What should a woman do when a man "jokes" with you and makes it clear that he likes you?

Colleague Kobayashi asked me before: "Is the man who often teases me and jokes with me because he likes me?" It turns out that her classmate Xiao Yang has always had a good relationship with her and is usually a steady person. As long as she is with Xiao Lin, she always likes to make some jokes. Xiao Lin feels that he seems to be interested in himself, but she is not sure. I told her that Xiao Yang must have her in his heart. If she likes him too, find a chance to take him down.

Later, when Xiao Yang said, "Everyone says we are a good match," Kobayashi finally officially responded. Do you find it funny? ""They are right. I think so too. " Since then, the two have officially confirmed their love relationship.

When men and women get along, they occasionally tell jokes to each other, but there is a difference between joking. How a man jokes with a woman will have a place in his heart. The online phrase "How sincere is a joke" is quite reasonable. Although some jokes seem to be jokes, they are actually wrapped in a fiery sincerity, and only those who have a secret love or unrequited love feel the same way.

In this world, there are many people who love a person in the name of friends. Because they are friends, they love each other hard. They are afraid to say it and can't even be friends. If they don't say anything, they are afraid of missing it. Therefore, I always use some seemingly joking words to express my sincerity, leaving room for our relationship to "advance and attack, retreat and defend".

In fact, all jokes have serious elements. Generally speaking, men like a woman and that's how they joke with her.

"I am so handsome, how can I fall in love with you?"

Kobayashi is cute and cheerful. At school, she was very popular with boys. Xiao Yang in Senior Three, he and Xiao Lin are both students' union members, and their relationship has always been good. After graduation, both of them stayed in a city, and Xiao Yang took care of Xiao Lin more and more.

Xiao Yang always joked with Kobayashi that only girls of the royal elder sister type deserve their handsomeness, and every time, Kobayashi grinned at his praise. Every holiday and Xiao Lin's birthday, he will give her gifts. Xiao Lin was embarrassed and said, "I am so handsome, don't worry, I won't fall in love with you."

If a man is kind to a woman, but says to her in a joking tone, "How can I fall in love with you?" In fact, I just don't want a woman to have any psychological burden. He really cares about her.

When a man always jokes about your appearance or external conditions, saying that he despises you, but he still clings to you in various ways, and even he always takes the initiative to find opportunities to approach you, then he must be moved by the facts. The reason why a man likes telling you such jokes is because he wants to carefully hide his sincerity and true feelings for you through jokes.

"Your temper is so bad that only I can stand you."

Seeing that everyone around him is in love, Kobayashi is also a little anxious. Sometimes she complains that she can't find one from two similar people. Xiao Yang seems to say solemnly, "You have such a bad temper that only I can stand you, otherwise, we will make do with it." Then, there are all kinds of coaxing to make her happy.

If a man really loves a woman, he will be extra tolerant and patient with her. Even if her temper is very rough and bad, he is willing to fully understand and tolerate her various vitriolic and unreasonable troubles.

Men play a little temper when you are in a bad mood and say to you in a joking tone, "Only I can stand your bad temper." That implies that he may have feelings for you. Only men who really love you or care about you will worry about your emotions and will not leave you.

"I am good to you because I pity you and no one loves you."

For so many years, Xiao Yang has been carefully maintaining the relationship with Xiao Lin. He silently cares for her and takes care of her. He was embarrassed to admit that he loved her directly. He often says to her in a joking tone: "Don't think that I am good to you because I love you. I just sympathize with you, no one loves me. " He always deliberately distanced himself from the ambiguous relationship with Xiao Yang and stubbornly refused to admit his love and concern for her. However, in fact, in his heart, he has completely fallen in love with Xiao Yang, not directly, because he is afraid of losing.

If a man is willing to leave you, he will always stand up when you need help most and share the pain and happiness with you. Well, there is no doubt that he really loves you. Although he always tells you jokingly that "I am good to you because I pity you and no one loves you", he is willing to prove his sincerity and true love to you with concrete actions.

"Everyone says we are a good match, don't you think it's funny?"

Xiao Yang likes Xiao Lin, and friends around him know that they are a good match, so let Xiao Yang boldly confess to Xiao Lin. But Xiao Yang is worried that once Xiao Lin doesn't like himself and refuses himself, maybe two people can't even be friends.

Xiao Yang has been fond of Xiao Lin for five years since college. Seeing that both of them are old enough to talk about marriage, Kobayashi seems to have a suitor around him. Xiao Yang finally couldn't help it. He decided to test Xiao Lin, but he dared not express it directly. He chose the form of joking. He said to Kobayashi, "Everyone says we are a good match. Do you think it is funny? " This time, Kobayashi said without hesitation, "I think so, too." Xiao Yang finally understood Kobayashi's mind and expressed his feelings for Kobayashi for many years while it was hot.

"Everyone says we are a good match" is actually what it sounds like. If a woman hears that a man has always been kind to her, then she can basically be sure that he is in love with you. He hopes you can give him a clear answer and let his love fall.

A man who will "joke" with you in this way obviously likes you and wants to be with you. If two people like each other, they can try to be together in case they grow old together. Of course, to judge whether a man really loves you, you can't just listen to what he says, but also see what he does. Finally, I wish all lovers well.