Reverse thinking

There are many people who are not very emotional.

Just like me.

Always indifferent to others because of the model.

So how to deal with high emotional intelligence?

If someone scolds us, how should we deal with it with high emotional intelligence and let him deceive himself?

First of all, you must keep silent.

When someone scolds you, you must take a deep breath Inhale, exhale, inhale, exhale. Think of something else and ignore him. In this way, he will be more and more annoyed. People will only laugh at him, not at you.

Second, how to kill people.

When someone scolds you, you can reply in HD. I have had this problem since I met you.

For example, one day a person who is hostile to you says to you, "Do you have hair?"

You must calm down and answer him, "I do have problems, but I haven't had them before." I have had this problem for no reason since I met you. "

At this time, he will feel ashamed and annoyed.

You can sprinkle salt on a piece of blood and say, "It seems that I have to stay away from you in the future."

Third, keep calm and don't panic.

You must show that you are helpless and not panicked. This will make the other person more angry. So you are scolded by others, don't scold back, it will cause more mistakes.

For example, the following example:

Male A said to female S, "Do you have an X? X has been pestering me. "

Female A quarreled with him: "Are you XXX?"

Male A cursed: "You have X"

The woman gave him a pat.

So they broke up.

Just try another way.

For example, below.

One day, a man's daughter said, "Do you have an X?"

The woman calmed down, remained calm and didn't panic, saying, "I do have some diseases, but it's just a common cold."

The man was very angry and shouted at her, "You are really like a big monkey."

The woman was shocked, calmed down and said, "Human beings evolved from a big monkey."

So that so-and-so fell off the table angrily and left.

Doing something right can make things better, at least it won't involve yourself, so it's best to keep yourself.

Fourth, learn to communicate.

When helping others chat with you, if someone scolds you abnormally and says emotionally, all you have to do is say a few words: "Relax, what do you want to say" or "Let's talk slowly and listen slowly. I am sitting here. "

If the other person doesn't want to communicate with you, you can introduce another topic, "It's a beautiful day today." ...

Fifth, learn to be calm.

You must calm down. If you can't calm down, your anger value will change back to your body. Your blood pressure is relatively high. If you have high blood pressure, you are likely to faint. Being angry will shorten your life, grow white hair and get angry easily, so please don't get angry.