Reunion is ambiguous and catchy.

When I was young, I often heard people say, "In my life, there are three kinds of friendships that I will never forget, namely, classmates who passed by the window together, friendships with guns together, and years when I went to the countryside together." But after entering the society, with the growth of age and experience, we found that many feelings gradually faded, and the original beauty could not be found. As Nalan Xingde, a poet in Qing Dynasty, said, "If life is just like the first time, why draw a fan in the autumn wind?" . It's so popular, but it's easy to change "

Take "reunion" for example. Now more and more people think that "reunion" has gone bad! Just as our ancestors said in "Augmented Xianwen": "The poor live in downtown areas and no one asks, while the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. Money to tell the truth, no money to tell lies. Don't believe me, but look at the wine on the banquet, first persuade the rich. Don't speak out of turn, but don't persuade others. If you have no money, you can't find your loved ones when you encounter difficulties. "

Why is this happening? In fact, it is mainly caused by these three behaviors. These three reasons are very realistic and heartfelt! Let's take a look!

1, compare and show off;

When I was studying, I heard the teacher say, "If you don't study hard now, the gap in your life will widen five years or 10 years after graduation." Everyone's life trajectory is different. It is inevitable that some people mix well and some people mix badly. After many years, the old classmates are finally together. The most important thing is to remember the pure campus feelings.

However, some people bask in their husbands, children, cars, status and famous brands at parties, which makes the original simple reunion secularized and vulgarized.

In the past, the gap between people was not big. But now the economy is developing at a high speed, and the students who mix well are thriving, while the students who mix badly are only enough to support their families. It is precisely because of the widening gap that some people like to show off their superiority and dignity by showing off their wealth and status.

But this behavior hurts the feelings of other students. After all, most people are ordinary people. What's more, one person shows off and others are not to be outdone. In the end, it became a comparison with each other, and no one refused to accept anyone, so that the reunion lived.

2. Love the rich if you are poor;

Su Qin, an apprentice of Guiguzi, was down and out in his early years, and his family looked down on him. Later, Su Qin succeeded in lobbying governors and returned to China in rags. His parents, brother, sister-in-law and wife knelt on the ground, afraid to look up at him. Su Qin asked her sister-in-law: "Why was she so arrogant before, but she is so respectful today?" His sister-in-law replied, "Because of your brother-in-law, you are now in a high position and have more money!" " Then, Su Qin sighed: "I am the same person. When I am rich, my relatives will be afraid of me. I will despise me when I am poor, not to mention other ordinary people. "

It can be seen from this short story that it is human nature to love the rich and the poor, even the closest people, not to mention outsiders.

When I was studying, everyone was equally poor, and I didn't care who was rich, because the competition was about academic performance. But now the class reunion, things are different, everyone's social status and wealth have changed, and there is also a distinction between rich and poor.

Therefore, the nature of many people who love the poor and the rich is exposed: students who mix well like to sit together and talk about business and contacts; Students who don't mix well feel inferior and sit together to keep warm; After a party, everyone made a toast to those students who got along well, left their phone numbers and exchanged business cards. Those students who don't mix well ignore them, so they can only sit in the corner and drink alone, vowing never to participate again. In this way, being too poor and loving the rich makes the original beautiful "returning home" unpalatable!

3. play;

Playing with ambiguity is one of the most criticized things at the reunion. Even, there is a jingle circulating on the Internet: "A bed with more thoughts, a bed with less thoughts, what is moving, what is singing, and what is drinking to death." Although these words sound heartfelt, they are also a reflection of real problems.

When people reach middle age, many people are married and have families, and their work and life are under great pressure. When they meet their first love at school, it is easy to spark love again. In other words, I didn't have a good impression before. Now the more I look at each other, the more handsome I look at each other, and the more beautiful I look at each other. Both sides have a good impression on each other. However, these behaviors are very dangerous and irresponsible, because it will destroy two originally happy families.

Playing ambiguous is not only playing with fire, but also prone to contradictions and disputes. For example, I once saw a news that a married lady attended a junior high school classmate party and was beaten by another male classmate. The reason given by this male classmate is ridiculous: he saw that the female classmate was beautiful and asked for contact information, but the female classmate ignored him; The male students felt despised and drank a little wine, so they made such excessive behavior.

When reading, the feelings between classmates are very simple; After many years, people have changed, and the motivation to make friends is not simple. Some people like to play with ambiguity. A mouse excrement spoils a pot of porridge, which makes the reunion of classmates unpalatable. More and more people think it's better to do one more thing and stay away from class reunion.

Conclusion: People are changing slowly, and time will dilute everything. It is wisest to keep the original simplicity and beauty in your heart! Why is the "reunion" going bad now? Mainly because of the above three reasons-comparing and showing off, being too poor and loving the rich, and playing ambiguous. If we want to get back together with our classmates, please remember to do less of the above three behaviors! Friends, what do you think of class reunion?