Last night, I joked with my boyfriend that if I bought a house in the future, I would ask him to pay150 thousand, including the gift. No sooner had he finished than he was unhappy.

Your problem is that you shouldn't joke about such things. Because you don't understand your boyfriend's psychology. I chose an inappropriate content and said it at an inappropriate time, and the joke became my own ridiculous. Both sides became unhappy. Don't blame your boyfriend yet, look for your own problems first.

You should know: your friend certainly doesn't have much money now, and he is in a hurry, and there is not much money at home. He was in a hurry, at least he was in a hurry. Anxiety forms a kind of depression, depression and then sensitivity. When you mention this, isn't it a slap in the face?

Since you are not with her for money, why do you say how much money? Give him the feeling that this is not duplicity?

Then why not give him a hug at night? On the contrary, you play computer and stay up late. Why not give him a hug the next day?

If you take the initiative, will he still have a cold face? Can you throw anything away? What makes sense between men and women, especially at home? Give him a hug.

In fact, your boyfriend can not care too much about this, and he can be less anxious. Thick-skinned, strong sense of humor. Laugh at what you say. But he is not the kind of person who can do everything. However, I am very serious, caring for my family and reliable.

Tell him what I mean, and there will be no problem.

Wish you all the best.