Don't feel inferior because of your education!

Many college students who go to society are not proficient in knowledge and expertise. Although the fame is not enough, I can't find a suitable position. This is a common social phenomenon. In their bones, they think that if they stay in the cold window for more than ten years, they will at least have to be an office and get a high salary, even if they can't enter a government agency or a multinational company. This idea is wrong, because the pay is directly proportional to the return. When you want more, you should first ask yourself how much you have paid. Arrogance is not desirable. You should proceed from the objective reality, lower your requirements, and correct your mentality, which determines your destiny.

Don't just see that you have paid so much, always complain about social injustice, always lament that college students are not as good as migrant workers, and what's more, give up on yourself and think it is useless to go to college, and regret that you didn't make a living in society at the beginning. You think that if you didn't go to school, you might be accompanied by famous cars, houses and celebrities now. You think you are wasting your time and life for so many years. If you think like this, it shows that this person is one-sided and doomed to not achieve much in the future. According to relevant data, 75% of successful people are highly educated.

People living in this world, the most important thing is whether their mentality is healthy. Because the chances of success in life do not always appear around you, on the contrary, difficulties and setbacks often accompany you.

In the face of difficulties and setbacks, the most terrible thing is mentality. If there is sunshine in the heart, the whole body will be brilliant; If you are full of happiness, you will be full of smiles; If you are confident, you will go forward bravely and be unstoppable. Change your mood, change your mentality, and turn from another angle.

First of all, don't feel inferior because your education is not high. Education does not mean ability. High school students can do the same job, but some universities can't do it well. This is a question of ability. The position of salesman is the best example. A successful salesman must be a successful speaker. He can attract customers, talk to people well and have a heart-to-heart relationship, thus achieving the purpose of trading.

This position does not require you to have a high degree. He values your social skills. A successful salesman and salesperson is synonymous with high salary. The person who competes for a position at the same time may be an undergraduate, a master or even a doctor, while you only have a junior college degree, but what does it matter? Employers don't need "vases" of decorations, but talents who can really do things, so don't feel inferior. Although it is only a junior college degree, education can only reflect a person's ability from the side. Education is not everything, and you are not without opportunities.

A high degree does not mean a high ability, but may also be a bookworm.

In fact, don't feel that your education is higher than others, you should put all your treasures on your education. Everything is ready for you, you are the only one. The power of the media can't be underestimated now. In recent years, we can often see many geniuses in study and fools in life. The sharp increase in employment pressure in the market has led employers to be "justified". They need people who work hard, not some "talents" who sit in the office and talk big. If you can consciously ignore your education at this time, maybe you can get the position you want more smoothly.

Weather, location and people are in harmony, weather can depend on the sky, location can also depend on the ground, but people and people depend on themselves. Society is a society of people and interests. Only by dealing with interpersonal relationships can we live a relaxed life. Finding a job is not a matter for you alone, but for a group of people. Parents, brothers, relatives and friends will be anxious with them. If they are too enthusiastic and spill the beans, please don't blame them, because they all mean well, but they just don't express themselves in the right way.

Imagine how you would feel if they were indifferent to your affairs. Maybe you will feel cold and indifferent. At this time, if you don't know how to maintain various relationships, it will add fuel to the fire. At this time, it is easy to have bad feelings for your family.

On the other hand, you should maintain various relationships, mobilize all positive factors such as family, relatives, teachers or lovers for your own employment, and create a harmonious environment, which will be more conducive to finding a good job. The era of individualism no longer exists. Now is an era of cooperation, what is needed is team spirit and the strength of cooperation. ?

Don't just make things for your own use, especially those who are proud of the spring breeze at school. In fact, the world is very big. In your student days, you may be the dragon and phoenix among people, but in society, your talents and talents may not be effective. Pride makes people retrogress, while modesty makes people progress. This sentence has been questioned by people in recent years, but as an old saying, it must have its meaning. Self-centered habits can do a lot of harm to people, and opportunities may be more beneficial to you.

There is always nothing wrong with modesty. No one is perfect. You can't do everything right, especially when you are proud. Try to hide your pride, even if it is empty talk, it is better than naked ignorance. People don't like complacent people. If you just copy too fast, you will offend many people. Once you really make a mistake, most people are hitting people when they are down. They will open the venue, surround you, say things like "deserved it" and "who told you to show off" and enjoy your excitement. Then you will know the truth of being a man with your tail between your legs, and it will be a bit slow. I'm afraid you've lost more than face.

Playing the fat man in the face is to save face; People live face tree live skin or face, in short, face is face, that is, those things that are most likely to attract the attention of others. People in China often say "losing face". Through the above explanation, China people still have a lot of face, and there are many such people in life. Some people fight for each other's lives because of a little contradiction between their neighbors' children and their own children. This kind of incident is very common. Some college students are the same. Some people force their parents to buy brand-name clothes, brand-name mobile phones, brand-name computers and even brand-name cars in order to save face at school. They keep fashionable hairstyles and drive fashionable sports cars, and earn enough face in front of their classmates. After graduation, they look down on this job and that job, thinking that they will lose face and miss opportunities.

In fact, a good person who gets along well with people around him at school is called face, and after graduation, he can do extraordinary things in ordinary posts, which is called face. Everything should pay attention to getting by on the face. After graduating from college, the problem of face has become more and more prominent. Students treat, give gifts before leaving, and spend money everywhere. In fact, how much face can such a toss get back? To what extent did the face recovered in this way give you useful help? Behind the excitement, what kind of burden do you and even your relatives have to bear for your expensive face? Have you ever thought?

There are also some people who do disgraceful things to save face. For example, some girls often have semi-naked "low bras" and VCD to show their charm and vitality as a stepping stone to job hunting. It has been reported that in universities, a class meeting is full of monitor and league secretary; Some students even secretly find out various certificates to emphasize their versatility and false brilliance. With luck and opportunism, they regard fake academic qualifications, fake certificates and fake honors as life-saving straws for employment, thinking that this is a shortcut, and finally shooting themselves in the foot.

In fact, the real face is not given by others, but earned by yourself. He doesn't need foil or decoration. Real face is real, real, is the most real and precious. You don't have to feel guilty and bear a heavy burden for money and emotional debt, and you don't have to lose your dignity to please anyone. You live an easy life, too open-minded and not obscene. Such people are the ones who really care about face.

In addition to the problem of face, there are some places worth pondering, that is, the shelf that can't be put down.

Many people are afraid that looking for a job everywhere will make them lose face, that asking someone to help them find a job will make them look down on themselves, that they will be called waste if they can't find a job, that they will be embarrassed if they can't find a job, and that their work is not as good as their classmates. Actually, there is not so much fear. It's just that we haven't really discovered our potential. Society is an economic society, and people are the masters of the economy. People have to consume and eat when they are alive.

When "belly" and "face" cannot be considered at the same time, we can only solve "belly" first and then consider "face". Although it seems cruel, it is related to a pragmatic and objective attitude. If we are afraid of losing face, we will tear off that hypocritical mask and throw it on the ground. In choosing a career, there is no need to suffer from the past for the sake of face.