I don’t understand anything about interpersonal communication. What should I do if I find out that I am the clown?

Here are some interpersonal communication skills with high emotional intelligence. In many cases, you can not only build a good relationship with others, but also make yourself happy. Learn them as soon as possible.

(1) When a person is on the verge of getting angry, and you neither want to confront him nor suffer his anger silently. Then choose a place with a mirror to communicate, because when he is angry, he will see his "ugliness" in the mirror and feel ashamed.

(2) Paying attention to the other party’s feelings in details can often have unexpected effects. For example, replace "thank you" with "thank you", replace "did you understand?" with "did I explain clearly?", replace "don't know" with "I will learn/understand immediately", etc.

If you do this often, you will become an educated person in the eyes of others.

(3) When you don’t know how to answer, don’t force yourself to find something to say. However, speaking out of your head will have a negative effect. At this time, as long as you remain silent or smile, you can have good results.

(4) Psychological research shows that most of human information is transmitted through expressions and body language, and only a small part depends on the content of your words. Many times, the right expression and appropriate actions can help you get everything done before you speak.

(5) Speaking minefield: Never criticize others for things that cannot be corrected: such as appearance, appearance, figure, etc. You can say that a person’s makeup is not good, his clothes don’t match, and his mind is empty. But we can never say that she is ugly, has a bad figure, or is naturally stupid.

(6) When you want to interrupt someone's speech, an interesting way is to lower your head to tie your shoelaces or pretend to pick something up (you can also drop one on purpose), so that when you lower your head and bend over Sometimes, others will stop talking and wait for you.

(7) If you want someone to agree with you, imitate his way of speaking, tone and accent. This subconscious sense of familiarity will make him feel closer to you.

Conclusion: These are some commonly used communication skills with high emotional intelligence. They will neither wrong yourself nor hurt others' psychology, and can significantly improve your interpersonal communication skills.