Do you know: My second uncle's biological mother is a businessman's family, why can she be Ningyuan's first wife?

Both the hero and heroine and the ancient biological mother died in dystocia. The difference is that Wei Xiaoniang, the biological mother, was framed by first frost and had dystocia, while Bai, the biological mother of Gu, was frustrated by her anger. Gu's biological mother Bai, originally the daughter of a businessman, married into a noble family and became the wife of an imperial clan. As the saying goes, there is always a demon when something goes wrong. Bai's father didn't expect that he ruined his daughter's life for his marriage.

Bai was born with a silver spoon in his mouth and was spoiled since childhood. I am sensible, kind, virtuous and beautiful. But such a good woman can never let her husband take a serious look at her. In a rage, she lost her life, leaving her only son Gu as a motherless child. Bai's marriage reveals three marriage truths for us.

1 heartless man, don't marry Bai's husband Gu. He has married three wives in his life, but they are all unhappy. All three wives were killed. I have to say, this has something to do with him. Gu looks decent, but he is not as good as his son Gu.

The White House came to Gu Yan's parents' house and asked for marriage. More than that, the White House is rich in dowry, well-informed, kind and virtuous, and beautiful.

It is such a woman as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade who was snubbed by Gu Yan on the wedding night, making Bai the laughing stock of the whole court. Even Gu was forced to have sex with Bai by her parents.

Bai Wei gave birth to a son, and Gu was not only unhappy, but also increasingly cold in dialogue. Until the death of the old duke and his wife, Gu inherited the title, and Bai found that Gu often wiped his tears with his wife's memorial tablet.

It can be seen that Gu Yan is only happy with his dead wife Daqin, and there is no love in dialogue.

The saddest thing about a woman is that she has married someone else. No matter how good you are, you can't see each other.

To make matters worse, Bai went to the garden and overheard a female history (actually Xiao Qin) tell the only son left by Daqin: Bai forced his mother to death, and Gu married Bai in order to use his dowry to save his family, but Daqin did not die of illness, but was angry with Bai alive.

Suddenly hearing this shocking news, kind Bai was the last straw.

If Gu Yan doesn't get close to herself, she can bear it, thinking that the other party will never forget to get a wife, but this marriage turned out to be a calculation, and she was so tired that she was innocent. White nature is sad and angry.

In a rage, he rushed to care about the theory, put forward and ran away from home, but was reprimanded by Gu as unreasonable, leading to premature death.

From beginning to end, Bai was the loser, and Gu Yan began to stay out of it. He has no heart, let alone a good heart.

This marriage is a transaction. Gu only finished the task, and even blamed Bai for the death of his first wife. As white as flowers and pure as jade, it was finally destroyed by a heartless man.

Marriage is a kind of practice, but after all, it is good for the other party to respond. An unresponsive marriage is like a one-man show. It won't last.

Different circles are regarded as a shame.

There is a saying: "Different circles do not need to be forcibly integrated, and the three views are inconsistent. Don't make do. " This sentence applies no matter where and which dynasty.

Just like the White House and the family, one is the house of lords with iron coupons in hand, and the other is the house of ordinary businessmen. Although they are rich, their status and class are different.

Remember those rich squires who waited for their son-in-law after the imperial examination in Know? The only person who can drive these people crazy is a Jinshi, let alone a family-oriented marquis.

Bai's father pitied his young daughter for losing her mother in her early years, and knew that the White House was selfish and wanted to find a backer for her.

So when Mr. and Mrs. Gu came to propose marriage, he only agreed to this marriage after a little consideration.

In his view, the man is mature and steady, with a high status, and his daughter is virtuous and gentle, so they can naturally play the piano and sing harmoniously.

But in Gu Yan's eyes, a businessman is not worthy to be his wife at all. He would never have married a businessman's daughter if he hadn't saved his family.

White is just a commodity, in exchange for the continuation of the family goods. Marrying Bai is regarded as a disgrace, and he doesn't even allow others to mention the merchant's home in front of him.

Bai, even if everything is fine, it is still a shame for him to have a baby.

From Mammy Chang's mouth, we can also hear that the servants in Houfu are very critical of the dialogue and have little respect for this lady in charge.

Bai didn't understand this winding courtyard at all, and never thought about the difference of status, the distance between classes, and a man with a master's family took a fancy to himself.

Bai's father just wants to find a backer for his daughter, but he doesn't know what you have to pay for others if you want to rely on them. Sure enough, the family is only for a white dowry, and Gu Yan's eyes are never white.

If she finds an ordinary merchant family for nothing, she may not be able to live a harmonious life with her kindness, but she has entered a circle that does not belong to her under the arrangement of her father and is doomed to decline.

Gu later married Xiao Qin, who was full of scheming and deliberate, and she was the real daughter-in-law in the deep house compound.

Marriage is sometimes like this. There are some differences in Qianshan, and you can't eliminate them even if you squeeze in. They don't belong in your own circle. Even if you squeeze in, you just wronged yourself and embarrassed others. Why bother?

Since you don't love, don't force it.

Bai was dystocia because she heard someone tell Gu Yan's wife's son that she killed his mother and forced the Daqin family to die.

The unexpected truth made her unable to accept that she was the murderer who forced Daqin's family to death, and even more unacceptable that her marriage was just a transaction and a calculation of her family. Long-term repressed dissatisfaction and resentment made her unable to restrain herself and go to Gu Theory.

Whenever Gu has a little love for her and a gentle word, Bai won't be too excited to give birth prematurely or even die.

A person who doesn't love you, even if you are deeply hurt, is a joke to the other person.

So Gu pushed Bai away and Bai died, but Gu soon married a new wife, Xiaoqin.

Mr. Lu Xun once said that "the joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected". Similarly, if a person doesn't love you, your emotions have nothing to do with him.

In this case, it is better to let go, love yourself more and think more about yourself. Life is too short to fight for someone who doesn't love himself.

Bai's first half life was happy and carefree, but he couldn't laugh all day after marriage. Marriage that can't bring a smile can only bring harm.

Bai's father once said that it doesn't matter if you are poor or rich. The key is to be nice to girls. He is willing to match a generous dowry and send her to get married.

With a thick dowry, my daughter ruined her life. I don't know how to blow my father's heart.

Even if there are thousands of grievances in my heart, I can only bite my teeth and swallow it. This is the gap between class and status.

As for Gu, this man seems to have been guilty all his life. He felt guilty about Daqin's family, Bai's family and even his family. He seems affectionate but most heartless, hurting not only three women but also three children.

Although Bai was patient, he was still furious and eventually hurt himself. It can be seen that there is no fairness in marriage, and only being good to yourself is really good.

But women all over the world, who don't want to marry a Mr. Right, Qin, Su and Ming, take it for example, just girls, don't forget, if you can't be beautiful, protecting yourself is what you should do most. May every woman in the world be treated with love.