How to get out of the shadow of lovelorn, meet love rat, and still fall in love?

It is inevitable that a woman will meet one or two love rat in her life, so this is not something she will meet alone. Many women are related to the same disease. It is not terrible to meet love rat, but it is terrible to meet love rat who is still in love. Even after the breakup, he couldn't get out of the shadows. This is asking for trouble. You know, no matter how sad you are, love rat won't take you seriously. He will be embarrassed. We should find a suitable new object as soon as possible, so as to restore our happy life as soon as possible and make love rat regret it.

I once met a super love rat. I really didn't think I would be so unlucky. When we first started dating, we thought we hit it off, so we still felt lucky to meet such a good man. But after dating for a period of time, I found that he was a married man and had been married for many years. With children, my mood fell to the bottom.

Although it hurts, I don't want it to be true, but it is the truth. He didn't stop there. Later, he knew that he was a love rat who cheated money and sex. He cheated not only me, but also many other women. A woman discovered my existence from his QQ space, so she added my QQ and let me sue him together. This woman said that love rat cheated her of tens of thousands of dollars and other women. He is dating several women at the same time, and many of his words are lies.

However, at that time, I didn't have the courage to sue him, and besides being hurt emotionally, I didn't lose any money because I found it early, so forget it. At that time, in order to go out as soon as possible, I asked relatives and friends to introduce me. After several blind dates, I decided on a suitable association and slowly walked out. However, this kind of thing has become a secret that I can't open in my life. It happens occasionally, but it won't affect my normal life.