Why isn't anyone chasing that beautiful girl?

Why isn't anyone chasing that beautiful girl?

Why are beautiful girls not pursued? Feelings are beautiful things. Everyone wants their love to be happy and sweet, and the road to pursuing love is inevitably full of thorns. Let's share why beautiful girls are not pursued.

Why aren't beautiful girls chased by 1 1? Because some beautiful girls are beautiful, they have high requirements for their future husbands' education, income, looks, etc., and generally do not consider those who do not meet the requirements. Familiar boys feel that they do not meet these requirements and can only stay away.

2. Some beautiful girls are self-reliant and beautiful, and they are often arrogant in dealing with people, giving boys a feeling of being above others and making ordinary boys afraid to approach.

3. Some boys with ordinary conditions feel that they are not worthy of beautiful girls, and they don't want to be bored and make some ineffective efforts. So I gave up my fantasy and went to find a common girl as a spouse.

Some boys think that beautiful girls like to dress up, and their consumption level must be very high, so it may be difficult for them to meet their consumption needs. Some boys think that beautiful girls may not be able to control themselves, so it is better to give up as soon as possible than to have many contradictions after marriage.

Some boys are influenced by the traditional idea that an ugly wife is the treasure of the family and a beautiful wife is a troublemaker. They think that beautiful wives are easy to get into trouble, so they cuckold themselves. It is better to find an ordinary girl to live alone.

6. Girls themselves. Some beautiful girls are beyond gold and jade, but they have beautiful appearance, but they lack cultivation and upbringing. Some beautiful girls are withdrawn and difficult to get along with. Some beautiful girls' private lives are not rigorous enough, and there are rumors outside. Such a thing is also the reason why boys dare not approach.

Beauty is God's best gift to girls. Girls should take advantage of this unique condition to manage their lives well, and never rely on their beauty to go to dance school!

Why beautiful girls will not be chased by two stereotypes: preconceived that the other party has it.

One program interviewed Jiang's husband, Gu Changwei. The topic of the interview is this: "Your wife is so beautiful, how dare you chase her?"

Gu Changwei replied, "Maybe no one dares to chase her. Everyone dared not chase her, and I caught up with her as soon as I chased her. "

People always have a preconceived misconception, that is, to see the whole leopard with a glimpse of it. For example, if you think a person is from Shanxi, he must be jealous. If a person is from Sichuan, he must not be hot or unhappy.

This is a psychological stereotype. We always form a relatively general and fixed view of something or object. In the subsequent development, we will apply this view to the corresponding groups and think that this thing or the whole has this characteristic, thus ignoring the differences between individuals.

In the relationship between men and women, a woman with high face value represents a scarce resource, and it is normal for people to flock to it. Therefore, in the eyes of others, it will be assumed that all the good-looking girls are occupied, and naturally they will not pursue them again, but in fact, it is still unknown whether the other party has a boyfriend.

Therefore, under such circumstances, men should avoid the wrong cognition of generalizing, and don't flinch when they think the other person is good-looking. It is impossible to say that the other party has no boyfriend, and he happens to be the beginning of this fate.

There is a kind of beauty, which is customized.

"Park Shin-Nam" is a popular online buzzword, which means that a person is obviously ordinary but has fascinating self-confidence. "Self-confidence" was originally a good thing, but self-confidence divorced from the actual situation has become a kind of self-knowledge.

The self-confidence of fans will make people deviate from their self-cognition, blindly believe that they can, and then lack the opportunity to become better, thus being in a state of self-fantasy, which has become mediocre.

Corresponding to "Puxin male" is "Puxin female". They are actually the living conditions of an ordinary person in daily life, but for some reason, they feel that they are the best people in the world and she deserves the best.

We emphasize that a person should have confidence, but also pay attention to a degree. If you are too confident, you will become conceited, unrealistic and lack reasonable self-awareness.

Therefore, those girls who think they are beautiful but have no boys to pursue are actually such a truth. The beauty they think is just their thoughts.

In the eyes of the opposite sex, their looks can only be said to be ugly, and they will not stand out in the crowd, so they are naturally unattractive.

Zhou Zeng said, "A person has a persistent self, and he has spiritual coordinates in this world. No matter how far he goes, he can find his way home."

We can have self-confidence, but only on the basis of sufficient self, otherwise, excessive self-confidence will become a narcissistic joke.

For love, there is no need to force it. It is better to lack it than to abuse it.

If your face value is not low, but no man has been pursuing you, in this case, we don't have to worry too much, because love is about fate, not that it must be pursued by others.

Just like Liang Shuang in "Twenty Don't Confuse", she looks exquisite and has numerous suitors, but she never makes herself blind because of such a situation. She clearly knows what she wants, and she also knows that those who pursue themselves are only out of affection and may not have any value. She never got anything.

Therefore, Liang Shuang will not lose itself. She looks for a job, exercises skin care and strives to improve herself. She believes that one day in the future, she deserves better love instead of clinging to the present.

Su Cen once said, "I'd rather be lonely than go against my will. I would rather regret than make do with it. Who can enter my heart, I will be king. Those who don't enter my heart are too lazy to perfunctory. "

About love, you can't force it, and don't compare it with people around you. Instead, we should take ourselves as the center, improve ourselves and adjust our mentality. Love is better than nothing.

Why do beautiful girls not pursue the perfect image, which makes people feel "scared"

In life, it often happens that ordinary-looking women have many suitors, while really beautiful women have few suitors. Why is this happening? In fact, we have to start with male psychology.

There was a quip in Zhihu before: Many people chase you, maybe not because you are good, but because you are good at chasing. From the perspective of men's thinking, they are unwilling to accept rejection. Many women who actively pursue it are mostly women who are sure of themselves.

For those women who are above the scope of self-feeling, they are afraid of being rejected, so they dare not get too close, which will inevitably lead to some kind of "I don't deserve her" psychology.

Lin Chi-ling is called the goddess of entertainment circle by netizens. She has high academic qualifications, high face value, high emotional intelligence and outstanding temperament. It stands to reason that her pursuers should line up. A few years ago, Lin Chi-ling said in a variety show: "I really don't have anyone to chase, but I am easy to chase." I can't help crying.

A perfect woman will make men feel awe unconsciously. It's not that she is not good enough, but that she is so good that a man who consciously doesn't deserve you is discouraged.

In the relationship between men and women, the sense of security is two-way.

Love is a kind of value exchange, and the key to establishing love relationship lies in mutual emotional balance. When there is a feeling of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss in feelings, emotional relationships will also be hit.

Talking about mate selection criteria on the Internet says:' Women like men who are stronger than themselves, and men only want women who are weaker than themselves.' Most men want to be emotionally dominant, and beautiful women will make them psychologically uncontrollable and think that such women are not suitable for being partners.

Their hearts will be insecure because of each other's appearance, and men will generally think that there are many suitors around beautiful women and simply give up.

In fact, if a woman lacks pursuers because of her beauty, she might as well try to take the initiative and turn defensive beauty into her own weapon.

Try to communicate with others more, let them put down their guard and change the inherent thinking of beautiful women in the past. As Chen Shu said on TV, a man will only give his favorite to a woman he doesn't love, especially after the relationship is confirmed.

The drama "Who says I can't get married" says: "Women should never choose the theory of migratory birds when they look at love. When the other person comes to you, love will learn to take the initiative. You pick up the knife to cook, and I pick up the knife to fight. "

Women don't have to prove themselves through suitors.

In fact, the reason why beautiful women are in trouble in love is often because there is no blank of suitors in feelings, and all aspects are progressing smoothly, resulting in some kind of self-doubt.

In the face of the peach blossom luck of women around them, they will also have envy. Women naturally like comparison, but sometimes beautiful women will deny themselves in comparison. Originally, their self-confidence gradually disappeared because of their beauty. Instead, they felt inferior without pursuers, so they began to get used to using the number of pursuers to prove themselves.

But as a saying goes on the Internet: "Girls should not be complacent just because there are many boys pursuing them. They should reflect on themselves. How worthless you are will make boys feel qualified to catch up with you. "

After all, women should understand that you are in full bloom, and the breeze comes naturally. Someone chasing you doesn't mean you are perfect enough, and no one chasing you doesn't mean you are denied. Sometimes beauty is also a force that can shut others out.