What are the taboos in getting along with colleagues of the opposite sex?

When you get along with colleagues of the opposite sex, you should pay attention to: don't say dirty jokes, don't care too much, don't eat alone, don't fight and have physical contact, and don't often send red envelopes with special significance.

1, you can't joke about pornography.

Colleagues should focus on their work, and it is not impossible to joke with each other, but we must grasp some boundaries and don't make some dirty jokes, especially men can't joke with the opposite sex. After a long time, it is easy for them to have an ambiguous mood, which is difficult to stop from the beginning until they finally regret it.

2. Don't care too much.

Everyone will encounter some difficulties, and it is right for colleagues to care about each other. But after all, men and women are different. When people encounter difficulties, their hearts are always particularly fragile. If you care too much at this time, it is easy for the other person to have other ideas.

When colleagues of the opposite sex encounter difficulties, they can be properly concerned, but the distance must also be controlled, so that he can feel your concern and not let him think.

You can't eat alone.

It is normal for colleagues to have a meal together, which can make each other's feelings better and work better together. But if you eat alone with the opposite sex, it will not only make people suspicious of dating, but also make it easier for two people to have feelings when eating alone, especially candlelight dinner and drinking some wine. It's easy to do something out of line, and it's too late to regret it.

4, can't play and physical contact.

I have been with colleagues of the opposite sex for a long time. If two people often fight, there will be some physical contact, such as a man touching a woman's head and face, or sneaking around directly. These are all things that couples do. If all of them are done, it is not far from making more intimate moves. Therefore, if you don't want anything to happen with your colleagues of the opposite sex, you must not have physical contact with each other.

5. Don't send special red envelopes often.

In fact, it is not normal for colleagues to give red envelopes. After all, there is nothing to help each other, and it is not an important day. It's daydreaming to give each other red envelopes often. In reality, no ordinary colleague will often give each other red envelopes.

In particular, the amount of red envelopes still has special significance, such as 99,520 or even 13 14 and so on. These are obviously ambiguous hints, red envelopes are often issued, and there are some special meanings. The relationship between these two people has long been impure, and something will happen sooner or later.