What if a "psychopath" likes you?

Thanks for the invitation! If this person is "mentally ill" and has violent tendencies, we should stay away as much as possible. Of course, it is impossible to fall in love with her (him), what do you think? If this "mental illness" still has a concept of love, then her (his) disease is not very serious! Not all mentally ill patients will commit suicide or murder. Under drug control and treatment, mentally ill patients with mild symptoms can completely take care of themselves and slowly get better! They can even take part in some simple jobs and be able to support themselves.

The causes of mental illness are mostly caused by lack of love, or by a huge blow or stimulation. Sometimes love is very confusing. If you love each other, don't care about other people's rumors! You should give each other more care in life! Try not to let the other person be too stimulated again, and try to make the other person feel loved. This will be beneficial to her (his) recovery.

Mental patients also have the right to pursue happiness. We should not look at them with colored eyes. As long as everyone gives a little love, the desert will become an oasis! As long as everyone gives a little love, the world will become a better place!

When people are in love, affected by the body's hormones, they may look more or less like mental illness. For example, to outsiders, they may laugh for no reason, talk to themselves, cry and feel depressed, and feel the inexplicable desire to be exposed to the wind and rain. Sometimes I jump and sing happily in the rain, sometimes I cry and shout in the rain! If the person you are passionately in love gives him or her a good look, you will be happy all day long and everyone will want to kiss you! If you give someone a bad look, you will be in a bad mood, and you will dislike everyone and want to curse them!

If a person with the above symptoms likes you, then congratulations, she really loves you. You must be able to see her quality through the phenomenon, and whether her heart is good or evil, it also depends on Do you like the other person? If the other person is kind-hearted and you don't hate her, then continue to date her. If you don't like her, then clearly reject her!

What needs to be reminded is:

Does this mentally ill person really like you or is it a "delusion" of hers or his?

The so-called "delusion" is one of the most common clinical symptoms of mental patients. It refers to the patient's pathological reasoning and judgment about people or things in the external world.

In addition to the common "relationship delusions" and "persecution delusions", there is also a common clinical delusion called "love delusion", which means that the patient feels that someone has fallen in love with him, and then he Love him very much too.

This symptom is common in female patients:

For example, a female patient thought that the leader of their unit had fallen in love with her, and every move, smile, and frown of the leader was directed towards her. It is some kind of hint that he has a good impression of her or that he loves her. If the leader drinks from a cup, he will think that the leader wants to "kiss" him. And if the door of the leader's office is open, it is a "hint" to invite her in and have sex with her.

And because of this, they are "self-indulgent", sending text messages to the boss to express their love, or asking the boss to have dinner or watch a movie, etc.

Be extremely careful and cautious when encountering this kind of situation to avoid making jokes or even legal disputes.

If you are destined, continue. People with mental illness are very smart, cherish them carefully, and care about them more. Mental illness cannot hurt them. Avoid exposure to cold water, avoid injuries including overwork, and always prevent colds. If there is no chance, end it!

The reason why the subject called the other person "mentally ill", and the name was put in quotation marks, shows that the other person may not really be ill. He or she may just be a little too paranoid and do something unacceptable.

When encountering this situation, Wutong felt that it should be treated separately.

If you don’t like the other person at all, don’t make it difficult for yourself.

You can try to politely refuse.

For example, you feel that you are incompatible with the other person's personality, or you feel that your three views are inconsistent, etc. Some sane people give up.

If the other party still persists, you can tell the other party bluntly: It is impossible for us.

Don’t waste any more time on me, you will find the one that suits you.

A friend of Wutong once said that when she was in college, there was a male classmate in her class who began to pursue her in her freshman year. But she didn't like this person at all.

But the male classmate was very persistent. No matter where A went, the male classmate would suddenly appear in front of her, blocking her way, and insisting on asking her why she didn't like herself?

A said that he really felt that the two of them were very inappropriate. And I have no feelings for him at all. I hope he won't bother me again in the future. And A clearly told him that his behavior caused him a lot of confusion.

Furthermore, mobile phones were not yet popular at that time, so male classmates wrote her many letters. In order to make the male classmate give up completely, A put all the letters he wrote to himself in a plastic bag and returned them to him.

Seeing her such determination, he cried and burned all the letters, which was an end to his past unrequited love.

In addition, you can also find someone familiar with both parties to persuade you.

Because after all, a twisted melon is not sweet. For the sake of their own lives, they should treat their feelings calmly and don't do impulsive things, which will harm themselves and make it difficult for others.

Actually, I personally think that persistence is one thing, but there are also many people who risk everything for their feelings.

I have seen similar examples before. In order to chase the person I like, I chased the person, regardless of the impact to create public opinion, and even committed suicide in order to win the sympathy of the other person.

There are also those who are mentally unsound, pursue the other person, and if they don’t get it, they retaliate, causing physical and mental harm to the other person and ruining their reputation. This is all unwise.

Love is a matter between two people, and wishful thinking will not have a happy ending.

Furthermore, we are born once in this world, life is very precious, and love is only an integral part of life.

You must not leave hurt and regret to yourself and others because of improper handling of emotions.

I have a certain say in this issue, because my ex-colleague has a "crazy" boyfriend. After breaking up, he has been acting crazy downstairs at my friend's house, even during the epidemic.

The main problem is that they have broken up for more than two years. It’s scary to think about it. After the breakup, the man installed a tracker on his friend’s car, and she even harassed her friend’s new boyfriend while they were in love. As a result, my friend never fell in love after that.

Actually, both of them have problems. My friend has been hooking up with her ex-boyfriend for nearly ten years. They are both divorced. The man wants to get married, but the woman doesn’t want to get married. Usually, The two of them just wanted to have fun and didn't have any big plans.

We often quarreled over trivial matters. Afterwards, the man would give the woman something and take her out to play, etc., and the two of them got close again.

In the end, they broke up because the woman was too overbearing and cheated on her. In the end, the man got into a fight and the woman's parents had to control her before they broke up. When they broke up, the man even made a big fuss over money.

After that, the man couldn't let go and wanted to get back together. Then it turned into constant harassment, either stalking or setting off fireworks downstairs and yelling in the middle of the night.

So I am asking the question, if you meet this kind of man, you should formally reject him from the beginning, don’t say nothing, your attitude must be tough, and if possible, stay away. .

It is troublesome to encounter this kind of situation, but you must be ruthless. You cannot be soft-hearted or show different emotions because of certain behaviors of the other party. In this case, you must be ruthless to the other party.

Good luck.

Whether a person likes you or not is not the most important, what matters is whether you like the other person.

If you don’t like the other person, it doesn’t matter whether he is crazy or not. The first and most important thing is to effectively stay away from the other person and protect yourself from being disturbed and entangled.

If you like each other, then we need to discuss it. What exactly is this mental illness in double quotes? Is he pathologically mentally ill or do you think he is "mentally ill"? He was originally a normal person like you and me, but did he become a so-called "mental illness" in the eyes of others or you?

If the other party is pathologically mentally ill, there is nothing to say. A pathologically mentally ill person cannot legally marry and have children, but the law does not stipulate that a pathologically mentally ill person has no right to like others. They also have the right to like others.

As long as it doesn't offend others, it's a very private matter for anyone to like others, and it's also a very personal matter for you to like the other person.

However, the law does not recognize the social consequences of this kind of liking - such as getting married and having children. This is also unacceptable from the perspective of the will to continue human genes. But human rights and free will should be protected. We can like flowers, plants, cats, dogs, and give them affection and sustenance, but mentally ill patients can also be the carrier of our affection and emotional sustenance. It’s no big deal, I just like it if I like it. However, this kind of love can only be the purest love in the end, because after all, mentally ill patients do not have the ability to behave as social people. In the long journey of life in the future, you will play more of a guardian role. This is wrong. I like the personality of waiting, can you bear it? I think not everyone can afford it.

The most rational thing to do is to give the other party as much care as you can, then sort out your emotions and get on your way. Life is long and not easy. We always have to support each other in order to live a better life. If your partner is a mental patient, I don’t know how such a journey should be taken...

The above is a discussion of pathology Psychiatric people like it, but I think since the double quotation marks are used, this possibility should be very small. I think the mental illness in double quotes you asked about is more of what you think of as mental illness. Maybe his behavior is weird, or his thinking is unusual and unacceptable, so he is labeled as "mental illness" .

To be honest, if you have classified the other person as "mentally ill", it means that the way you look at the problem should be very conflicting, so conflicting that you have to use such a serious label to describe him. Or maybe he really has some kind of personality disorder, is paranoid and irritable and cannot control himself, and will do things that harm himself or others to attract attention.

To be honest, whether it’s because of different views or a really paranoid personality. None of us deserve to dwell on the question of what to do if a mentally ill person likes you, but the question of what should I do with this person.

First of all, if the three views are different, there will be no happiness if everyone forces it! Stop the loss in time, life is not lacking in vanity that one or two people like.

Secondly, why are you discussing with a paranoid person whether you like it or not? Stay away quickly! Are you going to be PUA? Aren’t those bloody examples of being PUAd in relationships enough? The most important thing is to protect yourself, stay away from "mental illness", and be safe!

A person who can be liked by a mentally ill person must be a very caring and friendly person. I discovered that the people who like me now are normal people. If one day I am liked by a mentally ill person, I will definitely seriously summarize my virtues and abilities to be able to attract the likes of so many types of people.

Tell me a story about "mental illness".

Around 1994, I was studying in junior high school in a small town far away from home. I lived with my uncle and went home during the winter and summer vacations.

I remember it was a return to school, and I was sitting on the shuttle bus by the window.

Looking back now, I always felt a little sad at that time, maybe it was too far away from home.

The way to study is full of pictures of my parents sending me to work on the cold morning, giving me thousands of instructions and instructions. Every time I looked back at them, my vision blurred and I could no longer see them.

The frost on the car windows melted away after I breathed. I always used to stare out the window and fall asleep amidst the bumps of the shuttle bus.

The car broke down when we were approaching the town. There was a beef noodle restaurant and several kiosks at the intersection.

The driver was very familiar with this place and soon found many people to help push the cart. It was at this time that the heroine of the story appeared.

I looked out the window. Among the people pushing carts, she raised her head and met my eyes. She looked at me with a smile. We looked at each other for a long time.

She looked sixteen or seventeen years old, with a hint of plateau red on Bai Jing's face. The eyes are crystal clear.

I felt like a deer in my heart. I thought it was definitely love at first sight.

After returning to school, I couldn’t calm down for a long time.

Every time I pass by this intersection in the future, I will order a bowl of beef noodles. She is the daughter of the owner of this store.

Sometimes the noodles melted and she didn’t come out.

This "encounter" becomes more and more exciting in my mind. The scene of Paul Korchagin meeting his sweetheart in "How the Steel Was Tempered", "The Red and the Black", "Anna" "Karenina" scenes about love keep popping up in all the stories I read.

I even thought that she was trapped in the store, waiting for a knight to take her away, and I was that knight.

Finally, I couldn’t help but ask my cousin from the same school, "Brother, why doesn’t that girl in the noodle shop study?"

My cousin first smiled evilly, as if he had seen through it all. my thoughts.

"She was the school belle of her former middle school."

"One time when we were studying in the evening, there were no street lights on the road. A classmate in the same class wanted to tease her and suddenly jumped out of the intersection to scare her. As a result, he was frightened and suffered mental problems, so he never went to school again."

""The boy also regretted it, and I heard that he paid a heavy price." ”

After hearing what my cousin said, I really didn’t want to believe it.

Later, until I graduated from middle school, I passed by a noodle shop several times, and I would still order a bowl of noodles. There was a high probability that She brought it all up.

We have never said a word.

After so many years, I believe she has recovered and got married and had children.

< p> When I saw this title, I was thinking about this mental illness. Putting double quotes means that this person is not really a mental illness, but just likes a person in a crazy way, such as liking to control you, always clinging to you, and often imagining that you are him. I'm with my other half. In fact, we haven't even started dating him yet. When you see him, you feel uneasy and want to escape. I want to say that if this person likes me, I will refuse and I will make my attitude very clear. Don’t leave any intention to make the other person feel hopeful. You can’t be soft-hearted towards this kind of person. Over time, the other person will give up, because I know that usually what this kind of person loves is not the real me but the imaginary me. I Will firmly refuse and stay away.