Is it reasonable for the woman to ask the child to take her last name?

Who has the same surname? This is a very complicated question. Proposing the same surname as his wife is tantamount to challenging thousands of years of traditional culture. It is tantamount to a man's challenge to tradition and his ancestors. It is a contempt for the ancestors, a denial of the ancestors, a lawlessness, and a violation of the ancestors. The negation of the patriarchal culture is deviant. It is a challenge to men’s status in the family. This is absolutely not allowed by rural people.

Whose surname a child takes reflects a person's status in the family, a person's ability to make money, and a person's strength.

Historically, children have always taken their father’s surname. This is because men are the protagonists, the masters, and possessors, whether at home, in society, in the company, or in the world. Absolute dominance. Women have no right to speak. Women are just tools for men to have children.

A woman has no right to decide or speak about whose surname the child will bear. It's as if small countries cannot join the United Nations' five permanent members. Many countries want to join the five permanent members, such as India, Japan, Germany, and Brazil. Once you join the five permanent members of the United Nations, you will have the right to decide on major issues in the world, your words will have weight, and no country will dare to bully you.

But India, Japan and other countries joining the five permanent members are just a dream. Women want to control the family, control men, and want their children to bear their surname. Maybe it is just a joke.

Many women do not let their children change their surnames after divorce. In order to obtain child support, I dare not change my child's surname. Moreover, even if the man does not pay child support, the woman does not let the child bear her surname.

Is it realistic for children to take their mother’s surname?

The seed is real, and no surname can change the truth

It doesn’t actually matter whether the child has the husband’s or the wife’s surname, just like red and blue, the ancestors originally called red Blue, call blue red, if our descendants still recognize it today. If the wife asks the child to take her last name, the man can patiently explain that it has been the custom for thousands of years for children to take their father's last name. For example, you (the wife) will take her father's last name, and her father will take her grandfather's last name. This has been a custom for thousands of years. But if your wife’s value, status, economic income, work or abilities are better than yours. There is always a risk of a marriage breaking up. Then the husband will recognize those who work as heroes. It doesn't matter what kind of clothes you wear or what kind of hat you wear. What matters is blood and family ties.

Now that the family planning policy has been relaxed, it is now possible to have a second child. After you have one child, you can have two children. One will take the father's surname and the other will take the mother's surname. Your parents will not have any objections. The child is yours. It is your right to take the father's surname and the mother's surname. No one interferes.

Normal women would not make this request. Why do people in China know about picking up a wife and marrying a girl, but why don’t you know about it? You also ask this question

If the child is your own, you can have two children, one with your surname and one with your wife's surname.

The Marriage Law clearly stipulates that children born to a couple can take either the father’s or the mother’s surname. It's not a matter of whether you agree or disagree.

There is no problem in theory.

There will be certain obstacles in local customs.

It’s more difficult in real life.

Personally, it’s not a big problem, but it’s not the case with my children