"Why can't you complain to others easily" caused a heated discussion. What do you think is the reason you can't complain?

They say it's not in the adult world? Is it easy? Therefore, no matter what happens, everyone will choose to endure and always try to make themselves strong. Why can't you complain to others easily? What do you think is the reason you can't complain? Let's talk about this topic.

First, if you complain to your family, they will be worried.

Home is always our safe haven. If we have any ideas, we can tell our families. But if we always complain to our families, they will worry that you are not doing well, and they will be anxious with us. We all want our families to be happy, so we don't want to tell our families about our troubles.

Second, if you complain to your friends, most of the time they can't help you and will laugh at you.

When we are in trouble, we will tell our friends. Although it is much better to say it in our hearts, many times, our friends can't help you and solve your problems. Then you still have some troubles, and you can bear hardships yourself. You don't need to ask others to help you, because when others are listening, they may laugh at you in their hearts, at your incompetence, at your vulnerability, and look down on you in their hearts.

Third, if you complain to the leader, the leader will think that you have no ability to withstand pressure and will not reuse you.

If we encounter some troubles at work and want to tell our colleagues and complain to the leaders, it is actually unnecessary at this time. Colleagues are people who fight with you. You can work together and finish the task together, but if you complain to them, they will think that you are not capable of working, and your ability to withstand pressure is even worse. If you are a leader, you will not be entrusted with a heavy responsibility, and you will lose many opportunities.

Why can't you complain to others easily? What do you think is the reason you can't complain? This is my view on this topic. what do you think? Welcome to leave a positive message in the comments section.