What's it like to have a crush on someone for ten years?

Some people think that unrequited love is also a beautiful feeling. In fact, I have always disapproved of unrequited love. The backstage always receives many readers' messages, many of which have unrequited love and have the same characteristics. They always expect me to interpret whether the secret admirer loves them from the words they provide. I feel very distressed for this and feel very sorry for them. I am distressed because even professional psychological counselors and high-end equipment can't accurately judge one person's feelings for another person. Because people's feelings are profound and complex, and they are constantly changing.

Sometimes, it is impossible for a person to fully understand himself. However, many readers will be sad or happy because of each other's words, eyes and actions, which often affect their normal life. Secret love is like a whirlpool. The closer you get to the center, the deeper you go. In the end, there are fewer happy people and more miserable people. Love is a century-long problem, but people who secretly love it are more worried. Because of inferiority, I feel that I am not good enough, and the other party should not like myself; I feel that the other party's expression is not enough, I dare not express myself first, and I feel that I am not reserved enough; Afraid of being rejected after opening my mouth, I don't even have friends in the end. In fact, the reason why love makes people sad and painful is not love itself, but that we need to respond, so pure unrequited love will not be too hard, because there is not much expectation, and love will come to you, as long as we meet every day. However, most unrequited love is not like this. They are expecting and waiting for love every day. Waiting for the other person to confess first, so a look and a word from the other person can make a tsunami happen in one's heart. I can't solve the distress of these people, but I think a person should be happier if he lives clearly in love. For example, in love, what we want to know most is whether the other person loves us or not, so we try our best to observe everything and finally get nothing. In fact, I want to say that the love that is not clearly expressed in adulthood is an illusion.

What is adult love? It is together! I want to spend the rest of my life with you, regardless of time or space, regardless of poverty or wealth. If a person says that he has had a crush on you for many years, but he never wants to be with you, you will definitely think that he just told you a joke. So don't always ask others if they love you. You must have made all kinds of temptations before this. The messages he doesn't answer, the topics he doesn't answer, and the dates he doesn't go to are simply rejections. If a person says good morning to you, brings you breakfast and cares for you, but just doesn't say "I love you", you might as well wait and give him a deadline. After all, there is always a process from birth to maturity between people.

But remember, every relationship has an expiration date, just like everything has an expiration date. A person who really loves you must be eager to run to you. Even if he doesn't feel good enough now, he must want to keep you and say "I love you" to you first. So love without explicit expression is an illusion. You may be just one, not the only one. The sentence "I love you" will be late, but it will never be absent.