What do people with low emotional intelligence say?

In fact, there are many people with low emotional intelligence around us because they always say these three words.

First, I like to talk big

In life, there are always people who like to talk big and brag about their abilities. My friend really asked him for help. At first, he always liked to clap his chest and say yes, and then he disappeared. Doing so not only delayed other people's affairs, but also ruined their own reputation, which was not worth the loss. A person who likes to talk big must have a low eq. He doesn't know that his credibility will gradually disappear with the number of times he talks big until people around him keep a distance from him.

Second, love gossip.

What kind of people are the most in life? Bitch? Always like to gossip. Confucius said:? Don't speak evil, don't listen to evil, don't see evil? In other words, those who don't watch, those who don't listen, and those who don't talk are the smartest people. There is always something wrong with life? Smart? Some people always like to gossip behind their backs, thinking that this can show their sense of existence and express themselves? Well informed? . According to an online survey, 60% people in the world like to talk about other people's affairs, and people who have nothing to do with themselves also like to talk about them, so as time goes on, gossip will increase. This situation not only reduces work efficiency, but also leaves a bad impression on others.

Third, always tell cold jokes.

There is always such a person around us who likes to argue with others, thinking that he can show himself in this way? A sense of existence? . Talk about something that only you find funny? Jokes? Always talking to what he calls? Cold joke? In the end, every chat also has a strong embarrassing atmosphere. A joke is tolerated because it is an interaction between two people, having fun and laughing happily. If the other person looks unhappy, it means that this is no longer a joke and needs to compensate for his misconduct.

In fact, emotional intelligence is a kind of ability to control one's emotions. Whoever can master his emotions is a person with high emotional intelligence. People with high emotional intelligence only regard speaking as a subject and know how to talk to people. They talk nonsense.