"Can raising children really prevent old age?" The aunt taught everyone a lesson with her own personal experience. what do you think?

Who didn't want to have a son in the early years? If a daughter is born, many people even think that it is losing money, and abortion is common.

Take our family as an example. When my mother was young, my grandmother always told her to have another son while she was still alive, or she would be laughed at by everyone. But my mother has always insisted on her own ideas. Now, after my mother retired, she is very busy every day. My sister and I often go home to see her, take her out to travel twice a year, and have gifts on holidays. Everyone says they envy her.

In addition, my menstrual family gave birth to two sons. At first, my family was very happy. They couldn't wait to tell the world the good news. But what about now? I took out all my savings to buy a house for my son, but they only went home once a year after they got married. They didn't even call frequently, and no one was around to take care of them when they were sick.

So now many people will ask, can raising children really prevent old age? We interviewed an aunt around us, and her answer taught us a lesson.

When the son was born, it just happened to catch up with the national family planning policy. At that time, only one child could be born, and my son grew up in everyone's hands. His father and I were both civil servants at that time, and we tried our best to give him the best in both study and life.

Later, when the child grew up and bought him a car and a house, we almost spent all our savings. At that time, we couldn't help but sigh, if only we had a daughter, so that the two of us wouldn't have so much pressure.

In fact, my son didn't live at home after he got married. He took his daughter-in-law to another city for development. He goes home at most three times a year, making phone calls or making money on holidays. We have a retirement salary, so we don't need his money.

My son was busy for him before he got married. After he got married, his family was not busy for a long time, and his relationship with his daughter-in-law was not very good. But every time we have problems, my son helps her. Actually, I can understand, but I really feel bad.

Even when the quarrel was fierce, my daughter-in-law said that if you do this again, I will not give you old-age care in the future, so I am sometimes very sad. I do my best for them, but as long as something happens to make them unhappy, in exchange for not giving you a pension, all my previous efforts are in vain.

But think about it carefully, why should I expect you to be a stranger to support the elderly? What if a son can't count on his daughter-in-law?

You can raise children to prevent old age. If you have an unreasonable daughter-in-law, can you really support the elderly? Sometimes I think having a daughter is not necessarily a bad thing.

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It is often said that it is 90 12 years to raise children for old age. If you have a daughter, won't you be able to support the elderly?

Just like the TV series "Everything is Fine" which was popular some time ago, even if Su Mingyu was not liked by her parents when she was a child, wouldn't she be the person who made the greatest contribution after her parents got old? What happened to Su Daqiang? Do you still have to rely on this daughter?

As children, we should also try to understand our parents. They have worked hard to raise us, and it is our duty to support them.

You can take care of your parents, and it is not a regular monthly pension, nor is it an irregular telephone greeting. When an old man is old, what he needs most is companionship. Why not spend more time chatting with their parents when they are still alive, even if it is a simple chat, and accompany her to see the world when they are still walking?