What should I do if I am labeled with low emotional intelligence?

Just paste it. What else can you do? Accept it. There is no shame in having a low EQ. It's just that you know little about feelings and have little experience. It's just that your emotional intelligence is low. Don't care. For example, you just came out to work and have no experience. After more experience, you will gradually understand.

When I first came out of society, although I talked about love once, it was not considered as low emotional intelligence in the company. I don't think there's anything wrong with it. Low EQ does not mean low IQ, but I am obedient, lack of communication and narrow-minded.

One day, the company had a power outage and colleagues in the department were chatting. Xiao Li said, "Liang Xiao, are you particularly lonely at night? Nobody eats bananas. " Liang Xiao replied, "Am I hungry after playing video games?" Xiao Li smiled and turned to ask me, "Xiaoxing, do you like bananas?"

I only understood the surface meaning. I quickly replied, "bananas are good for digestion and beauty. Of course I like them." As soon as I finished, all my colleagues in the office laughed. I still don't know what they are laughing at.

Xiao Jian, sitting on my right, turned to look at me and reminded me that I had said something wrong, but I still didn't understand what happened to me. The grass sitting on my left is very close to me. He said to me gently, "well, bananas are our men's names, so don't answer casually with low emotional intelligence, others will think you are dirty."

I have a little reaction, but I still don't fully understand the meaning of grass. I changed the subject and asked Xiao Li, "Li Ge, is my emotional intelligence really low?" Unexpectedly, the people in the department replied in unison, yes.

What should I do, defend and refute? No, I should admit it, because I know that a newly graduated college student must know less than their veterans, and his understanding ability and working ability are definitely not as good as theirs.