Do men cry lightly? Husband's psychological preparation for childbirth

(The above picture is from & Huang He)

Author \ Editor Emilio Zhuang

Dai Junzhu, an actor known as Little Zhou Xun, has participated in many idol dramas, such as Betta, My Summer in 1949, 16, etc. After marrying her husband Huang, who is also an actress, she welcomed the birth of her first daughter a few days ago. In addition to being moved to tears by the arrival of the baby, the husband was even more embarrassed to reveal that "in fact, he cried miserably before his wife entered the delivery room." This move reminds many people of the feelings of her husband outside or beside the delivery room when he was struggling in the delivery room.

Dai Junzhu's husband shared his feelings of being a father on Facebook: "After many twists and turns, our long-awaited little Polly finally came to our side today. There was a loud cry in the delivery room, and tears came out unconsciously! Thank all your family and friends who care about you. Both mother and daughter are good. " In the photo, he was wiping his tears outside the delivery room, and his mother patted him on the back to persuade him not to be nervous.

Why are you crying so hard? Huang said that he was not absent from every birth check-up, but he was not with his wife at the last minute. I feel very sad and worried that she will be helpless. The doctor advised Huang not to enter the delivery room. He was worried about the wound infection and had to wait anxiously outside the delivery room. "I cried until the baby came out, and I was still crying." I love crying, and I was teased by my brother. Huang said shyly, "It's just that the boys' tears have been beating, because I'm really happy and touched!" 」

After pregnancy, Dai Junzhu's status was directly upgraded from "Princess" to "Empress Dowager". In addition to doing housework, the husband also helped to cut nails, put on socks and shoes, suffered from cramps and couldn't sleep all night. Her husband is even more nervous than her, and even let her hold his hand when his wife is uncomfortable, which makes people feel very intimate and moved.

(When Dai Junzhu was pregnant, her husband helped to wipe the lotion every day, and from time to time she sweetly shouted to her stomach, "Mommy has worked hard! (Image from Dai Junzhu's husband and wife Facebook)

In fact, in the process of childbirth, not only the expectant mother should be prepared, but also the husband and prospective father who accompany her should be "psychologically prepared" and take care of themselves before taking care of their wives. Many husbands' anxiety in the delivery room often can't reduce the burden on the parturient. Sometimes in the face of unknown situations, even medical staff have to help appease their husbands, which in turn leads to trouble!

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What psychological preparations should the husband make when the mother is ready to give birth?

Tell yourself that waiting for labor is a "protracted war"

Be prepared for a protracted war. Don't forget to bring yourself a change of clothes. You can also bring one or two magazines or joke books to prepare for your communication with your wife.

Don't care about your wife's "refusal"

Expectant mothers may sometimes become irritable and irritable, and may be angry because of the pain of childbirth; Furthermore, you may enjoy your touch just now, but soon you hate your touch; I was very happy to listen to your jokes just now, and it was too long-winded immediately. Don't take it too seriously, because mother is only responding to the pain she is going through.

Know your own ability and do what you should do!

There is no need for prospective fathers to interfere with the treatment of medical staff. Rest assured, the medical staff will do their job well, and the husband only needs to concentrate on calming the mood of the expectant mother.