How do senior three parents get along with their children and be parents of senior three students?

Senior three is the most important year for children. How can parents get along with their children in this year and help them in life and study? Come and have a look with me!

1 How do senior three parents get along with their children? 1. Don't nag. The school life of senior three students is already tense, which leads to more or less psychological pressure on students. At this time, parents should not blindly grasp their creed of "expecting children to succeed, expecting women to succeed" and use words to force their children. It is better to give children a relatively quiet environment to review their lessons. Students with rebellious psychology will get less and less satisfactory grades.

2. Don't compare with others. Don't tell children "What happened to other children", "What prize did other children win", "You eat better than others, and how to study worse than others" ..... This will seriously hurt children's self-esteem. You can see the same grades as children. When they grow up, they will be sad because they have not won an award or achieved a certain achievement. One or two words of yours will make children feel that their parents look down on themselves and then directly deny themselves.

3. encourage more. Unstable grades are not children's failures, but small failures. This does not mean that children will not get good grades in the future. Killing a student with a stick is a deadly weapon before the college entrance examination. Parents who have this weapon need to pay attention, and it may not be too late to generalize. The market encourages children to understand that they are the best in your heart, and only when there is help can they be motivated.

4. Don't spoil it too much. With senior three students at home, it is inevitable to be nervous, but there is no need to give up other jobs in life, such as going to work, because of nervousness. Some parents take annual leave to take care of their children's daily life in order to realize their dreams of twins. If people are suddenly idle, they will find no sense of belonging, just like people who are working suddenly retire, don't know what to do and can't find their direction. People who can't find the direction will inexplicably put pressure on others, especially children. They will feel that there is a monitor installed at home, and someone will always stick it on their door to see if they are asleep, chatting with friends or playing games ... What should our students do if they are uncomfortable at home? As long as you take care of everything, you can prepare anything you need.

5. Understand them and give them some space. Not all emotions can find a reasonable outlet. The strings in senior three students' brains are more important than their parents, which can be described as "explosion". If it is broken, it will be dangerous. If they are upset by some inexplicable problems, don't bother them, give them more understanding and support, and give them some room to think, and they will understand your pains.

1 How to become a qualified partner in the learning process of senior three parents?

Both parents have experienced their school days, losing their frustration and gaining their joy. In the face of children, parents are more worried and concerned about their children than empathy. But this can't be an unwarranted accusation against children and always guarding them. Many parents feel "wronged" when they talk about the "accompanying reading" experience in the evening: obviously sacrificing the rest time, sitting next to them and not telling their children what to do, but also playing a supervisory role, how did it cause their children to resent it? To put it another way, in children's eyes, "accompanying reading" is an interference to their study, more like surveillance in disguise. Parents may wish to help their children sort out the learning content of the day and share the learning results with them after meals.

Create a harmonious and warm family atmosphere

After entering the third year of high school, I believe that every child will try his best to fight. Children themselves are under a lot of pressure, so parents should not care too much about their children's performance in each exam. As long as the child tries his best, any result is acceptable. Every day when children come home from school, it is best to have a warm and harmonious family atmosphere, joking, telling jokes, eating and chatting, and talking about some relaxed and interesting topics. In such an environment, children feel comfortable and refreshed, and it is easy to have a pleasant emotional experience and a positive spirit to reduce stress. When children are willing to communicate and talk with you, parents can learn about their children's study and life from all aspects.

Parents should adjust their mentality.

Parents should adjust their mentality to be normal, calm, understanding, caring, encouraging and trusting; Happy college entrance examination, happy college entrance examination; Respect students' personality, review methods and coping strategies, as long as students are right. Parents should pay attention to controlling their emotions and comfort students to cope with various troubles, such as: memory decline; The level does not rise but falls; The examination room is tense; Stress and anxiety, etc.

I recommend: a selection of inspirational messages from parents to senior three students.

Parents should lower their expectations, rather low than high, and stress rather low than high. Excessive expectations will lead to parents' mental imbalance and bring undue pressure to students. Anger at it may lead students to retreat and escape; Blaming and complaining may cause students' psychological rebellion; The requirement of high score may make students daunting; The pressure of study may make students feel at a loss.