How close is the next generation? The granddaughter was playing in the sun and couldn't help but smile when she saw the umbrella held by her grandfather.

Every young parent who is a new parent wants to raise an obedient, sensible and capable child. These parents definitely love their children, but when it comes to doting on their children, parents will try their best to pamper their children. avoid. So who loves pampering children the most? Naturally, they are the child's grandparents. After all, they say that they are the closest to each other across generations.

How much does grandpa dote on his granddaughter? I once saw an interesting video that made me laugh. There are two people in the video, one is an old grandfather and the other is a little girl about 3 years old. The little girl was jumping back and forth on an iron plate, the sun was scorching hot, and grandpa was holding an oversized umbrella, which was an outdoor parasol.

As his granddaughter played back and forth, the grandfather also moved the big umbrella back and forth. This was truly a kiss from another generation. The little granddaughter was lively and cute, and her grandfather spoiled her so willingly that many passers-by couldn't help but smile.

Some netizens said that this is not pampering a granddaughter, but simply pampering an ancestor. However, the elderly in most families dote on their children in this way. This is the love of grandparents and grandparents.

Only grandparents can pamper their children so much, while parents are more strict. If a mother sees her daughter playing in the sun, she will probably just say: "Come back soon, baby, it's too sunny outside." If the father saw such a scene, he would probably go out and take the child back. Only the grandfather would let the child play as he pleased, so there is a reason for the separation of generations.

For the elders, it is an expression of the desire to live.

In fact, this is an essential characteristic of human beings. As grandparents get older, their lives are a process of aging. At this time, seeing their bloodline continue in the next generation is a strong expression of their desire to live. They will prefer young and energetic life forms, not to mention that this life form is still their own family, which makes it easier. Induce your emotions to pamper your grandchildren, and try your best to meet their needs.

Physiological and psychological changes

As people grow older, their intelligence and psychology will gradually become childish. During this period, their control over their children gradually weakens. The same language is also decreasing. At this time, their expression of love for the younger generation is easier to be satisfied by their grandchildren. As the saying goes: Old children are like old children. The older you get, the more like children you become and the easier it is to get close to children. This is true.

Grandchildren’s reaction

Children generally treat whoever is good to them, so they will have more patience to gain the love of their grandparents. Accompany them, and they will get closer to their grandparents. Just like a child, if both parents are strict with him, but only his grandparents are very fond of him, they will be closer to their grandparents psychologically, thus forming an intergenerational relationship.

We can understand the love of the elderly for their children, but the elderly should also know that all education and upbringing should be based on principles, so no matter how close they are to each other across generations, they should not get ahead of education and dote on them. Being moderate and not exceeding the rules is the best love for your children.