What happened to people who didn't pay for their meals?

I often hear jokes between friends: it's my treat tonight, and you pay the bill!

This specious statement is often quoted, because eating or not will not be embarrassing. The obedient person shows sincerity, wants to have dinner with you and is ready to pay the bill, then this sentence will come true; It doesn't matter if nobody appreciates it. It's just a joke at best. The speaker does not blush, and the listener does not feel pressured. It's not worth mentioning to laugh it off.

But some people, under the guise of eating, do the most homework, and finally find that they are just cheating on eating.

I remember one day, due to the need of work, I also exchanged things with a friend. Finally, he told me to have dinner together when he was free. I said yes. He also quickly sent me the time and place for dinner. When ordering at the dinner table, he was very enthusiastic and asked me to order without ceremony. I looked at the menu, and the consumption level of the restaurant was moderate, the civilian price and the high price.

I have a habit, but if I don't have dinner with my family or girlfriends and need to order food, I will try to order dishes with moderate prices according to the situation of both parties, and the per capita consumption will be controlled within the acceptable range of both parties to prevent embarrassment.

I was no exception that day!

By contrast, he looks more like a local. When eating, I am also the host, encouraging me to eat more and more. Chatting while eating, things are discussed, and dinner is coming to an end. Leftovers, and then pay the bill

He suddenly stood up and told me apologetically that he was going to the bathroom. I thought the other party paid the bill in the name of the above toilet. As a result, five minutes later, there was still no one. The waiter looked at me and asked me if I wanted to pay the bill. I was shocked and immediately realized that he was avoiding paying the bill.

No sooner had I paid the bill than he appeared with a guilty face and said, Oh, how did you pay the bill?

There are two situations that I can forgive for this behavior: one is that I really have something urgent to deal with when I pay the bill, and the other is that the economy is relatively tight and I can't get it.

I deeply understand that the economy is tight and I can't afford to pay the bills. I remember that for a while, the economy was in a state of tension because my business was not on the right track. My friends invited me to dinner, but I basically refused politely. Occasionally, the table is very comfortable. I'm nervous and at a loss, always afraid that I won't have enough money to pay the bill.

So, when I looked at this guy, I didn't care about the expression of apology, because I came back from the bathroom and couldn't pay the bill.

Later, a colleague told me that this person is a shareholder of the company. He has a good income, a car and a house. He is not financially strapped, but he is stingy with money and doesn't pay for meals. This is his usual trick.

At first, everyone thought that he was really busy and had no time to pay the bill. Once is an accident, many times is not a coincidence. Later, I heard that friends and colleagues around me hated him, and the development of the workplace naturally plummeted.

If you don't pay for dinner, it's cheaper at best. From the immediate point of view, it does save a little living expenses. After a long time, you will find that what you save is a little, but what you lose is a piece of sky.

After all, on the road of life, you will get it if you give up!