Life is over 60 years old, how to be a smart old man?

1. Don't worry about the children's money. They are adults. As a parent, you should learn to let go and let them handle their own financial problems. If you manage their money well, it's called taking care of them. If you don't do this, your daughter-in-law or outsiders will think that you are after their money.

It is particularly important to take care of your health. Once a person reaches the age of 60, all kinds of physical functions are declining. At this time, what you need to do most is to manage your health problems, run, walk and exercise from time to time, and try not to get sick. No one likes the old man being sick all day, and his children waiting on you every day. Even if they are filial, they will complain more or less.

3. Old people with pensions should manage their pensions as well as possible and strive for which pension to live on. If no children have a pension, you'd better discuss it with several children and see how much their children give you every month. These things should be agreed in advance and the rules should be set, otherwise one day you suddenly ask your children for money, and the children will think that you want it from them.

Children can give you money to support your old age. You should look at it with gratitude and stop asking too much of them.

Try not to live with children. If you live together, you may just be their free nanny. There may be no contradiction at first, but after a long time, all kinds of things will definitely happen, especially with your wife. In the end, your son is caught in the middle, and no one is comfortable, but he will blame you for much trouble.

Don't blame children's behavior, otherwise they will only dislike you. Talking less and doing more is the most correct decision.

6. If you live with children, you should be diligent. Usually young people are busy at work, so you should try your best to help with housework. Don't let others think that you are always carefree and eat for nothing all day.

7. Reduce unnecessary social interaction. At the age of 60, friends around you will start to do subtraction. Some insincere people can gradually stop contacting each other. It is enough to have two or three friends who are really good to you. If you have nothing to do on weekdays, you can go out for a walk, chat and exchange feelings with these sincere friends so as not to be too lonely.

8. Don't invest everywhere. Many people are easily fooled once they are old. I have met some old people. In order to earn more pension money, they listened to others and invested all their money. As a result, they lost a lot. I could have lived a good life on my pension, but in the end I asked my children for money and was pointed at by them.

Therefore, for the elderly, instead of thinking about making money, it is better to think about how to "cut costs". The most important thing is not to lose all your money.

9. If your child asks you to take care of the child, my suggestion is to bring it, but taking care of the child will have many cognitive contradictions with young people. You think children can eat more when they grow up, because you used to take care of your son like this. Let him eat everything, and then he will grow fat and tall.

However, young people nowadays don't think so. They attach great importance to hygiene. Not everything can be given to children. Therefore, in terms of children's eating, you'd better get the consent of your son and daughter-in-law, otherwise you may quarrel because of this, and your heart will be uncomfortable.

10. If my wife leaves, I suggest you live alone. After many people reach the age of 60, their wives are gone, and a person feels lonely, so he finds another wife. Personally, I think this is obviously inappropriate, because if you find another wife, the two will have no feelings, just live together, and it will be difficult to distinguish economic problems in the future. If it is not good, the children of both sides will also quarrel about it.

Therefore, partnership life is not very reliable. Might as well live alone.

1 1. Cultivate one or two hobbies. When people are old, as long as they are idle, they tend to think too much, so I suggest you develop one or two hobbies. For example: playing chess, running, planting flowers and grass, etc.

Have a hobby, which can not only help you kill time, but also distract you from being surrounded by children every day. They actually want to have their own living space and don't want you to follow them every day.

12. Don't compare your children with others. No matter how bad they are, they are your own children. Children will feel very sad once they know that you are comparing them.

13. If you live with your children and you have a pension, you'd better share some expenses with your family sometimes. For example, if your daughter-in-law wants to give you money, you can sayno. This will not only make you generous, but also make your daughter-in-law happy and more willing to live with you.

14. Children buy things for you, whether they like it or not, you'd better accept them with a smile. No one likes others to give something to a person. The other person still frowned and said all day, "Why buy these things, waste money, don't waste money in the future, I don't want them." Children give things to show filial piety, and you are not worried about wasting money.

15. Help your children take care of their children. Once the child grows up, you should also know that you have left and lived your own life. There is no need to live with the child all the time.

16.60 years old, children's marital problems, you should stay out of it. They are all adults and have their own judgments. Unless they come to beg you, you should help them make fewer decisions, give them advice and let them judge for themselves.

17. Learn to use mobile phones. Many elderly people are reluctant to use mobile phones. A lot of things are inconvenient to go out, and I have to trouble my children every time. Some children are busy, so they will be unhappy at this time. Therefore, I think people should keep pace with the times when they are old. Learn to use mobile phones, and don't bother others anywhere.

18. If you have a cold or something, you should tell it in time and don't put it off. If the elderly like to procrastinate, it is likely to lead to a serious illness in the end. Early treatment is the best decision.

19. If your children don't support you, then you can mobilize your relatives and friends to tell him that supporting the elderly is your children's obligation and responsibility, and no one can avoid it. However, you don't have to argue with your children face to face. You are weak alone. Learn to send all your strength to help you.

20. Don't be too careless. Don't hide clothes bought by children. Take it out and wear it. Dress yourself up mentally so that others will not mistakenly think that your children don't take care of you.

2 1. Smile often, be a positive and optimistic old man, and keep a good attitude. As long as people have a good attitude, their bodies will remain healthy.

22. learn to cook. If your children come to your house for dinner occasionally, you can cook something delicious for them. Otherwise, some children will resent it, saying that every time they go back to their parents' house, they don't eat, and their husbands will laugh at you. It's good for you to learn more or less. Don't always think that you can just eat casually. You can, but many people can't.

23. If your wife is still alive, get along well with your wife, less bickering and less conflict. Older people must not lose their temper easily, but have patience with each other and spend the rest of their lives with each other.

24. Learn to relax. After the age of 60, I will hear the news that everyone around me has left every two or three years. At first, you may not be able to accept it, and it will be very painful, but after many times, you will be relieved. Life is subtraction, so take it easy. If you always look on the bright side, it is not good for you to trap yourself.

25. If you have several children, and one of them always asks you for money, you'd better not tell the other children, otherwise others will think you are partial and unfair, and the person who can't get the money in the end won't care about you. Old people sometimes have to know how to remain silent.

26. Call your children from time to time and ask them how they are doing. Do you need help? Sometimes, although you can't help, you should at least know how to say hello and care about each other. Dude, sometimes it's just a concern.

27. Keep a kind heart, be kind to everyone around you, do more good deeds and give more blessings.

If you want to divide your property, you'd better share it with all your children. This is the fairest way and the least likely way to cause conflicts among children, and everyone will be obedient to you.