My boyfriend's children don't like me. What should I do?

Maybe it's because he is not close enough to you and doesn't know you well enough. At this time, you need to take the initiative to approach the child. Children are born to kiss their mothers, but the relationship is mutual, and mothers are born to kiss their children. If you are not your child's biological parents, give him a high response. The younger the child, the faster he will react, so that his sense of security will be established. When he grows up, he will follow the laws of nature and leave his parents to explore in the distance.

My children grew up with my parents. My children love their grandparents and other relatives and friends, but as long as I am at home, she will only accompany me. Sometimes I miss my grandparents, go to their bedroom and talk to them, and then come out soon. She said she had to stay with her mother, who was alone in the living room.

Although her grandparents brought her up, although she loves them very much, she loves me the most. She always thinks of me first. When someone holds her when she is injured, she will break free and come to me. Once in my arms, her mood will stabilize. I think I have given her enough respect in my daily life, never lost my temper, never scolded her, never hit her, never threatened her, never ordered her, never rewarded her for something she didn't want to do.

The first reaction of many parents must be whether such children are used to lawlessness, and not everyone can control it. On the contrary, this parent-child relationship enables children to listen to their parents' reasoning calmly, cooperate happily when their parents say no, and gently tell him what he can and can't do, which he will keep in mind once.

Relationships always go both ways. What you do to each other, they will do to you. There is something wrong with the parent-child relationship. It is enough to reflect on yourself. If you change, the child will definitely change. So if you want your boyfriend's children to like you, you have to give your love.