My family is too poor and my parents can’t help much. I want to wait until I have enough money to buy a house and get married before I start dating.

You are wrong. I am in the same situation as you. My family has no money, but now I have a house and a car, and I work hard on my own. I fell in love with my wife when I had nothing. Having nothing does not affect your relationship. The girl you find after you have everything may only be able to share your joys with you. Only the girl who can be with you now that you have nothing can be with you even if you have nothing. If there are hard times again in the future, I will never leave you. How wonderful.

And to be honest, when you have everything, what is left for you will be the kind of unhappiness. I know how many girls I've passed by, so I'd better get one early, haha, listen to my brother, you're right.