What do you mean, "If you like it, you won't give an umbrella, if you live for a long time, you won't give a cigarette, and you won't make up for the loss"?

Do you like sending umbrellas? It means you can't give an umbrella when you have a wedding. The homonym of the word "umbrella" is "scattered", which is unlucky for the couple and uncomfortable to listen to.

Don't send cigarettes when you are alive: it means that you can't send cigarettes as a birthday present. The homonym of the word "smoke" is swallowing, which means death. Very unlucky. The host will never accept this gift.

You can't make up for the funeral with gifts. If you don't catch up with other people's days and want to visit your family, then the gift money can never be replenished. Doing so will make families who have lost their loved ones more miserable. It's bad morality to give gifts again!

No matter whether you send an umbrella or not, whether it is a wedding or other celebrations, giving gifts is very popular.

In the traditional sense, all kinds of gifts may not be very expensive, but they are also very particular, such as sugar and cloud cakes, which are mainly auspicious and wishful.

Sugar is sweet, cloud cakes are rising step by step, and others, such as oranges, pears and pears, mean "good luck".

When giving gifts, some things are absolutely forbidden, such as umbrellas.

Usually, it is estimated that no one will send an umbrella on holidays, not because there are any taboos, but because it feels strange to send an umbrella on holidays.

Sending umbrellas before was not only strange, but also taboo, because people thought you were cursing him.

This is mainly homophonic, because "umbrella" and "scattered" are homophonic, meaning scattered, which is a very bad meaning. Therefore, if you send an umbrella at a festive time, it is normal for the host's family to look pale and angry.

Birthdays of young people who don't smoke are called birthdays, and birthdays of old people are usually called birthdays. This is a good way to celebrate.

When you celebrate your birthday, of course, you will also receive many gifts. Naturally, they are all good things.

Birthday gifts are often objects that hope to live a long and healthy life. It doesn't matter whether the name is expensive or not. Well-meaning, such as Ganoderma lucidum, pine crane to prolong the year, turtle crane to bring spring and so on, all mean this.

When giving birthday presents, cigarettes are not allowed.

It is not that smoking is harmful to health, but that "smoke" and "pharynx" used to be homophonic. It is an unlucky behavior to send cigarettes to celebrate your birthday on a big day.

But now such taboos seem to be ignored. On the contrary, alcohol and tobacco are definitely various birthday gifts.

After the funeral, there is a word called "weddings and funerals". Traditionally, if an old man dies peacefully, it is a good thing. China people are used to putting on banquets, regardless of weddings, funerals and weddings.

When mourning, relatives and friends who come to mourn should also accompany the members.

But now everyone is busy at ordinary times, and not everyone can take time out to attend the funeral ceremony, so from time to time there will be situations where they can't attend.

At this time, people who feel that they should follow the ceremony should either find a way to go or ask someone to help them.

Money can be delayed for weddings, but absolutely not for funerals. If there is no accompanying member during the funeral, then this member does not have to go out again, especially after the funeral.

After all, funeral is not a happy thing, but an act of exposing people's scars in order to make up.

If you don't live in the countryside for decades or half a century, you won't know many things, and you may feel guilty.

Just say this "send an umbrella or not":

This "umbrella" is homophonic with "scattered". If you give someone an umbrella, they will definitely be jealous. It's a festive event, so why break up others?

Besides not giving umbrellas at weddings, fans are not allowed, because "fans" and "scattered" are also homophonic words.

Also, "no cigarettes":

This "smoke" is also homophonic with the dying "swallow". In rural areas, birthday wine is made to hope that the host family will live a long and healthy life. It is better to celebrate your birthday than Nanshan, and give gifts such as old pines and peaches. How can we hope to die?

So it is not appropriate to send cigarettes.

Besides, it is not appropriate to give clocks and watches as birthday gifts. This clock is homophonic with "final". Send a clock and it will become "final".

What does "make up for the loss" mean?

One year, a distant classmate of mine went to the old man's house. He sent a message in the WeChat group. I forgot to read WeChat all my life. Suddenly one day, I saw the message sent by my classmate, so I contacted other classmates and asked them if they had gone. They said yes, and I told him, can you help me with 500 yuan? I will give him a red envelope. He immediately turned me down, saying: I was buried in the mountains yesterday, and this gift can't be mended. If I can help you before going up the mountain yesterday, I can't make up for it today.

He also said: Is there anyone who sends messages like you? Do you expect another dead man to have a funeral in another room?

His words suddenly reminded me, yes, it is a mourning for the elderly at home. It is necessary to feel sorry for your loss. How can you curse others?

It's unlucky not to make up for the loss, and he also said that after the funeral, don't give gifts.

As for the saying in the countryside: "Don't give an umbrella if you like, don't give cigarettes if you live for a long time, and don't make it up after the funeral", I understand it this way. what do you think of it ?

If there is a happy event, don't send an umbrella, and "umbrella" is homophonic "scattered". Old people don't send cigarettes on their birthdays, and "cigarettes" are homophonic and "swallowed". I didn't go to the funeral, so I didn't make up for it later, lest I think of my sadness again. These are local customs and habits, and the purpose is not to bring people a bad mood and associate people with bad things.

China's culture is extensive and profound, with thousands of years of civilization history. In the long process of historical development, no matter what you do, certain rules and taboos have been formed.

"Don't send an umbrella if you like it, don't send cigarettes if you live long, and don't make up for the loss" is something that pays attention to human etiquette. It is an important part of folk culture. Although it has some idealistic elements, it is always for good luck. We still try our best to understand it and must respect it. Otherwise, you will cut your feet and do bad things in order to worship God.

One: "Do you like giving umbrellas?"

"Happiness" here refers to marriage. On this occasion, as relatives and friends, we should say something auspicious and festive, such as "a hundred years of harmony", "growing old together" and "having a baby early".

Gifts should be accompanied by auspicious things. Remember not to give gifts such as umbrellas, clocks and watches, and avoid giving the number "three". Because umbrella is homophonic with scattering, it has a bad meaning. Giving umbrellas is a big no-no at this wedding.

Two: "Never send cigarettes"

In the past, people didn't call their birthdays until they were over 50. People of this age want good health and long life. When relatives and friends come to celebrate their birthdays, it is natural to say something like "Happiness is like the East China Sea" and "Life is not as good as Nanshan" to make the old people happy.

Sending cigarettes on this occasion has two bad meanings:

1: Smoke and pharynx are homophonic, and the death of an old man is also called "pharynx". Sending cigarettes on this occasion, people who are too worried will inevitably think that they are cursing others.

Nowadays, many people realize that smoking is harmful to health. On this occasion, relatives and friends wish the elderly a long and healthy life. It's hard not to doubt your intention and purpose when delivering cigarettes.

Three: "Don't make up for the loss"

This sentence means that if someone else has a funeral, if you didn't catch it then, don't make it up afterwards.

Funeral is accompanied by ceremony, which has two meanings and purposes. First, in order to express my condolences to the deceased, I now give you a heart. The second is to alleviate the urgent needs of the children of the deceased. In the past, almost all these gifts were spent on the funeral of the dead.

If you make amends afterwards, you are in danger of cursing other people's homes for another funeral. If you meet someone who is too worried, you will be unhappy if you spend money.

China is a vast country, and different regions have different customs and pay attention to it, which we must understand. Although these customs may not have any scientific reason, why try to please others and make them unhappy?

There are many old sayings in rural areas, which are based on something, linked with the name of something, and combined with people's association, and come up with many interesting and taboo sentences, so that people can pay attention to them in their lives and not make routine mistakes. So as not to cause people's unhappiness.

Whether you like giving umbrellas or not, you don't give cigarettes when you are alive, but you can make up for them if you lose them. Let me explain the meaning of this sentence separately.

Whether to send an umbrella or not, we all know that the happy event is gratifying, so everything must have a festive side. China people are the most fastidious, and all items should be festive in color and name. Let's say something about your personal belongings. If it's from someone else, you should pay more attention to avoid causing the owner's unhappiness. If someone holds a wedding, you give them an umbrella.' Umbrella' and' San' are the same sound, which means breaking up and leaving. Today people are very happy, very happy. What do you mean by giving them an umbrella? Therefore, sending an umbrella at a happy event will make the host unhappy and cause disgust.

Don't send cigarettes when you are alive. Birthday for the elderly is to make them live longer than Nanshan and happier than Donghai. It is not appropriate to send cigarettes at this time. "Smoke" and "pharynx" are the same sound. It means that the birthday of a person who has died is to let everyone add life to the elderly, but you send cigarettes. What do you mean, let the old man die? This is a big taboo at birthday parties.

On the other hand, smoking is harmful to health. Nowadays, people pay most attention to health, especially the elderly who don't smoke, and they can't send cigarettes.

People can't make up for the loss. Nowadays, people should bring gifts to do everything. Gifts are the embodiment of friendship in the process of people's communication, and also the respect for the host. China is an ancient civilization with many exquisite gifts. The wedding ceremony can be followed by the ceremony, and there is no big problem, and the host will gladly accept it. Doing white things is different. You must pay attention to the time when the host family cooperates with the ceremony. Don't forget that it would be a big mistake to make up after the main house is finished.

Funeral is a sad thing. I've already finished it. If you make up the gift again, it will make the host sad. If you make up the gift again, it will make the host feel, do you want me to make up it again? Making up for it is also the biggest disrespect for the master. Therefore, we must pay attention to the time node when doing white things.

In fact, these details have nothing to do with things at all, but everyone insists on guessing together. People always yearn for beauty, and many things, whether they exist or not, are established in people's lives, so we must abide by them so as not to cause unhappiness on both sides and become a handle for outsiders' jokes.

What do you mean, "If you like it, you won't give an umbrella, if you live for a long time, you won't give a cigarette, and you won't make up for the loss"? China's culture is extensive and profound, and it has formed some established rules in dealing with many things in the course of thousands of years' development.

Send an umbrella or not: it means never send an umbrella when someone is doing a happy event. Umbrella and "San" are homophonic, indicating breaking up. If the gift is related to this word, it is unlucky and will certainly not be liked by the owner.

Don't send cigarettes on birthdays: you can't send cigarettes as gifts when others celebrate birthdays. Smoke and "pharynx" are homophonic and can be associated with "pharynx". The old man is very taboo about this word. In addition, smoking is also related to cremation, which is also a taboo for the elderly and their relatives.

You can't make up for a funeral with a ceremony. If someone dies, the person who should go to the funeral missed it for some special reason, so missing it is missing it. Never make up a funeral afterwards, it will make the bereaved family more miserable. It's bad morality to give gifts again! Of course, if it is a happy event, the accompanying ceremony can be made up at any time.

The above answers are for reference.

These three sentences are based on the sounds or thoughts of Chinese characters, reflecting that people lacked certain knowledge of popular science in the past and were afraid of some personal and family phenomena.

"Do you like giving umbrellas?" In the word umbrella, it's unlucky to get married for a long time. Sending an umbrella means that the two sons will be separated in the future.

"Live without a cigarette" is a happy birthday. Greetings are often words such as longevity is better than Nanshan Mountain and happiness is like the East China Sea, which indicates that you will live a long life. When a smoker dies, he will burn it with cigarettes.

"No atonement after death" refers to a person whose family died. Looks like another one died.

So you can't express this "homophonic" thing. On the one hand, it does not respect others, on the other hand, it causes troubles and disputes and affects unity with others.

Today, my uncle must talk to young people about this problem. Otherwise, if you do bad things with good intentions, people will scold you for not knowing the rules at the shower.

In rural areas, gifts are given at weddings and funerals, which is called reciprocity. However, there are many rules and taboos in giving gifts. For example, the old people in rural areas often say "don't give umbrellas, don't give cigarettes, and don't make up for the loss", which is to warn everyone to be cautious in giving gifts, to be auspicious in giving gifts, and to celebrate with prizes. So, what does this old saying often used by rural elderly mean? Below, the old uncle will analyze it for young people one by one, and everyone should remember it.

The so-called "do you want to send an umbrella" means asking everyone not to send an umbrella or a fan when relatives and friends get married and give gifts. Because when our ancestors invented characters, most of them had different pronunciations and different characters, and the meaning of characters was even more miles. For example, this "umbrella" is different from "scattering", "fan" and "umbrella" are tools to shelter from the sun and rain, the fan is a tool to enjoy the cool, and "scattering" means breaking up and separating. Therefore, it is taboo to give an umbrella and a fan when you get married. The couple don't want to get married forever, do they?

The so-called "don't smoke on your birthday" means that when the elderly celebrate their birthdays, they will send cigarettes as gifts. Some young people think that the old man likes smoking, so they give him two packs of cigarettes as gifts, but you have made a big taboo. Because the idiom "smoke" is called "Yunfei smoke goes out", which means disappear. People celebrate their birthdays to live forever and be healthier. And you're willing to die early if you don't send a cigarette curse? Never send it. It is also taboo to send bells for someone's birthday, which means giving him a "farewell". Everyone must remember.

As we all know, it is unlucky to die at home. After death, every family should do things for the deceased, hold a banquet and be buried together. In rural areas, only people like to get married in advance and then have a banquet, and will not have two family funerals. No matter what reason you didn't send gifts or condolences, as long as the deceased has been buried, the funeral is over. Never pretend not to understand and ask for trouble, because people don't like it in their hearts. Do you remember?

This is my personal understanding of this sentence. I don't know what you think. Your comments are welcome.

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I am glad to see that some miniature of China traditional culture can influence the present. Many of these proverbs, or rules, passed down from mouth to mouth reflect the traditional Confucianism of the ancients.

China has always attached great importance to auspicious issues, so there are often homophones and taboo words.

The newcomer said that it is extremely unlucky to send an umbrella or not, because the homonym of an umbrella is "scattered", so you must never send an umbrella, otherwise you will not blame you for being alienated in the future.

The same is true if you don't send cigarettes. Smoke homophones "Swallow", which coincides with people's birthdays. This is a festive day, but it is impolite to give people a cigarette curse to "swallow" and should be avoided.

No compensation after funeral means no compensation after funeral. In the traditional culture of China, weddings and funerals are held to entertain guests, and relatives and neighbors usually prepare a small gift to show comfort. But it is really unnecessary to keep the ceremony, which is not only ungrateful, but also easy to cause people's sadness. It is really inappropriate.