What did Liang Qichao say when Xu Zhimo married Lu Xiaoman?

Xu Zhimo married Lu Xiaoman, but I didn't expect Liang Qichao to say so. It's amazing!

Although intellectuals in the Republic of China pursued free love, the situation of Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman was a bit special. Because they are all married people, it is inevitable that extramarital affairs will develop to the point of divorce and reunion. In the social environment at that time, this kind of behavior did not conform to the social atmosphere. In addition, Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman were celebrities, and their families, friends, teachers, students and relatives opposed it. No wonder they are despised.

When Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman got married, they were both married at that time.

Xu Zhimo's ex-wife is Zhang Youyi, and they are married in an old-fashioned way. Although Zhang Youyi is dignified, his feet are not liked or even hated by Xu Zhimo. So he just got married and declared that "I want to be the first divorced man in China", and then he really abandoned Zhang Youyi.

As for Lu Xiaoman, she was the first to marry Wang Geng. However, after my separation from Wang Geng, I became more emotionally indifferent. Because Wang Geng was absorbed in his work, when Lu Xiaoman wanted to play, he said, "I don't have time. Ask Zhimo to play with you. " "In this way, Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman played together in the favorable situation recognized by Wang Geng. Get along day and night. Soon, Lu Xiaoman and Wang Geng had another big fight. Lu Xiaoman was insulted by Wang Geng in front of everyone, claiming that he would never return to the Wangs again, and finally divorced Wang Geng with 1925.

1926, on tanabata, Xu Helu got married in Beijing Beihai Park. Liang Qichao, the teacher of Wang Geng, was invited to attend. He honestly criticized Xu Zhimo on this occasion where he should have been happy and only said good things.

"Don't take selfishness as the criterion, don't take absurdity and pleasure as the purpose of life pursuit, don't treat marriage as a child's play, think that you can get married if you are happy, divorce if you are unhappy, make parents feel ashamed, make friends look down on themselves, and make society look like a joke! Anyway, I hope this is the last time you two get married in your life! This is my congratulations to you! I'm finished! "

This passage was read by Liang Qichao in public at the wedding of his beloved Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman. It is a fact that Liang Qichao doesn't like Xu Zhimo's private life.

I have to say that great people do things differently. A short wedding motto can not only exercise the new couple, but also the whole world, and also warn the daughter-in-law. It is really generous. In the final analysis, this is also Liang Qichao's wisdom as a human being. Faced with such a difficult problem, he not only kept his sincerity, but also did not refute the face of the person who asked him to testify.

All this, the only possible imperfection is: after all, Liang Qichao's "preaching" at the wedding was unlucky, and the marriage between Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman was not satisfactory after all. Just five years after the wedding, Xu Zhimo was killed in a plane crash, and their marriage left no children.