Impressive name introduction

It is very important for people to remember your name. Otherwise, even if they remember what you do, your characteristics and specialties, and have the opportunity to introduce them to you, they can't remember your name, and they can only say "that who ... can't remember it at the moment."

There are several ways to introduce your name:

(A) Knot, the simplest name introduction method

A Chinese character can be divided into different parts, and these parts are sometimes independent Chinese characters, so it is an interesting way to decipher Chinese characters when introducing one's name to others, which can cause others to think.

When I introduce myself to others, I often use the method of deciphering words. My name is Wang Lin. When I was a child, it was a little difficult to write this name. It is easy to write the words separately, that is, it is written as "Wang Wang Mumu". With the accumulation of mathematical knowledge, people will call me "Wang Mu times two" and "Wang Mu square", so I have many nicknames since I was a child, including Wang Wang, Wang Wang times two and Wang Fang. Over time, when I introduce myself, I will split my name into Wang Wang Mumu, which is simple and interesting.

In fact, there is a more ingenious way to get rid of my name, which comes from my parents' desire to name it. When my family was going to have two children, we named them in advance. One was Wang Cong and the other was Wang Lin. Wang Cong is a girl's name, which means "on the king's side". Wang Lin is a boy's name, which means "king of the forest", full of parents' expectations for their son's career. My sister was born first and took the girl's name. My natural name is Wang Lin, although I am a girl.

There is a female friend named "Uncle Zhang", and everyone is curious about why the word "forgiveness" is used as the name. She told us that we can understand her parents' pains by taking the word "forgiveness" apart. Taking the word "forgiveness" apart, it is really clever.

There is also a friend, surnamed Li, named. The reason is that her mother's surname is Li, so she can't always call her, so she took Li apart and called her.

(2) Stories and names are easier for people with stories to remember.

The origin of many people's names will be accompanied by an interesting or touching story. So sometimes even an unremarkable name, as long as you share the story behind the name when introducing yourself, people will remember your name.

I have a friend named Xu Hongxia. She always complains about her father because he gave himself such a vulgar name. Although the name is very common, her self-introduction always leaves a deep impression on everyone:

Hello, my name is Xu Hongxia. My father named me. Although it is a very common name, I am still very grateful to my father. How did this name come from? It's because on the day my mother gave birth to me, my father passed by a military camp on the way to the delivery room and heard the soldiers in the military camp singing: Sunset on the western hills, red clouds flying, soldiers shooting at the target and returning to the camp ... Just after giving me this name, my father said to me, "Don't be vulgar, you should be lucky not to call you Xu Shooting!"

Through Xu Hongxia's self-introduction, we can find that stories and interests are inseparable.

However, there are also stories whose names make people cry.

There is a classmate named Chang, but strangely, her father and mother are not surnamed Chang. When introducing herself, she told everyone the story behind the name:

Hello, my name is Chang. Actually, I should take my father's surname Jia. People may ask my father why he didn't let me be surnamed Jia, or they may think my mother's surname is Chang. Actually, it's not. My name comes from a love story my father gave my mother. Every time my father calls my name, he wants to tell my mother that he misses her. I can tell my mother my name. He misses her. My mother died in a car accident when I was less than three months old. There is an autumn in her name, so my father calls me "Qiu Yi". But because my father's surname is Jia, he didn't want to call me "Jia", so he changed my surname directly. After so many years, I don't feel sad, but I feel very happy, because some people say that the happiest thing in the world is that my father loves my mother so much, even though she is long gone.

Although it is a brief self-introduction, we can still feel some personality characteristics of the speaker, either humorous, cheerful and generous, or gentle and demure.

More importantly, by telling the story behind the name, the audience can continue to listen, because a storyteller's speech will never be too boring.

(C) Lenovo, turning ordinary into extraordinary

But sometimes our names have no obvious characteristics, there are no stories to share behind them, and the words can't be disassembled. How can we introduce our names to others? In fact, you can give full play to your imagination and associate names with familiar things, place names and names. This method can sometimes turn ordinary into extraordinary.

A friend named Liu Yuliang often introduces himself like this:

Hello, everyone, my name may not be familiar to everyone, but everyone knows my brother's name. My brother is Liu (a national table tennis player). Because I am not as talkative as my brother, my mother removed the Chinese word for me. So everyone will know my name. My name is Liu Yuliang. If you really can't remember my name, remember my brother.

There is also a friend named Li Guangjun, and his self-introduction is also very distinctive. He also used the method of association:

Hello, everyone. Before I tell you my name, I want to test how you learn Chinese in your middle school. It is still the moon and border pass in Qin and Han dynasties, and the enemy has fought a protracted war. If Wei Qing, who attacked Longcheng, and Li Guang, the flying general, were alive today, the Huns would not be allowed to go south to spend their horses in Yinshan. This is the poem "Out of the Great Wall" by Wang Changling, a poet in the Tang Dynasty. I believe everyone has recited it. Then I want to ask, who is this flying general? Hey, that's right It's Li Guang. My surname is Li, too. Do you know my name? Li Guang? No, because my mother said when I was a child that I was good-looking, I hope I am not only brave and resourceful, but also have a good appearance in the future, so my name is Li Guangjun.

Although, compared with the previous method, Lenovo has some obvious traces of artificial carving, it is also a good way for the audience to remember your name quickly. If you think that the name is always a difficult problem when introducing yourself, it will never be interesting, then please try this method. Because this book emphasizes more than once: If the audience can't even remember your name, how can they accept your point of view?

(d) Humor, which makes it easier to spread ideas in interesting ways.

Lin Yutang, a famous writer, once said, "I doubt whether the world has experienced the importance of humor, or the possibility that humor will change our whole cultural life-the position of humor in politics, academics and life." Its function is not so much physical as chemical. It has changed the basic organization of our thoughts and experiences. We must acquiesce in its importance in national life. "The power of humor is equally important in a speech.

Carnegie, a famous speaker, said, "Every listener listens to a speech in class just like a primary school student. His attention can only be concentrated for 15 minutes at the longest, so let the audience laugh once every 15 minutes and interact with everyone with a joke, so that others can remember your point of view more easily."

A friend's name is Rui. Her name is a test for herself and others. Her self-introduction took advantage of this and used humorous techniques.

It was difficult to write a name when I was a child, so people answered the second question. I haven't finished writing my name, but I didn't understand my parents' pains until I grew up. Why? Because I have studied for so many years, no teacher has asked me any questions. In Grade Two, the teacher announced the results: "How many points did Zhang San get, and how many points did Li Si get …" I skipped it until I read it. Finally, the teacher asked me if I didn't pronounce anyone's name. I raised my hand and the teacher asked, "What's your name?" I ran to the stage, pointed to the teacher on the report card and said, "That's my name ..."

A trainer named Athena Chu introduced herself in a humorous way:

I'm Athena Chu from the sound of music. This name once became very famous because it played "Xia Zixian Zi" in A Chinese Odyssey. But that beautiful woman's name is Athena Chu, and I have seen many friends write my name as "Athena Chu" by accident before. Actually, it's okay After all, people are beautiful and famous, but once I saw a friend write "Zhu Jun", a bacterial fungus, I was a little angry, so please be merciful and don't let me become a microorganism.

Humor can make you more attractive, make others accept you more easily, spread ideas more easily, and effectively stimulate action. The power of humor should not be underestimated.

Today, I will introduce you to four easy-to-remember name introduction methods, but it is not enough to make people remember your name. The memory of simple names is short-lived. Because everyone only pays attention to themselves, others can't remember things that are of little value to her, so you still have to provide value memory points, which we will mention later in the course.