they wear AJ. Some people carry LV bags and look down on those who carry small CK. Some people have returned to China several times, but they don't like people who travel in China. They usually feel superior, trying to undermine others' opinions behind their backs and immerse themselves in their own pride. See some interesting screenshots of chat conversations on Weibo.

A boy and a girl are dating. The girl's WeChat circle of friends sent some photos of holiday life. After seeing them, the boy gradually showed his pride. Don't take it out until you have been out of Asia, which is enough to make people smile. Although the girls are a little uncomfortable inside, in order to be more civilized and polite, they still cooperate with each other's performances and praise each other's beautiful photos diligently. Helpless, the other party was unhappy, saying that girls had never seen any market. Finally, the girl finally couldn't bear it and came back at once.

These people who try their best to show off their pride are actually people who subconsciously feel extremely useless. They try to get a sense of pleasure and accomplishment in the whole process of expressing pride, so they gain the envy and attention of others, but ignore the disrespect and shallowness of this individual behavior. The less a person has, the more he will show off. Man is a naturally proud little animal, but it is not mainly manifested as great wisdom.

I know that I am better than others, but I never say that this kind of communication is the most comfortable way. Everyone has a sense of pride, as the writer Li often said: big people have a sense of pride than small people, beautiful people have a sense of pride than faces, high-paid people have a sense of pride than low-income people, people with high diplomas have a sense of pride than people with low diplomas, and even people living in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen have a sense of pride than people living in big cities. The pursuit of perfection and pride is not a problem in itself. There is nothing wrong with a person wanting to be the first in his class, the first in his main work performance, and the more humane, elegant and better quality of life than others.

But the pursuit of perfection is not a show, not a show. The pursuit of perfection is enterprising, and it is to make yourself stronger and more extreme. As the saying goes, pride is like underwear, you can't just take it out and wear it. Really advanced people are not easy to show off their charm, let alone expose the embarrassment of others. Wang once mentioned something about him and Andy Lau, when he was just famous and Andy Lau was already a superstar. When Wang came out of the bathroom, he met Andy Lau. It was the first time that Wang used the induction faucet. He didn't know how to use it. After twisting for a long time, no water went out. In his difficult situation, Andy Lau naturally put his hand under the running water, which solved his embarrassment.

Wang said that no matter how long passed, he still remembered this interface, and he was very grateful to Andy Lau for his sincere assistance at that time. Leave a decent place for others, and don't show off your charm. His kindness is the highest level of pride. Zuckerberg, the founder of Facebook, often wears jeans and T-shirts, but has donated a lot of wealth to charity. Ren, the president of Huawei, personally pulled buses such as suitcases, but transferred many shares to employees. Chow Yun Fat, the best actor, wore 15 yuan sandals, took the bus and subway, often accompanied his wife to the vegetable market to buy food, but donated RMB 5.6 billion naked at one time. He is really a veteran, unassuming and gentle. what do you think?