In what way can we get rid of the problems of melodramatic and narrow-minded?

When your material level can't satisfy your spiritual level, you begin to be melodramatic. I think this sentence is quite right. When your material level or a person's ability can't meet your current spiritual needs and what you want, you start to pay, because you feel that life is too strict with you and you don't get what you deserve. I think this is a process of changing your mentality, melodramatic. Is it that your spirit doesn't match your ability, or that you don't have the ability to get what you want, so you become melodramatic, so you become inferior and narrow-minded. Is to improve your ability and then change your mentality. You can change it.