Money and perfunctory are two different things.

I received a phone call from my best friend in the middle of the night, and she said leisurely: I broke up with him. I said why, weren't you fine a while ago? My best friend said: Because the red envelopes he gave at several festivals were all a few dollars, the biggest one was 13. 14. Every time she didn't buy it, her boyfriend asked her why she didn't buy it. Is it too small? She also said that the size of the red envelope is not important. You know I love you, so it's good to have a heart. Besides, as you know, I recently changed my job and didn't have much money ... last time I gave them a red envelope. My best friend didn't receive the transfer red envelope, but gave him a 520. My boyfriend received it in a second and said, thank you, dear, please accept my heart quickly. You still need a sense of ceremony, right? My best friend calmly said to her boyfriend, Let's call it a day. I don't think we are really suitable. ...

My best friend said that what she cares about is never a red envelope with only a few dollars, but perfunctory. That kind of unhappiness is really to say to each other in minutes: a few dollars of red envelopes are better than nothing. Even if you send me a rose from 9.9 yuan, I will think it is a rare gift. It's just that every festival is just a red envelope of a few dollars, and I really can't feel surprise and sincerity. Listen to my best friend, I don't know what to say. I had to comfort her and say, it doesn't matter, I will always meet the person who will make you feel at ease. But one thing I agree with, in feelings, poverty and perfunctory are always two different things.

I remember my friend cc and his boyfriend were lovers who began to fall in love in college. After graduation, they went to Shenzhen together. In the first year, their salary was not high, and they lived in a remote rental house outside the customs, but their boyfriends always gave cc some warm and pleasant surprises. Cc accidentally mentioned that she hadn't eaten fruit for a long time. The next day, my boyfriend came back from work and brought a bag of fruits that cc loved. He also said that he happened to pass by the fruit supermarket and was having a special sale. It's too cheap! On cc's birthday, my boyfriend bought some balloons and flashing lights from a treasure early and bought a gift, which was really a flower of more than ten yuan and an album that two people had experienced together. I don't know when those were taken by his boyfriend. Cc said that the gift he prepared for me was really inexpensive, but it was really hard, so I felt very happy. A few years later, both of them gained appreciation and salary through hard work, and saved enough down payment for buying a house in a third-tier city. Life has improved, but their feelings have not subsided, but they are getting better and better.

I remember my boyfriend gave me similar gifts before, such as a DIY cup and an album, but I think it is one of the most precious gifts in the world, because it contains the other person's full heart. So, you see, girls are not all material, all she wants is your subconscious thinking and care. Instead of saying that you have no money, give a few dollars in red envelopes, it is better to spend some time making other gifts. Even if you fold the stars, the other party will not think that you are just perfunctory. Again, in fact, in feelings, people who love you are afraid that they don't give you enough, and people who don't love you are afraid that you want too much. People who really care about you will only make small surprises for you and try their best to give you a home. A really good girl doesn't just take it, but knows how to give it to each other. All good things are also because you are worth it.