No relatives or friends can understand your jokes.

Write the warmest words, soothe the lonely heart, pay attention to me and warm you.

Old relatives have deep feelings, and you come and go, like a family, very affectionate.

Now people are thinking about family ties, and many people are reluctant to go to relatives' homes.

Relatives come together because of blood relationship, we have no choice, but we can keep a distance from relatives who don't want to associate, so as to avoid affecting our good days and chilling because of relatives' association.

There is always a kind of relatives who like to curry favor with the rich and dig at others who have no money or power. Their hypocritical and ugly faces are vividly reflected in them.

Zhang Ailing said:

"True relatives are not determined by blood relationship, but by the heart waiting for you. There is only one kind of relatives in this world, that is, people who care about you and love you, whether they are related to you by blood or not, are all your relatives. And vice versa. "

Some relatives are even worse than friends. Relatives treat you in the following ways, which is actually "looking down on you". Don't take it seriously, or you will bring shame on yourself.

If there are no snobbish relatives, you can only say, friend, your life is really good.

I believe that most people have met snobbish relatives. They always try their best to flatter their rich and powerful relatives and narrow their distance, but they sneer at relatives who are not as good as themselves.

If a relative often habitually ignores you, to a large extent, they just don't take you seriously and look down on you.

In their view, the benefits always outweigh the feelings. He greeted you warmly when you reached the top, and stayed away from you when you were dissatisfied. Such relatives should accompany them as little as possible.

There is no difference between relatives and friends who can only benefit from communication and those who can make friends.

This is the real money society. When you are poor, you go to your relatives for help. Some people won't help you, but also watch your jokes, even worse than strangers.

How rich you are, how good they are to you. And when you are down and out, even if you take the initiative to say hello when meeting, they still love to answer irrelevant questions.

They always give you some bad labels and preach to you. In fact, they look down on you in their hearts, and satire can only reflect its status if it hits you.

It's really chilling to meet such relatives. No matter who he is, it is best not to associate with him, so as not to waste time.

China has attached great importance to family ties since ancient times, and family ties are also one of our most cherished feelings. But now, some family ties are nothing in front of money.

People talk lightly, some relatives don't respect your opinion, and even feel disgusted with your speech, so they will deliberately target you and interrupt you when you are talking.

Their disrespect for people is actually to look down on people. Don't please these snobbish relatives, let alone ask them for any help.

People look down on you and despise you as a poor relative. You'd better be more knowledgeable and don't flatter them.

"Kiss or not, family", if it involves relatives and interests, then don't associate. Why do we have to get along so tired?

Kinship is not only a traditional custom, but also a way of communication to maintain blood intimacy.

In the past, relatives in the countryside were very close. No matter how poor you are, you will try your best to lend a helping hand whenever you are in trouble. But now, if you are poor now, relatives can stay away for various reasons.

No one in the city asks you if you are poor, but if you have money in the mountains, you have distant relatives. This is not only a cruel affection in reality. Relatives treat you in the following three ways, indicating that they look down on you. You should know what you are doing and stop shutting yourself off.

Goethe said:

"Although we can grow up under the protection of our parents and relatives, we can rely on our brothers and friends, and we can get happiness with the help of our friends because we have lovers, in any case, in the final analysis, human beings still have to rely on themselves."

Don't overestimate kinship. The so-called blood relationship must be based on money in the eyes of some relatives. Don't talk about kinship and blood relationship with such relatives.

Being a man, relying on relatives will be chilling. You might as well rely on yourself. From now on, associate with affectionate and righteous relatives, break off diplomatic relations with fickle and disloyal relatives, and don't expect help from relatives above.

Author: Ling Xiaomai, a girl who likes words, is very happy to meet you in my words and is willing to accompany you to make a poem with the warmest brushstrokes.